Dr Justin Coulson's Happy Families

Ever wonder why kids seem to ignore you? This discussion unpacks five reasons behind this behavior, emphasizing the importance of understanding their perspectives. It highlights the need for patience, the power of connection over correction, and engaging kids through fun activities. You'll learn practical strategies to encourage better listening, foster cooperation, and strengthen relationships. Ultimately, it's all about making communication enjoyable and relevant!

Justin is answering two listener questions in this episode. Christina from the United States is wondering how she can get a less than cooperative teenager to put away the screens and get to bed, even though she has already compromised on them staying up later than she would like. Kate is wondering why her five year old's behaviour is so different between school and home.  How can a 'model student' melt down over simple requests like being asked to take her plate to the kitchen after dinner? In this episode: Screen limits and teenagers Sleep #1003 When the 3 E’s Don’t Work Force creates resistance Jocelyn Brewer - The 3 M's of Digital Nutrition Differences in school and home environment Kids feel safe at home Masking at school Allow time to decompress after school #866 Creating Margin Related Links: Tweens, Teens & Screens [Webinar] Screens And Our Boys 5 Ways to Make Family Life More Fun Developmental Milestones [Part 4: Middle Childhood] Get your questions to Justin by hitting the record button on the Happy Families website. Doors are now open to the Happy Families Membership  NEW weekly kids’ ‘Print & Play’ subscription FELT (Fostering Emotional Learning Together) Find us on Facebook or TikTok Subscribe to the Happy Families newsletterSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Explore the exhilarating world of risky play and its crucial role in childhood development. Discover how childhood playgrounds have evolved and why parents should embrace manageable risks. Learn practical strategies to encourage children to take risks at home, fostering both resilience and social skills. The balance between safety and autonomy is emphasized, paving the way for children to develop emotionally and physically. Nostalgic tales remind us of the joy found in adventure — a perfect blend of fun and growth!

Justin, reflecting on the loss of loved ones, discusses how embracing mortality enriches our lives and encourages deeper connections. Kylie shares insights from a transformative family meeting, highlighting the importance of accountability in family dynamics. They explore ways to foster joy through routines, navigate technology challenges at home, and promote collaboration among family members. Together, they stress that active involvement and valuing relationships can lead to a more meaningful and fulfilling life.

Discover cutting-edge research on peanut allergies that suggests early exposure can significantly reduce risk. Learn about the transformative benefits of a two-week reduction in screen time for children's emotional and social development. Understand the nuanced differences in touch responses between neurodivergent individuals and their neurotypical peers, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication. This insightful discussion equips parents with strategies to support their children in these vital areas.

Adam Voigt, Founder and CEO of Real Schools, dives into vital issues facing today’s classrooms. He discusses the rising stress among teachers and the need for collaboration with parents to support diverse learning needs. The conversation highlights the role of technology in education, including the effects of mobile phone usage on student engagement. Voigt also examines how school selection impacts life satisfaction, arguing that diversity in education is more beneficial than attending selective schools.

Join Amy, a Melbourne mother eager to boost her family's well-being, as she explores the surprising benefits of indoor plants—improving mood, sleep, and productivity. Meanwhile, Jenny from Western Australia navigates the complexities of her parents’ differing parenting styles while caring for her three-year-old. The conversation highlights the valuable role grandparents play in child development and the emotional benefits of their involvement, even amid generational differences.

Alexandra Raisman, a celebrated US gymnast and Olympic champion, joins Justin and Kylie to discuss the emotional rollercoaster parents experience while supporting young athletes. They explore the fine line between ambition and well-being, highlighting the pressures of youth sports and the importance of fostering a love for the game over competition. Raisman shares insights on how parental expectations can shape a child's experience, advocating for intrinsic motivation and unconditional support to cultivate both passion and resilience in young competitors.

In this discussion, Kylie, an expert in navigating challenging parent-child dynamics, offers hope to those in the trenches of raising tough kids. Justin shares his humorous mishap during a family game night that spiraled due to unmet expectations, reflecting on how these moments can frustrate family bonds. Mauri emphasizes personal improvement in parenting, encouraging resilience and connection. Together, they highlight the importance of quality time, patience, and building strong relationships, even amidst the chaos.

Emilie, a 10-year-old book enthusiast, brings her youthful perspective to a delightful discussion about literature. She shares her thoughts on Roald Dahl's 'James and the Giant Peach,' capturing its magic. The conversation dives into the emotional weight of Tim O’Brien’s 'The Things They Carried,' reflecting on the trauma of war. The hosts also explore critical topics like screen time and youth well-being through various parenting books, blending literary insights with real-life challenges.