

Social Skills Coaching
Patrick King
While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now...
Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.
Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.
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Jun 26, 2025 • 16min
Beyond Destinations: Zach Smith's Story - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler
Intentions and Transformative Travel with Anywhere.com Founder, Zach SmithIn this episode of 'The Science of Self,' host Russell interviews Zach Smith, the founder and CEO of Anywhere.com. Zach shares his story of how a post-college trip to Oaxaca inspired the creation of his company. He emphasizes the importance of intentions and attention in shaping one's life experiences. Zach also discusses how travel can be a powerful tool for personal transformation, drawing from both childhood lessons and professional experiences. Additionally, he touches on his daily habits, the significance of conscious living, and the philosophy behind Anywhere.com's approach to meaningful and culture-respecting travel. Join us to explore the deeper aspects of intentionality and the transformative power of travel.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:14 The Birth of Anywhere.com02:22 The Power of Intentions04:22 A Childhood Lesson on Intentions08:55 The Importance of Perspective10:51 Daily Habits for Success13:35 The Mission of Anywhere.com

Jun 25, 2025 • 57min
Chapter 2. Watch Yourself from Practical Intelligence-Overcoming Bias & Mastering Logical Arguments
00:00:12 Today's featured book from Patrick King is Practical Intelligence00:04:55 Two Systems of Thought00:16:22 Battling Biases00:28:01 Four Cognitive Biases to Watch Out For00:36:03 Beating Cognitive Bias00:41:52 Logical Arguments00:52:51 TakeawaysPractical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligencekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHKAre you ready to become an expert in practical intelligence? In this episode, we dive into Chapter 2 of Patrick King's groundbreaking book, 'Practical Intelligence.' Discover the fascinating neuroscience behind our thought processes and learn how to harness both systems of thinking for optimal decision-making. Biases can cloud our judgment, but with the strategies outlined in this chapter, you'll learn to identify and overcome them. From improving your critical thinking skills to mastering logical arguments, this video will empower you to think faster and more accurately. Don't miss out on these essential tips to stay ahead of the curve! Click the link below to get your hands on a copy of 'Practical Intelligence' and start your journey towards becoming smarter ASAP: https://bit.ly/practicalintelligenceking

Jun 24, 2025 • 13min
Highlights from The Literary Pugilist: Mark Connor's Journey - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler
Mark Connor on Boxing, Writing, and Reconnecting with Faith | The Science of SelfSee the full interview at https://youtu.be/EhcVLPlyiGkIn this episode of The Science of Self, we sit down with Mark Connor, a literary pugilist from St. Paul, Minnesota. Mark discusses his unique career path merging boxing and writing, and his successful book, 'It's About Time,' which explores his relationship with his father and his spiritual journey. Tune in to hear about Mark's deep connection with his Catholic faith, his involvement with the Native American community, and how he navigates both worlds with respect and authenticity. Mark also shares insights on the discipline required in both writing and boxing, and offers thoughts on moral values and personal growth.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:17 Mark Connor's Background and Book Overview01:12 Themes and Inspirations Behind the Book01:53 Mark's Journey with Faith and Community04:48 Involvement with Native American and Irish Communities08:02 Reflections on Faith, Morality, and Writing13:07 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Jun 20, 2025 • 17min
Awakening Your Inner Billionaire with Debbie Dobbins
Awakening Your Inner Billionaire with Debbie Dobbins | The Science of SelfHear the full interview Here - https://self-growth.captivate.fm/episode/unleashing-your-inner-billionaire-with-debbie-dobbins/In this episode of The Science of Self, our host interviews Debbie Dobbins, author of 'Your Inner Billionaire.' Debbie, who calls herself the barefoot thought leader, shares her journey of awakening her inner billionaire—an inner mindset of freedom and abundance—despite facing serious life challenges, including a cancer diagnosis and financial hardship. This conversation delves into the importance of gratitude, brainwave frequencies, the power of storytelling, and practices such as meditation and future journaling. Debbie also explores how spirituality and consciousness contribute to a fulfilling life. Tune in to learn how to reveal your true self and cultivate abundance in all areas of your life.00:00 Introduction and Guest Introduction00:12 Debbie's Journey to Writing 'Your Inner Billionaire'00:30 The Concept of the Inner Billionaire01:22 Debbie's Personal Struggles and Lessons Learned02:36 The Power of Gratitude06:09 Understanding Brainwave Frequencies and Hypnotherapy09:23 Spirituality vs. Religion11:44 Manifestation and Abundance13:44 Practical Tips for Building Abundance15:46 Final Thoughts and Resources

Jun 19, 2025 • 15min
Six Different Ways to Say NO
Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries, & Stop Pleasing Others (if that’s okay with you…) (Be Confident and Fearless Book 9) By: Patrick King Hear it Here - https://adbl.co/3To6NDu00:00:00.000 Hello listeners, and welcome to Social Skills Coaching00:02:11.800 Trevor Powell is a psychologist and assertiveness expert00:02:24.120 Direct NO00:03:56.560 Reflecting NO00:04:45.720 Raincheck NO00:05:59.800 Enquiring NO00:07:17.280 Broken Record NO00:11:28.080 Challenging the Beliefs that Stop You from Saying No00:13:50.000 Takeawayshttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0B7GWJN4FAre you tired of putting others first? It's time to stand up for yourself! In this episode, we dive into the world-renowned book by Patrick King, 'Stand Up For Yourself, Set Boundaries,' and uncover practical ways to practice self-care. Discover the art of saying NO with confidence and fearlessness. From direct refusals to reflecting on your priorities, learn six unique methods to set boundaries without guilt. Join us as we explore why being nice to yourself is essential for a fulfilling life. Click above to buy the book now! Let's embrace our right to prioritize ourselves and bid farewell to anxiety-induced people-pleasing!"

Jun 13, 2025 • 13min
Thriving Amidst Uncertainty: Jonathan Gluck's Journey with Treatable Cancer
00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:18 Jonathan's Background and Cancer Journey00:46 Living with Uncertainty02:10 Coping Mechanisms and Mindfulness04:58 Life Lessons and Mindful Living06:45 Optimistic Realism and Spirituality10:02 Supporting Others with Cancer11:37 Final Advice and ConclusionFull podcast at https://self-growth.captivate.fm/episode/surviving-the-unsurvivable-optimistic-realism-with-jonathon-gluck/Join us on The Science of Self as we welcome Jonathan Gluck, author of 'An Exercise In Uncertainty'. Jonathan shares his 20+ year journey as a cancer patient, thriving in a state of treatable yet incurable cancer. We delve into the emotional and practical strategies he has learned to cope with uncertainty, drawing insights from his life and his extensive research, including interviews with experts like sociology professor Kate Sweeney. Discover valuable life lessons on mindfulness, realistic optimism, and the importance of taking action now. Whether you’re facing serious challenges or seeking self-improvement, this episode offers wisdom and inspiration for everyone.https://www.amazon.com/Exercise-Uncertainty-Memoir-Illness-Hope/dp/0593735781https://www.audible.com/pd/An-Exercise-in-Uncertainty-Audiobook/B0DJHBLVQ6https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/authors/2320094/jonathan-gluck/#https://lithub.com/the-craft-of-this-mortal-coil-jonathan-gluck-on-writing-a-different-cancer-story/

Jun 11, 2025 • 15min
Conquer Procrastination: Uncover the Science of Getting Started with Patrick King
00:00:08 We welcome you today to Social Skills Coaching00:10:38 The Procrastination Cycle.00:11:54 1. Unhelpful assumptions or made-up rules.00:12:07 2. Increasing discomfort.00:12:19 3. Excuses for procrastination to decrease psychological discomfort.00:12:36 4. Avoidance activities to decrease psychological discomfort.00:12:50 5. Negative and positive consequences.00:14:06 TakeawaysThe Science of Getting Started: How to Beat Procrastination, Summon Productivity, and Stop Self-Sabotage By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/4biaP9Jhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07S4GSHZYAre you tired of letting procrastination hold you back from achieving your goals? It's time to become a productivity powerhouse! In this episode, we dive into the groundbreaking book "The Science of Getting Started" by Patrick King. Discover why procrastination is an opportunity assassin and learn how to break free from its grip on your life. Chapter 1 reveals the shocking truth about why you might be a 'couch potato' and how it's linked to your tendency to delay tasks. We explore the vicious cycle of procrastination and provide insights into understanding and overcoming psychological barriers. King delves deep into the biological and evolutionary reasons behind our procrastination habits, offering a scientific approach to beating these instinctual drives. Get ready to transform your life by applying these powerful strategies! With studies analyzed and practical tips provided, you'll be equipped to slay your personal procrastination monster once and for all. --Don't miss out on this opportunity to boost your productivity and achieve success faster. Click the link in the description to purchase the book and get started on your journey towards a more disciplined and fulfilling life. Hear it Here: https://adbl.co/4biaP9J

Jun 6, 2025 • 16min
Embracing Authenticity and Freedom with Malitta Seamon - Highlight Reel
In this episode, Malitta Seamon shares her journey as a wife, mother, entrepreneur, and former CEO. She details her evolution towards leading a more authentic life through her organization, Inbound Leadership, and discusses her co-authored book 'Mindset Freedom' set to release on May 17th. Full conversation is at https://youtu.be/8qwlMHaQyDEMalitta candidly recounts the challenges of living a life that wasn't truly fulfilling and the pivotal moments that led her to abandon a successful business. She emphasizes the importance of being present, listening to inner voices, and the transformative power of proving one's desire for happiness. This heartfelt narrative offers valuable lessons on living authentically, making small meaningful changes, and pursuing inner peace over external success.00:00 Introduction: Meet Malitta Seamon00:12 The Journey to Authentic Living01:35 Questioning Life's Path02:34 The Turning Point: Choosing Happiness04:41 Prove It: The Methodology07:10 The Importance of Presence09:01 Making Small Changes11:35 Working with Malitta: Retreats and Workshops13:15 Daily Practices for Centering14:48 Conclusion: Finding Peace and Happiness

Jun 5, 2025 • 25min
## "Uncover the Science of Reading People with Patrick King's New Book"
The Science of Reading People: How to Understand What People Are Really Saying and Why (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 26) By: Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/47LRdYk00:00:00 Hello listeners00:02:27 Perceptual Selectivity 00:03:54 Attribution00:05:20 Stereotyping00:06:41 The Halo Effect00:08:22 Projection00:09:33 Perceptual Set00:10:51 Implicit Personality Theory00:12:27 Expectancy00:13:53 Perceptual Defense00:15:12 Improving Your Perceptual Accuracy 00:22:59 Summaryhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BTYQXK62Uncover the Science of Reading People with Patrick King's New Book" Are you ready to unlock the secrets of human behavior and become a master of perception? In this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of behavioral psychology and explore how it can be applied to our daily lives. Join us as we discuss "The Science of Reading People," a captivating book by Patrick King, which offers an in-depth look at understanding others and becoming more charismatic. In Chapter 1, we uncover the barriers that hinder accurate perception: perceptual selectivity, attribution, stereotyping, and more. Discover how these psychological concepts influence our interactions and shape our perceptions of others. Learn practical tips to improve your own perceptual accuracy and develop a deeper understanding of those around you. With tons of science-backed methods and an easy-to-understand approach, this book is a game-changer for anyone looking to enhance their social skills and become more likable. Don't miss out on this opportunity to boost your people skills and take control of how others perceive you! Click the link in the description to grab your copy now: httpsadbl.co47LRdYk Whether you're a business professional, a student, or just someone looking to navigate social situations with ease, "The Science of Reading People" is an essential guide that will leave you feeling more confident and charismatic. Let's explore the power of perception together! Remember to check out our podcast episode for even more insights and don't forget to subscribe for future content!

May 22, 2025 • 44min
One Mouth but Two Ears
00:06:27 The True Win-Win00:09:27 Unconscious Obstacles00:23:42 But They’re Boring…00:30:22 All Hail Conan 00:40:09 Summary and TakeawaysHow to Listen with Intention: The Foundation of True Connection, Communication, and Relationships (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 7) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/listenintentionkinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08B5QRV5XDiscover the secret to building deep and meaningful connections with Patrick King's latest book, "How to Listen with Intention." In this episode, we dive into Chapter 1, where you'll learn the art of active listening and why it's a game-changer in your relationships. Did you know that by simply focusing on listening, you can go from a stranger to a cherished friend? It's time to unlock the true win-win situation! But beware, there are unconscious obstacles that might bore you (and your potential friends!). We'll explore these pitfalls and provide tips on how to avoid them. Patrick King also highlights the importance of creating a balance in relationships - giving and taking equally. Are you guilty of being a conversational narcissist? Find out with this eye-opening chapter!