Enneagram and Marriage

Acclaimed trauma specialist Aundi Kolber discusses trauma processing, resilience, and becoming strong like water. She explores balancing authenticity vs. belonging, redefining strength through the Enneagram, and recognizing safety cues to prevent trauma responses. The podcast delves into the art of attuning, responding, and tending for self-care, highlighting the impact of presence and reflection on personal growth.

In this insightful conversation, Jennifer Passmore, a school principal, pastor's wife, and mom of four, shares her experiences as an Enneagram Five. She delves into the complexities of marriage and family life from a Five's perspective. Discover how Fives navigate emotional connections and their tendency to withdraw. Jennifer provides candid advice on overcoming scarcity mentality and highlights the importance of personal space in relationships. Her reflections offer valuable insights for anyone looking to understand and support their Five partners better.

When we don’t have a healthy foundation or direction for exploring conflict well together, things tend to fall apart and keep falling apart - conflict management is essential as we have been discussing all month. Today on this deeper dive into conflict, we are joined by author Jackie Brewster as she walks us through her practical, hands-on brand new 7-week workbook on using extremely practical and organized Enneagram tools and tips to help you grow personally and heal these threads of discord between you. Our E + M audience also gets a special 30% off of Jackie's book, The Enneagram & Your Marriage, right here! You can also find her book at Amazon.com here! You can learn more about Jackie at her website here or her popular IG account here! Along with many others, Jackie and Christa will also be speaking at the Gospel for Enneagram Conference coming up this April. Get your free ticket here! Want to watch the conference on your own time versus live + get access to bonuses? Get your all-access pass right here and get more fun, freebies, and extras! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join us for a cup of matcha and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Today we are interviewing singer, dietician, momma, and wife, Heather Richmond, Enneagram Type 6 on all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 6! Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with a 6 The Compliant/Dependent Stance (and the Counterphobic side of a 6 also!) Present Orientation of a 6 from a 6 What a 6 appreciates in marriage When a 6  is spinning with anxiety and self-doubt And more! Grab the Deep Dive on Type 6 Here! Visit Heather's page >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Psychologist Dr. Wyatt has an important mission: to reduce the divorce rate one marriage at a time and today on the Enneagram and Marriage podcast, he does just that. As one of the leading marriage and relationships podcasters, today we are in for a treat as he vulnerably shares not only from an objective clinical lens but from a visceral empathy from his own marriage trauma healing over seasons as well. As we study conflict together all month, this episode gives you a very practical look at shaping your marriage healthily through one of Dr. Wyatt's nine tools - the five-minute, small but mighty "Bullseye" tool so you can get moving in a healthy direction right away! Show links: Find Dr. Wyatt Fisher's clinical marriage podcast here, and more about his practice, app, and website >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with an authentic and real person of each personality type as well who has been journeying for awhile, too. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing artist and illustrator, Alaina Pompa, Enneagram Type 7 of Ray of Light (the artist behind our glow guides and planner!) all about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask a 7 and all the ways you want and need to grow (and glow!) with a 7! Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with a 7 The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance Future Orientation of a 7 from a 7 When you feel like your 7 won't slow down and address the feelings under the motion When a 7 won't change their planning fixation And more! Grab our Glow Guides and E + M 52 Week Planner Designed by Alaina Here! Visits Alaina's Ray of Light Shop >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Join us for a deep dive into a relationship chat on our repressed centers of intelligence, or stances, with Suzanne Stabile, best-selling author, speaker, and Master Enneagram teacher (The Road Back to You, The Path Between Us, The Journey Toward Wholeness). Suzanne shares her wisdom from connecting with thousands of families and across thirty-five years of marriage, offering honest advice for marriage success. As we discuss changing instincts across seasons and a conversation about our stances or repressed Centers of Intelligence, we increasingly learn to balance thinking, feeling, and doing with more consistency and balance with intention.  Show links: Find Suzanne's books and courses, including her The Table Membership >> here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In today’s mini-podcast just-for-fun episode, we take you through the nine Enneagram types by way of some of our favorite classical characters in the Jane Austen novels! In particular, we walk you through the 9 types as found in Persuasion, Pride and Prejudice, Sense and Sensibility, and Emma.  Join Christa as we analyze character arcs, talk love tropes, share mini-book reviews, talk Enneagram typing, and most of all, bring love lessons from the world's number one romantic writer of all time together to bring refreshment and wisdom to our days together!   Become an E + M Certified Coach!   Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here!       Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this "Life" series, you don't just get to hear about marriage with each of the types but for you to experience sitting with a person of each personality type as well. Join us for a cup of coffee and convo as we continue to drip out an Enneagram series of chats with each type! Today we are interviewing writer, teacher, and master organizer, Laurie Palau, Enneagram Type 8 of This Organized Life about all the super big questions you've always wanted to ask an Eight as well as a few tips about her very 8 way of bringing clarity and order to a sometimes overwhelmed family with her worldwide business! You'll learn all about Laurie's major wiring and ways of love with an 8. Specifically, you will hear about: Marriage and family with an 8 The Aggressive/Assertiveness Stance Future Orientation of an 8 from an 8 When you feel bulldozed by an 8 When an 8 won't apologize And more! https://www.simplyborganized.com/ Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

This Ash Wednesday, as we consider our fallibility in loving perfectly and yet our strong need for community and connection as humans, we're talking about four encompassing and diverse ways of love in a marriage. Join us as we discuss eros, filial love, affectionate love, and agape love so you can see which ones you're thriving in and which ones you need support in with today's refreshing reminders as we allow in some practical encouragement from CS Lewis' work, The Four Loves. We're also doing a brief reflection together so we can engage with God for strength and encouragement on the journey together this Ash Wednesday. Jan Richardson's Ash Wednesday: Blessing the Dust Become an E + M Certified Coach - Classes Start Feb 23! Sign up here! Head on over to enneagramandmarriage.com to check out all of our Enneagram & Marriage freebies and resources! Instagram: @enneagramandmarriage | @enneagrammarriagepod Facebook @enneagramandmarriage   Love what you're learning on E + M? We would be honored if you'd leave a review so others can find us too right here at Apple or on Spotify here! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices