The Self Love Fix

Codependency can take reigns over our lives, but that doesn’t have to be the end of the story. In this episode, I sat down with some alumni from my Spring 2021 Self Love Over Codependency course. They share their stories, steps they took toward self love, and what life has been like since they decided to put themselves first.  Some points we’ll discuss include: What life was like before SLOC How life changed after SLOC Points to consider if you’re thinking of joining SLOC today Are you ready to dive into your habits of codependency in order to start putting yourself first? Enroll in Self Love Over Codependency today to learn how to shift from self-doubt to worthiness and DEEP levels of self-trust! Click here to join (Doors will close September 24th) If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m discussing the root cause of people-pleasing and how to break the habit. People-pleasing is a core symptom of codependency, and overcoming these tendencies can be a long process. But I promise you - it is well worth the inner work! Here are a few points I cover:  People-pleasing isn’t who you are, it’s what you do The brain’s unconscious response How to break the habit Most importantly, I hope that if you see this pattern in yourself, you’re able to treat yourself with the compassion and care it takes to move forward toward self-love & inner peace.  If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Sign up for my free 4 day live challenge from Sep 13-16 here!    CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m kicking off part two of the series with how blood is not thicker than peace. Here are a few points I cover:  How to move away from the shame of being a bad child. How family doesn’t have to be family of origin There’s this huge wound of codependency that makes us second guess ourselves. Unfortunately, the reality is not all of us had that amazing childhood. And I want to let you know that you’re not alone and you deserve to love and be loved. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Sign up for my free 4 day live challenge from Sep 13-16 here!    CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking about the concept of martyrdom. This series is part of what I offer in the Self Love Over Codependency. This is a way to help you see where codependency might be holding you back from the life you deserve to live.  Here are a few points I cover:  How martyrdom functions in our lives How to shift the idea of the martyr I like to look at it as a way to understand why we do the things that we do and how we do it. And how we can shift the things that we learned that aren't serving us and turn it into something that does. Having compassion and forgiveness for ourselves is how we heal. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website   EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code “bizbirthday20” at checkout to save 20% off my e-books, e-courses, workshops, and more over at beatricekamau.com/programs

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking about how jealousy and comparison relate to codependency. I’ll also break down the steps on how to stop comparing yourself to others and how to finally overcome the jealousy! Here are a few points I cover:  The core feelings that we are trying to experience What to focus on when it comes to overcoming jealousy How to partner with jealousy and look for abundance These feelings of jealousy, comparison, and anxiousness come from the idea that you’re doing something wrong. You're not doing anything wrong. You're exactly where you're supposed to be and you're doing exactly what you should be doing. Remember, you are on your path. There’s no race. You bloom when it’s time. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love.   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website   EPISODE RESOURCES: Use code “bizbirthday20” at checkout to save 20% off my e-books, e-courses, workshops, and more over at beatricekamau.com/programs

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking all about how to overcome self-doubt and step into your authentic self. I’ll share a bit of my personal journey when it comes to overcoming self-doubt as well as my top tips for finally stepping into and living the true you!  Here are a few points I cover:  You can only try to put on a facade for so long How receptivity changes everything Shifting our beliefs Self-doubt can cause us to have an alternate version of ourselves. You can’t do it for too long before you revert to who you really are. You’re real. The true you will always come out at some point!  If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Make sure you pre-enroll for the Self Love Fix Collective membership! You can enroll here   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m talking all about the importance of containing boundaries and worthiness in different aspects of life. I hope that these points will help you realize your worth regardless of what others may think about you or your boundaries. So be sure to listen to the full episode for all the details!  Here are a few points I cover:  The role your boundaries play with job opportunities. Boundaries in relationships. Worthiness doesn’t have to be compromised in setting our boundaries. Remember, you’re in control. I hope by hearing these tips, it’ll help you keep your boundaries especially in the most important areas of your life. Remember that you make the rules in your life and you don’t need to feel ashamed even if you feel uncertain.  If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Make sure you pre-enroll for the Self Love Fix Collective membership! You can check out the Pay in Full Plan here and the Payment Plan here.    CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m sharing my biggest advice on overcoming self-doubt. It’s the number one thing I hear from people that they struggle with and it’s the number one thing I struggled with, in many different areas in different directions but it all comes down to the feeling like you can’t trust yourself. Self-doubt is the core - it's a fear of trusting the self. Here are a few points I cover:  Why do we fear trusting ourselves? What I wish I had known growing up The only thing that’s holding us back I hope my biggest advice on overcoming self-doubt inspires you. Remember that you are doing just fine. And if you have the doubt, it’s normal. All of us have it but keep pushing on anyway. Show yourself and prove to yourself that you can expand and you're going to be okay no matter what. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Make sure you pre-enroll for the Self Love Fix Collective membership here   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m sharing ALL the things I wish I knew about boundary setting. I hope that these are points you can resonate with and maybe even relate to. I know that coming to these realizations is what truly helped me step into confidence when it comes to setting boundaries. So be sure to listen to the full episode for all the details!  Here are a few points I cover:  If you’ve ever felt so strongly about setting a boundary, but find yourself struggling to follow through with vocalizing it when the moment comes, this is why... I get you and I understand you, I’ve been there too.  A breakdown of fight flight freeze fawn. The impacts of your upbringing when it comes to boundary setting. I hope that sharing these points I wish I knew about boundary setting help you overcome any fears or hesitation when it comes to setting your own. Remember, you are doing the best you can at any given moment! Don’t be so hard on yourself. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Make sure you pre-enroll for the Self Love Fix Collective membership here!   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website

In this episode of The Self Love Fix Podcast, I’m addressing the entire concept behind setting boundaries. This can be a tricky topic when it comes to actually setting them in place. Hopefully with my strategies and tips in this episode, you can start to approach boundary setting with ease. After all, you deserve to make your needs and wants known!  Here are a few points I cover:  The one question to ask the next time you find yourself struggling to set a boundary. What happens when we don’t set boundaries.  How to deal with the negative reactions.  I hope that hearing more about boundary setting and the importance of it for your own well being and those around you has been valuable. Remember, you deserve to make your needs heard and your boundaries are worth being vocalized. The ones with the negative reactions simply may not know how to set their own boundaries and consequently, don’t know how to handle yours. If you liked this episode of the podcast, take a screenshot, head on over to my Instagram and share it on your IG stories and tag me, @theselflovefix If you love what you learned, be sure to hit that follow button so you never miss a future episode, and make sure to leave a review to help me reach more listeners just like you looking to follow their inner truth and live a life of abundance & authentic self-love. Make sure you pre-enroll for the Self Love Fix Collective membership here!   CONNECT WITH BEATRICE: Instagram Website