

Social Skills Coaching
Patrick King
While everyone wants to make themselves and their lives better, it has been hard to find specific, actionable steps to accomplish that. Until now...
Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.
Patrick King is a Social Interaction Specialist, in other words, a dating, online dating, image, and communication, and social skills coach based in San Francisco, California. He’s also a #1 Amazon best-selling dating and relationships author with the most popular online dating book on the market and writes frequently on dating, love, sex, and relationships.
He focuses on using his emotional intelligence and understanding of human interaction to break down emotional barriers, instill confidence, and equip people with the tools they need for success. No pickup artistry and no gimmicks, simply a thorough mastery of human psychology delivered with a dose of real talk.
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Aug 6, 2025 • 29min
The Zombie Cat, The Runaway Trolley, and Einstein’s Elevator: How to Master Your Mind with Thought Experiments
00:00:26 Welcome back to Social Skills Coaching with Patrick King.00:02:26 Thinking About Thinking00:11:42 The Problem of the Runaway Trolley00:16:16 The Zombie Cat00:20:15 Physics First00:25:27 TakeawaysLearn To Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher (Clear Thinking and Fast Action Book 5) By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/ThoughtExpKingThe Zombie Cat, The Runaway Trolley, and Einstein’s Elevator: How to Master Your Mind with Thought ExperimentsWelcome to a journey into the deepest corners of your mind, inspired by the groundbreaking book, "Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments: How to Expand Your Mental Horizons, Understand Metacognition, Improve Your Curiosity, and Think Like a Philosopher." In this video, we're going to explore the incredible power of gedankenexperiments, or thought experiments, and how they can fundamentally change the way you think.Do you want to unlock your creativity, sharpen your critical thinking skills, and foster a deeper sense of curiosity? Thought experiments are powerful mental tools used by the greatest minds in history, from Albert Einstein and Isaac Newton to Werner Heisenberg and Niels Bohr. They are mental simulations designed to explore the implications and consequences of a hypothesis without a real-world setup. They force you to confront your assumptions and challenge your preconceived notions. It's the ultimate exercise in problem solving.Think about Isaac Newton's cannon: he imagined a cannonball fired from a mountain to understand orbital mechanics. This simple hypothetical laid the groundwork for our understanding of gravity. Or consider Schrödinger's cat, the "zombie cat" paradox proposed by Erwin Schrödinger. He used this bizarre scenario not to suggest a cat could be both alive and dead, but to highlight the strange interpretation of quantum mechanics. It's a brilliant example of using an outlandish idea to provoke deeper inquiry.The most famous moral dilemma of all is the trolley problem. You see a runaway trolley speeding toward five people. You can pull a lever to divert it, killing only one person. This scenario has no easy answer; it's designed to make you examine your own ethical frameworks and understand concepts of responsibility.The book "Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments" by Patrick King is a comprehensive guide to mastering this invaluable skill. It’s a practical guide to using these mental tools for your own cognitive development and intellectual growth. You'll learn how to create your own thought experiments and use them to improve everything from your career to your personal relationships. Imagine using a thought experiment to test a new business idea or to make a difficult life decision. The book equips you with the tools for these mental simulations.The book delves into a wide range of thought experiments, from those of physicists like Werner Heisenberg and Niels Bohr to philosophical puzzles that challenge our understanding of consciousness and free will. It even touches on concepts from other fields, such as the famous Geiger counter, used in a way to illustrate randomness and probability.This isn't about memorizing facts; it's about cultivating metacognition—the ability to think about your own thinking. By using thought experiments, you learn to question everything, explore every possibility, and think like a philosopher. You'll move beyond simple facts and into the realm of deeper understanding, honing your imagination and learning to see the world not just as it is, but as it could be.If you’re ready to expand your mental horizons, improve your problem-solving skills, and ignite your curiosity, grab a copy of "Learn to Think Using Thought Experiments" by Patrick King. This video is just the beginning. The book is the manual that will equip you with the tools to master your mind and unleash your full intellectual potential.#LearnToThinkUsingThoughtExperiments #PatrickKing #ThoughtExperiment #CriticalThinking #Metacognition #ProblemSolving #Curiosity #Creativity #IntellectualGrowth #CognitiveDevelopment #Philosopher #Philosophy #Gedankenexperiments #Schrödinger #SchrödingersCat #ZombieCat #TrolleyProblem #RunawayTrolley #MoralDilemmas #IsaacNewton #NewtonsCannon #AlbertEinstein #WernerHeisenberg #NielsBohr #Bohr #Heisenberg #Hypotheticals #Assumptions #Implications #Consequences #Simulations #Interpretation #Geiger

Aug 1, 2025 • 19min
From Syria to Success: Hussein Hallak's Inspirational Path - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler
Hussein Halak on Embracing Life's Diversity and Mastering Your True Purpose | The Science of Self PodcastSee the entire conversation at https://youtu.be/wOMJATWcOkUIn this episode of 'The Science of Self,' host Russell dives deep with guest Hussein Halak, an accomplished entrepreneur, strategist, and author. Hussein shares his journey from Syria to Dubai, discussing his experiences growing up amid economic sanctions, exploring multiple creative ventures, and the importance of living a life full of exploration. He elaborates on the concept of 'Life Mastery' as a dark art that requires personal touch and adaptability. Hussein also emphasizes the value of uncomfortable growth, continuous learning, and the importance of contributing to and teaching others. Join us for an insightful conversation that bridges personal values, cultural experiences, and life mastery.00:00 Introduction and Welcome00:49 Meet Hussein Halak: Entrepreneur and Author01:40 Growing Up in Syria04:32 Life During Sanctions and Moving to Dubai05:57 Passion for Music and Art07:04 Philosophy on Life and Success07:34 The Dark Art of Life Mastery08:26 Embracing True Purpose09:12 The American Dream and Personal Values12:59 The Importance of Feedback13:55 Final Thoughts and Advice

Jul 30, 2025 • 16min
Communication Amidst Noise
00:03:30 Physical Noise00:04:41 Physiological Noise00:05:31 Semantic Noise00:06:56 Psychological Nois00:09:14 Overcoming Noise00:10:15 Understand the Noise and How It’s Impacting You00:13:16 Plan Ahead and Minimize Obstacles00:15:11 TakeawaysMindful Listening: How To Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic (How to be More Likable and Charismatic Book 35) By Patrick Kinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CX1F3HFXIn this video, we dive into the art of mindful listening as discussed in the book "Mindful Listening: How To Be Present, Intentional, and Empathetic." We'll explore various types of noise that hinder effective communication: physical noise, physiological noise, semantic noise, and psychological noise. By understanding these distractions and how they impact us, we can learn to identify them, plan ahead, and minimize their obstacles in our daily conversations. Improve your listening skills and deepen relationships through empathetic perspective.**Tags:**#MindfulListening #CommunicationSkills #EmpathicListening #Relationships #OvercomingNoise #ListeningTips #PatrickKing

Jul 28, 2025 • 15min
Highlights of "The Path to Teaching on Your Own Terms with Elliot Phillips" - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler
Empowering Teachers to Become Entrepreneurs with Elliot Phillips | The Science of SelfSee the entire conversation at https://youtu.be/NR4sjX7AetUIn this episode of The Science of Self, host Russell welcomes Elliot Phillips, a former UK PE teacher turned entrepreneur. Elliot shares his journey from teaching to launching a business that helps teachers build online tutoring businesses. He provides insights into his bestselling book, 'Teaching on Your Own Terms,' and details his 'Five to Thrive' routine. The conversation dives into the inception of his Teacher Fit Project, his experience during the pandemic, and valuable advice for personal development. Elliot also discusses his morning routines, emphasizing the importance of gratitude, learning, and physical exercise for overall well-being. Tune in to learn how to achieve greatness by helping others and fostering a growth mindset.00:00 Welcome and Introduction00:26 Meet Elliot Phillips: From PE Teacher to Entrepreneur00:35 The Journey to Online Tutoring01:12 Mindset and Success Principles02:34 Elliot's Background and Path to Teaching04:01 Teaching on Your Own Terms: The Book05:25 The Teacher Project: Origin and Growth07:47 Recommended Reads and Final Thoughts10:27 Elliot's Daily Habits and Advice13:58 Closing Remarks and Farewell

Jul 24, 2025 • 36min
The Invalidation Trap: How to Validate Others & Yourself
Uncover the secrets to building deep, meaningful connections with Patrick King's latest book, "How to Listen, Hear, and Validate." This insightful guide explores the art of effective communication, focusing on the fine line between reacting and responding. In Chapter 3, we dive into the concept of invalidation and its impact on our relationships. Learn to recognize invalidating behaviors and discover powerful techniques to avoid them. King provides practical strategies for overcoming invalidation and embracing self-validation, ensuring your conversations leave a lasting positive impression. 00:05:38 What Is Invalidation?00:12:41 Being a Good Communicator: How to Avoid Invalidating Others00:25:22 Overcoming Invalidation00:33:17 TakeawaysWith this book, you'll transform your communication style, prevent conflicts, and cultivate the intimate connections you desire. Say goodbye to misunderstandings and hello to charismatic, empathetic interactions. Join us on this journey towards becoming a natural communicator! [Keywords: Communication, Invalidation, Self-Validation, Relationships, Charisma, Empathy]Get your copy now: [Book Link](https://bit.ly/listenhearvalidateking)

Jul 20, 2025 • 51min
ADHD, Entrepreneurship, and Mindfulness: An Unconventional Path to Success
From ADHD to Mindfulness: Entrepreneur Rick Culleton's Journey to HappinessIn this episode of Social Skills Coaching, host Russell welcomes entrepreneur, author, and mindfulness advocate Rick Culleton. They delve into Rick's life journey from growing up with ADHD, to his entrepreneurial ventures across multiple countries, to his amazing accidental sobriety story, and his ongoing pursuit of mindfulness and happiness. Rick shares his experiences with meditation, creating a 'morning stack,' and the impact of cold plunges on his life. Tune in for insights on building a successful team, overcoming personal struggles, and living a fulfilling life.00:00 Introduction01:11 Rick Culleton's Background and Entrepreneurial Journey02:29 Challenges and Experiences with ADHD07:26 Building and Managing Successful Teams14:52 Accidental Sobriety and Mindfulness Practices21:24 Developing a Morning Routine for Success26:25 Balancing Fitness and Recovery27:19 The Importance of Techno Fasting27:55 Optimizing Sleep and Recovery29:37 Morning Routine Efficiency32:26 Cold Plunge Benefits34:08 Martial Arts Journey41:02 Building a Morning Stack44:16 Cold Plunge Alternatives47:51 Influential Books and Final Thoughts#SocialSkillsCoaching#RickCulleton#Entrepreneurship#ADHD#Mindfulness#Happiness#Sobriety#Meditation#MorningRoutine#MorningStack#ColdPlunge#Fitness#Recovery#TechnoFasting#SleepOptimization#MartialArts#PersonalGrowth#SuccessMindset#Leadership#Productivity#WellnessJourney

Jul 17, 2025 • 22min
Murphy's Law is your secret weapon!
00:09:30 For example, take the Pareto Principle00:12:37 Models in Brief00:14:11 Satisficing. 00:15:34 Distinguish feeling or thinking.00:17:13 Prioritize motion.00:19:14 Whatever Can Go Wrong Will Go Wrong.00:21:00 Here are the takeaways from today's episode.Practical Intelligence: How to Think Critically, Deconstruct Situations, Analyze Deeply, and Never Be Fooled By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://bit.ly/practicalintelligencekinghttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B08263KGHKIn this episode, we dive into the fascinating world of practical intelligence as outlined by author Patrick King. Discover the neuroscience-backed strategies to enhance your critical thinking skills and never be fooled again! Chapter 3 unveils the power of 'thinking in models' - a game-changing approach to problem-solving. Learn how to create mental models for faster, more accurate decision-making. We'll explore concepts like satisficing, the difference between feeling and thinking, and the importance of motion. Plus, uncover why Murphy's Law is your secret weapon! Join us as we deconstruct these powerful insights and learn how to analyze deeply, think critically, and transform our thinking for a smarter future.

Jul 14, 2025 • 21min
Unlocking Human Connection in the Digital Age: Insights from Robin Nathaniel - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler
Russell welcomes social media strategist and TEDx speaker Robin Nathaniel. See the full interview at https://youtu.be/edHZvzIGu3oRobin shares his journey from hip-hop artist to public speaker, emphasizing the power of forging intentional human connections online. He elaborates on his experiences as a father, husband, and author, highlighting the importance of sharing one’s personal story to create impactful connections. Robin also discusses his guiding principles—Connect, Create, Contribute—and how these can be applied to lead a fulfilling life. Additionally, he offers practical advice on becoming a TEDx speaker and recommends essential reading material to help find purpose and drive meaningful human interactions.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:15 Robin's Background and Career00:56 The Impact of Social Media01:35 Journey as a TEDx Speaker04:21 Moving from New York to Atlanta06:03 The Power of Sharing Personal Stories07:11 Book Insights and Frameworks08:39 Personal Philosophy: Connect, Create, Contribute13:17 Spiritual Journey and Family16:09 Recommended Reading and Daily Habits19:34 Closing Thoughts and Practical Advice #RobinNathaniel #Socialmediastrategy #Personalgrowth #Musicindustry #Authenticconnection #TEDxspeaker #Creatingconnections #Digitalcommunication #Resilience #SocialMediaSYNC #Publicspeaking #Inspiration #Careertransition #Storytelling #Intentionalcommunication #ConnectCreateContribute #Humanconnection #Socialmediaexpert #Author #Mindfulcommunication #Socialmediatips #Thoughtleadership #Professionaldevelopment #Entrepreneurship #thescienceofself

Jul 2, 2025 • 17min
Mastering the Art of Listening: Chapter Two 'Improve Your People Skills'
00:03:21 We Have Two Ears and Only One Mouth00:08:56 Ineffective listening00:15:59 TakeawayImprove Your People Skills: How to Connect With Anyone, Communicate Effectively, Develop Deep Relationships, and Become a People Person By Patrick KingHear it Here - https://adbl.co/3nQxB0Nhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07XK7WBW2Dive into this insightful episode as we explore the second chapter of Patrick King's groundbreaking book, "Improve Your People Skills." Discover why staying quiet and honing your listening skills are essential for building deep connections. In a world where communication is key, learn to adapt and navigate social situations with ease. Uncover the secrets to becoming likable, improving interpersonal relationships, and maximizing your personal growth. This episode delves into the psychology of people, providing a blueprint for understanding others and developing harmonious relationships. Don't miss out on this opportunity to enhance your soft skills and become a captivating presence in any social setting. With practical tips and actionable advice, you'll learn how to handle any situation with grace and confidence. Click the link below to grab your copy of "Improve Your People Skills" and take control of your social life today! https://adbl.co3nQxB0N Are you ready to transform your people skills? Let's dive in!In our fast-paced world, it's easy to overlook the fundamental yet powerful act of listening. This podcast episode delves into the lost art of active engagement, exploring how genuine listening and validation can transform our interactions. We'll uncover the distinction between truly hearing others and merely awaiting our turn to speak, revealing how this simple shift can elevate conversations from solitary monologues to vibrant exchanges. Moreover, we'll examine the parallels between listening and validation, understanding their shared goal of creating positive and meaningful connections. Get ready to explore these essential people skills, as we delve into the intricacies of effective communication, uncovering practical insights that will enhance your interpersonal relationships and foster deeper, more fulfilling conversations.

Jun 26, 2025 • 16min
Beyond Destinations: Zach Smith's Story - Voice over Work - An Audiobook Sampler
Intentions and Transformative Travel with Anywhere.com Founder, Zach SmithIn this episode of 'The Science of Self,' host Russell interviews Zach Smith, the founder and CEO of Anywhere.com. Zach shares his story of how a post-college trip to Oaxaca inspired the creation of his company. He emphasizes the importance of intentions and attention in shaping one's life experiences. Zach also discusses how travel can be a powerful tool for personal transformation, drawing from both childhood lessons and professional experiences. Additionally, he touches on his daily habits, the significance of conscious living, and the philosophy behind Anywhere.com's approach to meaningful and culture-respecting travel. Join us to explore the deeper aspects of intentionality and the transformative power of travel.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:14 The Birth of Anywhere.com02:22 The Power of Intentions04:22 A Childhood Lesson on Intentions08:55 The Importance of Perspective10:51 Daily Habits for Success13:35 The Mission of Anywhere.com