

Enneagram and Marriage
Christa Hardin, MA
The Enneagram and Marriage Podcast, hosted by Christa Hardin, MA, is rooted in two decades of experience counseling and coaching couples. On top of her expert marriage advice, Christa uses the Enneagram to add another layer of understanding in how we work as individuals and gives us deeper insight into how we connect and shine together in marriage and relationships across the collective community.
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Feb 19, 2025 • 21min
Understanding Your Arrows: Why Your Partner Seems Different Under Stress
Ever wonder why your partner acts completely different under stress? Join Christa as we explore the Enneagram arrows - your map to understanding relationship patterns in both stress and growth, as we move expansively from just your main type to see other typical moves we can expect from each Enneagram pattern. Whether you're navigating challenges or building connection, discover how these natural movements affect your marriage. Perfect for couples seeking deeper understanding of their relationship dynamics! 🌟💫 Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/RYZRehYmep4
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Looking for coaching help? Don't forget to sign up for the Enneagram Intensive for a deeper dive with Christa https://enneagramandmarriage.myflodesk.com/intensive
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
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Feb 17, 2025 • 39min
The Marriage You Want: Breaking Free from Stereotypes with Sheila Rae Gregoire, 8
Join us for a powerful must-listen conversation with bestselling author Sheila Rae Gregoire, 8, about creating true partnership in marriage. Using evidence-based research and biblical wisdom, Sheila and her team challenge outdated stereotypes while offering practical paths to genuine intimacy! Whether you're seeking a deeper connection or wanting to build a stronger team approach with your spouse, this episode offers fresh perspective and real hope. Get ready for the truth that transforms! 🌟💫 Listen on YouTube: https://youtu.be/PhcocdJomLw
Get Sheila's book here on pre-order! https://a.co/d/8yqOfgU (Ships out March 11, 2025)
Join the Enneagram Relationship Intensive (Limited Space!) https://enneagramandmarriage.myflodesk.com/intensive
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or contact us for coaching or other questions right here: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
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Feb 12, 2025 • 22min
“Let Them” in Love & Marriage: Stop Trying to Change Your Partner and Start Living Your Life
Discover the power of accepting your partner as they are, freeing your relationship from the urge to change them. Explore how integrating the Enneagram fosters self-awareness and compassion, leading to deeper connections. Personal stories reveal the importance of autonomy, encouraging couples to embrace their differences. Gain practical wisdom to transform your marriage by prioritizing acceptance over improvement. Dive into a journey of authentic love and learn to give your partner the freedom to be themselves!

Feb 10, 2025 • 19min
Perfect Timing: When to Have Hard Conversations in Marriage According to the Best Relationship Research
Timing can make or break a crucial conversation in marriage. Learn the science-backed best times for difficult discussions, understand your partner's readiness signals, and discover type-specific approaches to timing-sensitive conversations. Transform potential conflicts into opportunities for deeper connection. We talk about the tips through the lens of the most powerful marriage systems, Gottman, EFT, CBT, IFS, and, of course, Enneagram! Listen here! Watch on YouTube: https://youtu.be/n6o3naNkaYs
Join the Enneagram Relationship Intensive (Limited Space!) https://enneagramandmarriage.myflodesk.com/intensive
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
(You can use your Voice Memos app on your iPhone to record.)
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Feb 4, 2025 • 1h
Breaking the Patterns That Break You w/Author Tori Hope Petersen, 4w3
Join us with bestselling author Tori Hope Petersen as we explore breaking free from patterns that hold us back in relationships just as she launches her new book, "Breaking the Patterns That Break You: Healing From the Pain of Your Past and Finding Real Hope That Lasts". From foster care to flourishing family, Tori shares powerful insights about healing generational wounds while building healthy connection. Whether you're carrying childhood patterns or supporting a partner through healing, this episode offers hope and practical wisdom for breaking cycles and building love. Get ready for deep truth and transformative hope! 🌱✨
Tori Hope Petersen is a bestselling author, sought-after speaker, Bible teacher, and lover of people. Since coming to faith, she has shared her testimony and life as authentically as she can to offer hope to others. Named by Outreach Magazine as one of “20 Rising Leaders for This Generation and the Next,” Tori is known for her compassionate voice on the topic of healing juxtaposed with her fierce advocacy work for the vulnerable. At home she is a wife and mama who enjoys cooking with her children. With a deep value for family, community, and hospitality, Tori and her family love to make extra food for whoever might stop by. Watch on YouTube! https://youtu.be/bNtGjN9d9ec
Find Tori's brand-new book right here! https://www.amazon.com/Breaking-Patterns-That-Break-You/dp/1400250048
Find Tori's website here! https://www.torihopepetersen.com/
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
(You can use your Voice Memos app on your iPhone to record.)
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Feb 3, 2025 • 54min
Secure Love: Building Unshakeable Connection in Marriage w/EJ and Terah Kerwin 5-2
Join us with EJ Kerwin, LPC and Terah Kerwin, LMFT (5-2 pairing), founders of Relationship Renovation as we explore how every couple can build secure, stable connections together. Drawing from their work with countless couples across seasons and temperament combinations, join us for an episode filled with wisdom for creating unshakeable bonds. Whether you're naturally anxious or avoidant, an external processor or internal thinker, this episode offers hope and concrete steps for deepening your connection. Get ready to transform your relationship's foundation! 🏠💫 Watch on YouTube
Find help with Relationship Renovation here: https://relationshiprenovation.com/
Follow EJ & Terah on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/relationship_renovation/
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or contact us for coaching or other questions right here: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
(You can use your Voice Memos app on your iPhone to record.)
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Jan 28, 2025 • 29min
Healing Childhood Wounds Together: Supporting Your Partner's Growth Path
Join Christa as we explore the delicate dance of healing childhood wounds within marriage. Discover how to create safe spaces for growth, understand your partner's healing journey, and navigate triggers with grace. Whether you're supporting a partner through their past pain or seeking understanding of your own patterns, this episode offers practical wisdom and hopeful strategies for growing together. Let's transform old wounds into deeper connection! 🌟💫 Watch on YouTube
✨Join the Enneagram & Marriage Coaching and Masterclass Certification with Christa here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-e-m-coaching-masterclass
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or contact us for coaching or other questions, connect right here: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
(You can use your Voice Memos app on your iPhone to record.)
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Jan 26, 2025 • 49min
The Enneagram in Real Life: Breaking Down Barriers with Stephanie Barron Hall, 3
Ready to move beyond theory into real transformation? Join us as bestselling author Stephanie Barron Hall unpacks how different types accidentally trigger each other, why some people love conflict while others run from it, and what to do when communication styles clash. Whether you're new to the Enneagram or a seasoned explorer, this episode offers fresh insights and practical tools for real-life growth. Get ready to understand yourself and others in a whole new way! 🌟💫 Watch on YouTube
Find Steph's website and book bonuses here! https://www.ninetypes.co/enneagram-in-real-life
Find Steph on Instagram here! https://www.instagram.com/ninetypesco/
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or contact us for coaching or other questions right here: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
(You can use your Voice Memos app on your iPhone to record.)
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Jan 22, 2025 • 35min
Your Partner's Enneagram Habits: How to Stop Taking Them Personally
Ever feel like your partner's Enneagram patterns are pulling you into a dance you didn't sign up for? In this transformative episode, we explore how to support your partner's growth journey without losing yourself in their challenges. Using real-life examples (including a story about a faulty airplane seat!), discover practical ways to love your partner through their growth edge while staying grounded in your own path. Get ready for freedom, joy, and deeper connection! 🌟✨ Watch on YouTube
✨Join the Enneagram & Marriage Coaching and Masterclass Certification with Christa here! Use code MARRIAGE for $500 off! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-e-m-coaching-masterclass
We would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or contact us for coaching or other questions right here: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-us
Head on over to https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/ to check out all of our amazing freebies and resources!
Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | Facebook @ enneagramandmarriage
Have a specific question? Fill out this form to get your personal questions answered now!
Leave us a comment or question by sending an MP4 recording to enneagramandmarriage@gmail.com.
(You can use your Voice Memos app on your iPhone to record.)
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Jan 20, 2025 • 50min
Family Patterns & Growing Grace: Navigating Life's Transitions with Ro Elliott, 2-9
What happens when your kids grow up and start their own families? How do you maintain boundaries while building bridges? In this heart-warming episode, Ro Elliot shares wisdom about using the Enneagram to navigate family transitions with grace. Whether you're becoming a grandparent, welcoming new in-laws, or simply watching your family dynamics evolve, this episode offers practical insights for growing together through life's changes. Get ready for stories, strategies, and soulful wisdom about creating a legacy of love! 🌟👨👩👧👦✨Find Ro on her website here: https://www.roelliottconsulting.com/Find Ro on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/roelliott/?hl=enWe would love to hear from you! Leave your questions or messages for Christa or contact us for coaching or other questions right here: https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/contact-usFor more freebies and fun, check out the website, www.EnneagramandMarriage.com and our Instagram @EnneagramandMarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices