Social Skills Coaching

Patrick King
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Sep 18, 2024 • 32min

How To Make People Crave Your Presence: The Subtle Art Of Likability

Learn the subtle art of likability and how to make people crave your presence. Discover the secrets of context-dependent memory and how it can enhance your social skills.The Science of Likability: 67 Evidence-Based Methods to Radiate Charisma, Make a Powerful Impression, Win Friends, and Trigger Attraction (4th Ed.) (The Psychology of Social Dynamics Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3BXFuHQ
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Sep 11, 2024 • 36min

Before You Open Your Mouth: The Power Of Mindset In People Skills

Learn the power of mindset in people skills before you open your mouth! Discover the Clever Hans effect and its impact on communication and perception.Improve Your People Skills: How to Connect With Anyone, Communicate Effectively, Develop Deep Relationships, and Become a People Person By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0N00:00:00 Improve Your People Skills00:05:10 Hanlon’s Razor And Assumptions.00:13:52 The Curiosity Factor.00:25:05 Walk A Mile For Empathy.00:28:36 Let’s take Patricia Moore, for example.00:31:34 It evokes the quote by Brad Meltzerhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XK7WBW2Learn how to adapt, win people over, and handle just about any social situation.Your qualifications and intelligence aren’t what will move you forward in life. People skills (soft skills, interpersonal skills, social skills, and likability) are. They allow you to effortlessly glide through life and roll with the punches, as well as maximize the situations you’ll find yourself in. When your relationships are harmonious and authentic, the whole world opens up.
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Sep 4, 2024 • 10min

How to Build Strong Friendships: The Friendship Formula and Creating a Reality Distortion Field

Make Friends Easily: How to Charm and Connect in Record Time By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3u0rxtc00:00:00 Make Friends Easily00:06:17 The Friendship Formula.00:18:17 How To Use Schafer’S Formula To Your Benefit.00:23:22 Create Your Own Reality Distortion Field.00:28:39 Stay Present.00:38:42 Reciprocal Curiosity.00:52:02 Assume Nothing.00:54:54 Person, Not Story.00:57:29 You Go First.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CDWF4WLJ Making new friends doesn't have to be a chore. Learn how to do it quickly, efficiently, and effectively.Networking events? Big group dinners? Karaoke parties? Please, no.Get past boring small talk and deeply connect with others.Make Friends Easily - it's a simple task, isn't it? But why is it so hard in our modern age? There are so many distractions, so why should people pay attention to you? That's your challenge and task, and this book provides the answer. You'll learn how to become a presence that people crave, how to get past shallow conversation, and how to make sure that your connections are long and lasting.It's simple, but not easy. So pick up this book to make it easier.Discover the secrets to building lasting friendships and creating a powerful personal presence. In this video, we'll explore Dr. Jack Schafer's "friendship formula" and learn how to apply it to your own life. We'll also dive into the concept of a reality distortion field and uncover the techniques used by charismatic individuals to captivate others.Learn how to: Increase proximity, frequency, duration, and intensity to foster deeper connections. Create a strong personal presence and leave a lasting impression. Practice active listening and genuine empathy to build trust and understanding. Overcome social anxiety and develop effective communication skills.Whether you're looking to make new friends or strengthen existing relationships, this video has something valuable to offer.
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Aug 28, 2024 • 1h

How To Be Funny: A Beginner's Guide To Humor

How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 14) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/BeHilarious00:00:00 How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation00:06:37 Know Your Humor Style.00:10:22 Finding The Humor In Everyday Life.00:17:28 Consume More Comedy.00:23:06 Puns And Dad Jokes.00:29:03 What Funny Stories Are Made Of.00:35:31 Funny Analogies.00:36:37 The Death penalty and the McRib.00:39:21 The Holy Trinity.00:42:40 The Art Of Misdirection.00:49:31 Be Oddly Specific.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09DBPMF23Exact phrases to develop your sense of humor, master witty remarks, make people laugh, and be funnier – even if you’re not naturally funny.How To Be Hilarious and Quick-Witted in Everyday Conversation is full of strategies that dissect, break down, and analyze all of the types of humor that you’ll encounter in daily conversation – stuff you can really use with people you talk to. We’re not all trying to become standup comedians, and this isn’t a book about ha-ha jokes with setups and punch lines. These are little tips and tactics for you to become noticeably quick and clever.Make a better impression on people, put them at ease, charm them, and make them smile with you.Learn witticisms, quips, retorts, comebacks, and wisecracks without being cheesy or corny. Don’t worry if you feel like you’ve never understood humor or how to be funny. I’ve done the work for you and analyzed everyone from comedy writers to standup comedians and given you step-by-step, complete guidance to use common joke structures in everyday situations. Adaptable to any premise, topic, or setting!Strategies to instantly be clever and witty and sound like a world-class comedian.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and sought-after Social Skills and Conversation Coach. He teaches building rapport, and a major part of that is using humor to connect with others – shared moments of laughter are incredible bonding moments, and you'll be able to create them without being "that guy/girl".Humor is the highway to the relationships you want in life.•What makes an impactful comedic delivery and storytelling.•How to use irony and sarcasm conversationally.•How to create and build a banter chain with others.•Injecting role play into any situation.•How to play on people’s expectations and sense of contrast.•The art of misconstruing.•Why relatability is so darn funny.•The famous “comic triple.”#BeHilarious #Charismatic #EverydayConversation #Hilarious #PatrickKing #SocialSkills #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #HowToBeFunny #ABeginner'SGuideToHumor
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Aug 21, 2024 • 1h 6min

Beyond The Surface: Cultivating Curiosity, Skepticism, And Critical Thinking

Neuroscience-proven guidelines to think, act, and become smarter ASAP. It’s not what you know, it’s how you think.00:00:00 Practical Intelligence00:00:17 Look Beneath The Surface.00:09:15 Curious As A Cat.00:19:25 A Skeptic’s View.00:28:10 The Critical Thinker.00:36:56 Paul-Elder Thinking.You’ve been fooled before. You’ve missed things. You’ve been slow on the uptake and others have passed you by. Radically transform your thinking for both speed AND accuracy.Think quickly on your feet to solve problems, overcome obstacles, and win arguments.Practical Intelligence is not a common “think smarter” book. No, it starts from biological bases of analytical thinking, and how we can re-program ourselves for deep insight. This book provides real, actionable tool after tool, because smart thinking is all about HOW, and not why or what. The bottom line is that you’ll be able to apply this book’s thinking models immediately, until they become habit.Better decision-making, smarter reasoning, and greater mental clarity.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author. He has sold over a million books. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Learn to ask the intelligent questions, draw insight, and analyze situations.•How the body and brain must work together for quick thinking.•What it truly means to think deeply and analyze.•How to think about your thinking, and the obstacles that short circuit your good intentions.Science-based techniques to train your brain for optimal performance.•Mental models for optimal decision-making.•How to train your brain for speed.•Tips for divergent and creative thinking - generating ideas.Never get fooled again and find the truth in situations quickly.At first glance, most things seem fine. And maybe ignorance is bliss. But to think clearly, deeply, quickly, and effectively - you’ll discover just how much of your life you have been missing, for better or worse.
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Aug 13, 2024 • 1h 23min

Unlock The Secrets Of People: Master The Art Of Reading Anyone

Patrick King, an insightful author specializing in emotional and behavioral analysis, shares invaluable techniques for understanding people. He delves into the art of reading body language, detecting deception, and the psychological factors driving human actions. Discover how past experiences shape behavior and the significance of contextual cues in communication. King also explores defense mechanisms, offering a deeper look into how we rationalize our actions. Tune in to learn how to forge genuine connections and enhance your emotional intelligence.
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Aug 7, 2024 • 1h 4min

Stop People-Pleasing: Break Free From The Need To Be Liked

Learn how to stop people-pleasing and break free from the need to be liked. Say goodbye to the disease to please and start living for yourself!Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others (if that’s okay with you…) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 9) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3To6NDuhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B7GWJN4F
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Jul 31, 2024 • 39min

Master The Art Of Conversation: Learn From Improv Comedy

Improve Your Conversations: Think on Your Feet, Witty Banter, and Always Know What to Say with Improv Comedy Techniques (2nd Edition) (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 10)By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/improvking00:00:00 Improve Your Conversations00:09:46 Spontaneity and Flow00:15:41 Emotional Intelligence00:21:26 Play00:24:50 Make it Easyhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08RY4HMHXDoes your mind blank in conversation and create awkward silence? Do you run out of things to say and struggle to keep dialogue flowing?(A) Conversation isn’t scripted, (B) it’s 100% unpredictable, and (C) it can be terrifying at times. How do you prepare for such a thing? By learning how to apply improv comedy techniques to roll with any punch and improve your conversations and social interactions.Become quicker and more clever in daily conversation.Improv(e) Your Conversations teaches the ingenious rules of improv comedy that allow performers to turn boring prompts into memorable interactions worthy of standing ovations. This means there are real frameworks and templates to escape interview mode small talk – and start connecting and building rapport from the moment you say “Hello.” This book goes through over 15 of the most helpful and insightful improv comedy techniques with countless real-life examples to make you a great talker.Learn the conversational secrets of the world’s best comedians.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Over 15 actionable tips that are actually practical and relateable.•The three easy ways to always know what to say, even when your mind goes blank.•What Sherlock Holmes has to do with great rapport.•How to read people better and what to look for.•The one goal you must always keep in mind (that you probably don’t even know).Adapt, witty comeback, reply, and charm in record time.•What causes awkward silences and how to prevent them.•How your conversation should resemble a movie.•How to “flip the switch” to be more entertaining.Conversation skills are the gatekeeper to the rest of your life.Improving your conversations gives you the ability to turn a random encounter into a flowing conversation, into a lasting friendship. Fewer acquaintances and more friends, less small talk and more true substance.•Better networking, better career placement, better job interviews.•New friendships, improved relationships, and being more attractive to the opposite sex.•Instant likability and great first impressions." #Banter #Comedy #Conversation #Improv #ImprovComedyTechniques #ImproveYourConversations #PatrickKing #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #ImproveYourConversations #MasterTheArtOfConversation:LearnFromImprovComedy
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Jul 24, 2024 • 1h 2min

Become A Human Lie Detector: Read People Like A Book

How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth: Make People Reveal Their True Thoughts and Intentions Without Them Even Knowing It (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 12) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/ExtractInfohttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B093ZRPCDK00:00:00.000 How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth00:02:59.000 Look At My Face.00:14:44.640 Body Talk.00:33:09.000 Putting It All Together.00:49:18.560 Thinking In Terms Of Message Clusters.Learn to quickly read people and draw conclusions from seemingly innocent and easy questions.Some people are forthcoming, and others are not so much. Either they are guarded, or they are deliberately hiding something. Well, whatever the case, this book is how you crack them and learn exactly what they aren’t saying.Tips from FBI interrogators, psychologists, and famous lawyers.How to Extract Info, Secrets, and Truth turns you into an expert reader of intentions, behavior, thoughts, and emotions. The tips in this book are used by professionals to extract valuable knowledge worth millions of dollars.You’ll read about body language, speed reading, thin slicing, and every other technique that has been scientifically proven.The goal of this book is to arm you with tools to uniquely understand and peel back the layers on people before they even know it. No one will be a puzzle to you anymore.How to subtly direct a conversation to exactly what you want. Exactly what to look and listen for.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real life experience.Protect yourself from those trying to probe you.The value of knowing how to extract information is in understanding human nature. That is the true purpose of this book. Once you know how people think, and what patterns tend to form, you’ll be armed with a powerful tool for the rest of your life. #Charismatic #PatrickKing #RevealTheirTrueThoughts #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #HowtoExtractInfo #Secrets #andTruth #BecomeAHumanLieDetector:ReadPeopleLikeABook
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Jul 17, 2024 • 58min

Communication Breakthrough: Stop Fighting, Start Collaborating

00:00:00 Intentional Communication00:03:31 You versus Me ...or Us versus the Problem00:13:22 Assume People Are Doing Their Best.00:24:31 Telling The Third Story.00:34:08 Address the Higher Self, Acknowledge the Emotional Self00:44:54 Mastering Self-Differentiation Intentional Communication: Emotional Validation, Listening, Empathy, and the Art of Harmonious Relationships By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3HhRPImhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B09MPQJ3BZ How to read between the lines and eliminate conflict while improving every single relationship.Communication is not just chit-chat, and it is not just the words coming out of people’s mouths. It’s like an onion with layers and layers of nuance, and the deeper you go, the more important it becomes. It has the power to transform your relationships, and thus your life. Learn how to utilize this powerful tool to the fullest.All the tools you need to become the most effective communicator you know.Intentional Communication is about the most important skill you can ever possess: how to clearly communicate your thoughts and feelings, and receive the same from others. It sounds simple, but then you realize that every day is filled with misunderstandings, passive-aggression, missed opportunities, and emotional outbursts. Why?Genuine communication that leads to long-lasting relationships is rare, and it’s not easy to discover the gaps that hold us back. This book shows you the way and draws deep into both human psychology and usable tips and tricks to transform the way you relate to others.How to truly hear people’s thoughts and emotions, while also clearly expressing yours.Patrick King is an internationally bestselling author and social skills coach. His writing draws of a variety of sources, from scientific research, academic experience, coaching, and real-life experience. He used to be turbulent relationships where dueling monologues was the norm. What changed? Implementing the techniques in this book.The most essential mindsets to ensure comfortable, vulnerable, and satisfying relationships. The biggest obstacles to healthy communication and listening What true validation is, and the powerful catharsis it provides The concept of self-differentiation and how it will change you forever What an Imago dialogue is and how it can save marriages Your unconscious contribution to conflict and passive-aggression, and how to conquer it What empathy and curiosity have to do with each otherHow to be immediately trustworthy and empathetic.People don’t have the time to give you second chances. Put your best foot forward by understanding what really matters in communication. Relationships are the key to happiness and fulfillment, and this book unlocks them.Apply these principles anywhere: parties, networking events, dates, and family get-togethers. #Communication #HarmoniousRelationships #Imago #IntentionalCommunication #EmotionalValidation #Listening #Empathy #PatrickKing #RussellNewton #NewtonMG #PatrickKing #PatrickKingConsulting #SocialSkillsCoaching #IntentionalCommunication #CommunicationBreakthrough: #StopFighting # #StartCollaborating

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