You're Wrong About ADHD

Exploring the profound impact of undiagnosed ADHD, the hosts dive into personal stories of burnout and family dynamics. They reflect on the emotional challenges of navigating relationships and the societal pressures that hinder pursuing hobbies. The conversation highlights the importance of radical acceptance and compassionate self-view after diagnosis. With candid insights, they reveal how understanding ADHD can help untangle the past, leading to healing and improved coping strategies for those affected.

What happens when you realise the struggles you’ve carried for decades weren’t personal failures, but missed signs of ADHD?This week, Sam and Katie are joined by journalist and author Grace Timothy, who was diagnosed with ADHD in her thirties after years of anxiety, burnout and never quite feeling “on top of things”. Together, they unpack the five things Grace wishes she’d known earlier- from why she kept quitting jobs, to how rejection sensitivity shaped her relationships.Grace shares her emotional journey to diagnosis, the grief and clarity that followed, and what it’s like navigating motherhood, career and self-acceptance without medication. They reflect on how shame shows up in daily life, and what it really means to forgive yourself for being “bad at admin”.This is a raw, thoughtful and relatable conversation about reframing the past, reclaiming the present and reimagining a future with ADHD understanding at its core.Find out more about Grace Timothy’s book ‘Is It My ADHD?’ hereNew episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam reflect on their conversation with clinical psychologist Dr Gilly Kahn about ADHD, screen time, and social media- and how it hit home.They open up about their own love-hate relationships with their phones from endless scrolling and accidental time-loss, to the guilt of modelling digital overload for their kids. Together they explore what makes tech so addictive for ADHD brains, how to build healthier digital habits and why it’s not about ditching devices altogether but using them with intention.With personal stories, practical ideas, and plenty of honesty, this is a thoughtful look at why setting boundaries with screens can feel so difficult- especially for ADHDers.New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

Is your phone a lifeline, a trap - or maybe both - if you have ADHD?This week, Sam and Katie are joined by clinical psychologist, ADHD advocate and writer Dr Gilly Kahn to explore the complex relationship between ADHD, screen time and social media. From dopamine dips and impulsive scrolling to the guilt that comes after a binge-watch spiral, they dig into why tech can feel both essential and overwhelming for neurodivergent minds.Together, they unpack how screens affect focus, sleep and self-esteem and why so many people with ADHD struggle to set boundaries around devices. Gilly shares her own story of taking a seven-year break from social media, offers science-backed insights on behavioural addiction, and gives practical strategies to help you use your phone with intention (instead of it using you).Whether you're constantly doom-scrolling or just curious about why logging off feels so hard, this episode is full of clarity, compassion and helpful tools.New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam get real about ADHD and memory- from forgotten birthdays to misplaced cars- and the practical, emotional, and occasionally hilarious fallout that follows.They’re joined by ADHD coach Aoife Hughes, who shares compassionate, science-backed strategies for building memory scaffolding, reducing shame, and understanding what our brains actually need. Together, they unpack radical acceptance, emotional overwhelm, and why writing things down is more powerful than you think. Whether you’re over-relying on tech or just tired of saying “sorry I forgot,” this is a gentle, empowering reminder that support, safety, and sticky notes all have a place in the ADHD toolbox.New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

What happens when ADHD doesn’t look the way people expect it to, and what’s the cost when it gets missed?This week, Sam and Katie are joined by psychotherapist, activist and founder of ADHD Babes, Vivienne Isebor, to explore how ADHD shows up differently in Black women and non-binary people, and why that matters. Vivienne shares her own late diagnosis story, the cultural barriers that still exist around recognising ADHD, and how building a community for people like her became life-saving.Together, they unpack the damage caused by stereotypes, the inherited silence around neurodivergence, and the importance of joy, rest and connection in healing. Vivienne talks candidly about the emotional toll of being misread, the power of peer support, and why she’s hopeful about the future- even while pushing for systemic change.Whether you’re navigating your own diagnosis or just want to understand what ADHD looks like beyond the clichés, this conversation is packed with insight, care and collective wisdom.Find out more about ADHD Babes here New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

In this bonus episode, Katie and Sam reflect on their conversation with coach and podcast host Kate Moryoussef, exploring what it really means to love- and be loved- when you have ADHD.They open up about guilt, burnout, and the invisible load that often comes with neurodivergence. From parenting to partnership, they discuss how ADHD affects emotional labour, the fear of being “too much”, and the importance of empathy and communication on both sides. It’s an honest look at the complexities of support, self-awareness, and learning to let go- even when that means letting someone else book the flights.New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

Do you have someone in your life who has ADHD - or suspect they might - and are you wondering how to support them without losing yourself?This week, Sam and Katie are joined by coach, author, and host of The ADHD Women’s Wellbeing Podcast, Kate Moryoussef, to explore how ADHD impacts romantic relationships and family life, especially when it goes undiagnosed for years. From emotional overwhelm and miscommunication to managing burnout and guilt, they unpack the real-life challenges couples face and what it takes to navigate them with compassion.Together, they explore how to build healthy relationships when one or both partners have ADHD, the importance of co-regulation, and why self-responsibility is key. Kate shares actionable advice for neurotypical partners, plus tips for supporting ADHD children without becoming overbearing or burnt out.Whether you’re the one with ADHD, love someone who has it, or just want to understand how ADHD affects everyday life behind closed doors, this episode is packed with insight, validation, and practical support.Find out more about Kate’s book The ADHD Women’s Wellbeing Toolkit here  New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.

Zoë Lister, an actor and writer famous for her role in Hollyoaks, shares her compelling journey with ADHD, including her late diagnosis and the emotional chaos of masking. She discusses how motherhood revealed previously unnoticed challenges and the transformative impact of finally understanding her neurodivergent brain. The conversation explores the rollercoaster of finding the right medication, societal stereotypes, and how her ADHD has influenced her creative career. Zoë's story resonates with anyone who has struggled with self-identity and acceptance.

What if we told you that a huge number of people in the UK’s prisons are neurodivergent- many undiagnosed, unsupported, and misunderstood?This week on You’re Wrong About ADHD, Katie and Sam are joined by Met Police Detective Daley Jones, who was diagnosed with ADHD as an adult and has become one of the UK’s leading voices on neurodiversity in policing. Together, they explore the powerful link between ADHD and the criminal justice system, and why it often starts with missed diagnoses at school.Daley reveals how impulsivity, emotional dysregulation and people-pleasing can put undiagnosed ADHDers at risk of getting into trouble, and how a lack of understanding can make things worse at every stage- from arrest to court and prison. He also shares what it’s like to be a police officer with ADHD, the bias baked into the system, and the small changes that could make a big difference.If you’ve ever wondered how society could better support neurodivergent people- or what real reform looks like- this episode is a must-listen.Find out more about ADHD Alliance here New episodes of You're Wrong About ADHD are available every Wednesday and Friday. Got a question or story for the team? Send it to ADHDpodcast@global.comYou’re Wrong About ADHD is made in association with APX Content Ventures.