

Negotiate Your Best Life Podcast with Rebecca Zung
Rebecca Zung, Esq. | YAP Media
It is time for all of us to grow, expand and feel the metamorphosis that we call go through as a result of successfully navigating and negotiating the toughest times and the narcissists in our lives. Divorce, death, breakups, rejection in any form, mean people and narcissists are all just a small part of the hard knocks of life that we all experience. Maybe even more toxic than the external debris flying at us constantly is our own internal “head trash”. As humans, none of us are immune. We all have to deal with it all. In this podcast, we are talking to people who have successfully navigated and negotiated their way past their external and internal challenges and found their way to a place where they are finally living their best lives. Our guests know when they come on this show that they are going to have to get real, get raw and bare their souls then share how they found the path out of the black hole and are now living their best lives. We’ve broken free, we’ve revolutionized the conversation about divorce. Now we are revolutionizing the conversation© about negotiation. Come listen, laugh with us, cry with us, learn and be inspired with us. Today a great day to start Negotiating Your Best Life! Rebecca Zung is one of the Top 1% of attorneys in the nation, having been recognized by U.S. News as a “Best Lawyer in America”. She is the author of the bestselling books, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win, (Foreword by Robert Shapiro) and Breaking Free: A Step-by-Step Divorce Guide for Achieving Emotional, Physical, and Spiritual Freedom, and the host of the top podcast, Negotiate Your Best Life. Her perspectives are in high demand by television and print outlets, as she has been featured in or on Extra, Forbes, Huffington Post, Newsweek, Time, Dr. Drew, NPR Talk Radio, Good Day New York and CBS Los Angeles among numerous others. Now based in Los Angeles, she is continuing to serve through her negotiation training programs, which are accessible through online on-demand formats as well as in live group formats. She has taken thousands of people from drama, trauma and chaos to living lives of freedom, possibility, prosperity and purpose.
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Aug 1, 2022 • 31min
How Narcissists See You As Public Enemy #1 with Rebecca Zung on Negotiate Your Best Life #335
Do you have a narcissist in your life? If so, you may feel like you're constantly walking on eggshells. You never know what might set them off, and they always seem to find something wrong with you. Rebecca Zung, Top 1% lawyer, YouTuber and narcissist negotiation expert, shares 5 ways narcissists view you as their public enemy #1 and talks about how you can get the leverage you need to fight back and be victorious.____________________________________________________________________Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERELearn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 25, 2022 • 38min
Transform Your Pain Into Purpose with Guest Laila Aitken on Rebecca Zung’s Negotiate Your Best Life #334
Struck by her own 10-year-long experience with divorce, Laila was exhausted and thrown by the complexities and lack of consolidated information to help her close that chapter. She longed for a safe place to access emotional and organizational help, with professionals, resources, tools, and a warm community of those who already understand the situation. Over time, this sparked Laila to create Split.fyi to propel more people in her situation forward. Laila focuses on being a positive thinking partner to help educate and support others to create their own personal roadmap, navigate the tides, and reclaim their confidence and inner balance.Laila is a mom, accredited mediator, certified CDC Certified Divorce Coach® and in the Better Apart Method, a global citizen, and hopes to inspire everyone to take agency over their lives by educating and supporting as many people as she can to rest, reclaim and rebirth before, during and after divorce, breakup or a major transition in their life.Split.fyi website: https://splitfyi.com/YouTube: SplitfyiInstagram: @splitfyiFollow Laila's IG: @thesplitcoach____________________________________________________________________Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE: http://slay.rebeccazung.com/Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 18, 2022 • 49min
How to Survive Narcissism with Guest Christian Gottlieb on Rebecca Zung’s Negotiate Your Best Life #333
Today's guest is Christian Gottlieb who was in the process of negotiating with his ex wife when he realized that he was a constant victim of gaslighting - that he was facing a narcissist. He completed the SLAY course as part of his preparation for legal separation and is now happily living on his own.At a time where society was not much aware about narcissism and how it has been negatively affecting individuals, Christian constantly sought answers. In today's episode, he talks about his journey from being a victim of narcissism to understanding it, how he managed to survive it for a 25 year marriage, and overcoming this very toxic personality.____________________________________________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE: http://rebeccazung.com/liveLearn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 11, 2022 • 53min
Have Relationships with GRIT with Guest Kathryn Gordon on Rebecca Zung’s Negotiate Your Best Life #332
Kathryn Gordon is the bestselling author of Relationship GRIT and host of the Kathryn for Real podcast.Kathryn is a graduate of Old Dominion University and became a top producer in sales for several companies before deciding to follow her passion as an actress and model.After the birth of her children, she focused on raising them and helping operate her husband’s growing speaking and consulting business. With her children off to college, she has returned for her second act, investing in real estate and movies, mentoring women, supporting several charities, writing and speaking to audiences about the keys to a great relationship and loves sharing the truth on her podcast.Grab Kathryn's book right here: https://relationshipgritbook.com/Follow Kathryn:website and podcast: kathrynforreal.comInstragram: @kathryngordon____________________________________________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE: http://rebeccazung.com/liveLearn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jul 4, 2022 • 38min
Divorcing Your Narcissist: You Can’t Make This Up! with Guest Tracy Malone on Rebecca Zung’s Negotiate Your Best Life #331
Tracy Malone is the author of the best-selling book - DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up! She is also speaker, Educator, and International emotional resilience coach.Tracy is a surTHRIVER of abuse herself and the founder of NarcissistAbuseSupport.com. She has a popular YouTube channel and podcast that have reached millions of survivors.Grab Tracy's Book right here: DIVORCING YOUR NARCISSIST: You Can’t Make This Shit Up!Follow Tracy on Instagram: @tracyamalone____________________________________________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE: http://rebeccazung.com/liveLearn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 27, 2022 • 57min
From Tragedy to Transformation with Chikodi Chima and Rebecca Zung on Negotiate Your Best Life #330
Chikodi Chima is a writer and multimedia producer based in San Francisco. He has written about technology and entrepreneurship for Mashable, Gigaom, Shareable, and Venturebeat. He is the founder of MoonshotPR.com a successful PR agency owner based in San Francisco, that serves early stage technology founders. In today's episode, he talks about the narcissists he had to deal with in his personal life and at work, and how he has found power to transform to the stronger person he is now through his support network.____________________________________________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE: http://rebeccazung.com/live Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slay Read the transcript of this episode right here. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION: Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others. Features Adaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life ____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 20, 2022 • 45min
How to Pace Through Pain with Amberly Lago and Rebecca Zung on Negotiate Your Best Life #329
Amberly Lago is a Peak Performance Coach, TEDx Speaker, Podcaster, and a leading expert in the field of resilience and transformation. She is the best-selling author of “True Grit and Grace” and the founder of “UNSTOPPABLE Life Mastermind.” Through her book, coaching methods, and masterminds she has curated unique tools to teach others how to tap into their superpower of resilience and elevate their lives and businesses. Amberly creates a resilient company culture, empowers employees to collaborate and connect, shows them how to see things with fresh eyes, and shares how you can bounce forward and work smarter not harder. She shows you how to create an advantage out of adversity and thrive, not just survive. https://amberlylago.com/ She builds grit, inspires hope, fuels passion & uncovers your superpower of resilience.Follow Amberly on Instagram right here @amberlylagomotivationGrab her book True Grit and Grace: Turning Tragedy into Triumph RIGHT HERELearn more about Amberly RIGHT HERE ____________________________________________________________________ Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE: http://rebeccazung.com/live Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here: www.rebeccazung.com/slay Read the transcript of this episode right here. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION: Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others. Features Adaptive Facial Recognition technology Technology to detect physical tampers Real-time text message reminders and Alerts Customizable scheduling Automated reporting options Here is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life ____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube! GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 13, 2022 • 24min
Narcissists Favorite Lines with Rebecca Zung on Negotiate Your Best Life #328
Do you know someone with narcissistic personality disorder? If so, you're probably familiar with their favorite lines. Have you ever heard someone say these things: “What about your issues”, “You’re the only one who thinks that”? In this episode, Rebecca Zung will share with you the most common narcissist catch phrases and what they mean. She will walk you through the psychology behind each of the sayings and how they are designed to make others fall prey to narcissist’s antics.____________________________________________________________________Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE.Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here. www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technologyTechnology to detect physical tampersReal-time text message reminders and AlertsCustomizable schedulingAutomated reporting optionsHere is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE!SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE.Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Jun 6, 2022 • 51min
And Justice For All: Legal Aid for Everyone on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung and Lynsi Snyder-Ellingson Episode #327
Lynsi Snyder-Ellingson, the owner of In N Out Burger has packed more than 9 lives into her one life. In this very rare interview, she will talk about her personal story of how she came to inherit the very popular restaurant chain, and how she has successfully continued to keep it going by assuming the helm at such a young age, after dealing with unbelievable personal tragedies and losses.Then she and Rebecca will discuss how they met over discussing and dealing with narcissists then founded Slay Legal Aid Foundation together! How did this all come about? What does Slay Legal Aid do? Tune in to find out more! Learn more about Slay Legal Aid Foundation- and also apply and/or donate right here! www.slaylegalaid.orgCheck out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE.Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here. www.rebeccazung.com/slayRead the transcript of this episode right here.THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION:Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.FeaturesAdaptive Facial Recognition technologyTechnology to detect physical tampersReal-time text message reminders and AlertsCustomizable schedulingAutomated reporting optionsHere is the link to get $50 off on Soberlink: https://www.soberlink.com/partners/negotiate Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________ For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE!SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE.Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro) right here. It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

May 30, 2022 • 33min
How to Deal with the Narcissist’s False Accusations on Negotiate Your Best Life with Rebecca Zung #326
6 Ways to Deal with Narcissists’ False Accusations//If you're dealing with a narcissist, you know that they can be incredibly manipulative. They often make false accusations in order to control and dominate you. In this episode, Rebecca Zung, lawyer and narcissist negotiation expert, shares six ways to deal with narcissists' false accusations.Check out my FREE Live webinar, the 3 MUST HAVE Secrets to Communicating with Narcissists RIGHT HERE. Learn more about the SLAY Your Negotiation with Narcissists program right here. www.rebeccazung.com/slay Read the transcript of this episode right here. THIS WEEK'S SPONSOR INFORMATION: Soberlink is a comprehensive alcohol monitoring system. Combining a breathalyzer with wireless connectivity, Soberlink automatically documents proof of sobriety in real-time, which gives clients a sense of accomplishment while rebuilding trust with others.Features
Adaptive Facial Recognition technology
Technology to detect physical tampers
Real-time text message reminders and Alerts
Customizable scheduling
Automated reporting options
Get an exclusive $50 off your device by emailing info@soberlink.com and mentioning Negotiate Your Best Life____________________________________________________________________For more information on REBECCA ZUNG, ESQ. visit her website www.rebeccazung.com and follow her on Instagram: @rebeccazung and YouTube!GRAB YOUR FREE CRUSH MY NEGOTIATION PREP WORKSHEET RIGHT HERE! SUBSCRIBE TO MY YOUTUBE CHANNEL RIGHT HERE. Grab a copy of Rebecca's book, Negotiate Like You M.A.T.T.E.R.: The Sure Fire Method to Step Up and Win (foreword written by Robert Shapiro). It went straight to being a #1 bestseller the first day it was launched! Find out what everyone is so excited about - get the book RIGHT HERE! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices