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On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta discuss the “crunchy” lifestyle to anti-vax movement pipeline. Plus, they offer up advice on grieving a beloved pet, and dealing with the pressures of being a nondrinker. Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/tiktok-crunchy-radicalize-parents-1234641814/https://www.washingtonpost.com/technology/2021/09/12/wellness-influencers-vaccine-misinformation/https://www.axios.com/2022/02/24/influencers-anti-vax-covid-conspiracies-misinformationhttps://ieeexplore.ieee.org/document/9663381https://ods.od.nih.gov/factsheets/DietarySupplementsInTheTimeOfCOVID19-Consumer/https://www.motherjones.com/politics/2020/06/the-anti-vax-movements-radical-shift-from-crunchy-granola-purists-to-far-right-crusaders/https://www.vice.com/en/article/88ggqa/how-the-far-right-is-radicalizing-anti-vaxxershttps://www.newsweek.com/crunchy-mom-wellness-joining-cult-1765911https://www.tiktok.com/@iamlevelingup/video/7172539571584945450 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta discuss the Buy Nothing project and the downfall of the community. Plus, they offer up advice on having an inexpensive wedding, and a return-to-office dilemma. Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.wired.com/story/the-battle-for-buy-nothing/https://www.curbed.com/2023/02/buy-nothing-gifting-with-integrity-drama.htmlhttps://www.washingtonpost.com/lifestyle/2023/02/06/buy-nothing-free-stuff/https://gothamist.com/news/extra-extra-the-buy-nothing-groups-are-beefinghttps://www.theverge.com/tech/2022/1/12/22878353/buy-nothing-groups-facebook-apphttps://buynothingproject.org/tpost/1hsmrslur1-a-brief-history-of-the-buy-nothing-projehttps://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2021/jan/04/inside-the-hyper-local-world-of-facebooks-buy-nothing-groups Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta share listener feedback on The Duggars, the Institute of Basic Life Principles (IBLP), and ice baths. Plus, listeners offer additional advice to recent letter writers. Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta discuss ice baths, and the potential benefits and drawbacks. Plus, they offer up advice on dealing with a neurodivergent partner, and finding a new therapist. Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources:https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC9012715/www.rcpe.ac.uk/heritage/bathing-prescription-brief-history-treatment-waterhttps://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/discovery-roman-gladiator-school-brings-famed-fighters-to-life-180959489/https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ice_bathhttps://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_expectancyhttps://www.nytimes.com/2022/10/27/style/cold-plunge-ice-bath.htmlhttps://www.standard.co.uk/escapist/wellness/ice-baths-cold-showers-benefits-b920446.htmlhttps://www.masterclass.com/articles/ice-bath-at-home-explainedhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5350472/https://www.wimhofmethod.com/benefitswww.biologicalpsychiatryjournal.com/article/S0006-3223(00)01057-X/pdfwww.goodrx.com/well-being/alternative-treatments/6-ice-bath-benefitshttps://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/10751106/https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/35021915/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta dive into the Duggar Family and their involvement in the religious cult the Institute of Basic Life Principles. The ladies break down the revelations that Jinger Duggar reveals in her bestselling book Become Free Indeed: My Story of Disentangling Faith from Fear, and the shame and social anxiety she experienced growing up. Plus, Kristen and Jolenta answer advice questions about emotional hoarding and helping a friend manage chronic pain.  Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources for this episode:https://iblp.org/https://www.chicagomag.com/chicago-magazine/july-2016/institute-in-basic-life-principles-hinsdale/https://www.nytimes.com/2023/02/10/us/jinger-duggar-vuolo-evangelical-christians.htmlhttps://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/stephaniemcneal/jinger-vuolo-duggar-memoir-interviewhttps://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/ministry-nourished-duggar-familys-faith-falls-grace-rcna14024https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/acts-of-faith/wp/2016/01/06/new-charges-allege-religious-leader-who-has-ties-to-the-duggars-sexually-abused-women/https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/people/2015/05/28/jim-bob-duggar-state-trooper-josh-duggar-fondling-sex-abuse/28058841/https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jun/01/childhood-in-cult-hard-imagine-survival-truly-unbelievable  https://inthesetimes.com/article/cult-of-characterhttps://open.spotify.com/show/0QrPMZQojsFIeQVvrEx2wVhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sojo-files/id1587371447https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/leaving-eden-podcast/id1525971285https://www.amazon.com/Becoming-Free-Indeed-Story-Disentangling/dp/1400335817https://www.christianitytoday.com/news/2023/february/grace-community-church-elder-biblical-counseling-abuse.htmlhttps://www.intouchweekly.com/posts/duggars-religion-151762/https://www.amazon.com/Quiverfull-Inside-Christian-Patriarchy-Movement/dp/0807010731https://www.duggarfamily.com/favorite/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On this episode of How to Be Fine, Kristen and Jolenta share listener feedback on life coaches and the all-beef diet. Plus, listeners offer additional advice to recent letter writers.  Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kristen and Jolenta bite into the all-beef diet controversy and share some of their own experiences with diet culture. Plus, they offer up advice on feeling behind in life and how to say goodbye to a family home.  Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta  Sources:https://www.insider.com/liver-king-sued-customers-steroid-revelation-2022-12 https://www.entrepreneur.com/business-news/i-lied-the-100-million-liver-king-admits-to-taking/440439 https://www.washingtonpost.com/wellness/2022/12/06/liver-king-steroids-apology-ancestral-diet/ https://www.liverking.com/ancestral-tenets/eat https://www.gq.com/story/in-the-court-of-the-liver-king-brian-johnson-ancestral-supplements https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/08/the-peterson-family-meat-cleanse/567613/ https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/stephaniemlee/jordan-peterson-daughter-mikhaila-meat-carnivore-diet https://mikhailapeterson.com/ https://beardedbutchers.com/blogs/news/carnivore-diet-vs-keto/ https://carnivorestyle.com/keto-vs-carnivore-diet/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

On the very first episode of How to Be Fine, the ladies dive into the unregulated world of the life coaching industry.Plus, they offer up advice on living in the present and reconnecting with friends. Do you have an advice question for us? Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our How to Be Fine (formerly By the Book) Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/kristenandjolenta Sources for this episode:https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/oct/06/life-coaching-brooke-castillo-unregulated-industryhttps://www.cnbc.com/2021/03/26/what-is-a-life-coach.htmlhttps://www.nbcnews.com/business/consumer/lawsuit-shines-unflattering-light-life-coaching-industry-n507401https://medium.com/personal-growth/the-problem-with-life-coaches-1117afa7ea08https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/marketplace-life-coach-1.6364745https://psyche.co/ideas/life-coaching-is-unregulated-and-growing-rapidly-should-it-be-reined-in  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Half advice show, half cultural critique, and one wild ride through the world of wellness. Join podcast besties Kristen Meinzer and Jolenta Greenberg as they dissect the inner workings of the betterment industry - and offer up some advice along the way. Their goal? To help get you a little closer to fine. How to Be Fine launches February 23rd on this feed. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Kristen & Jolenta revisit their years of making By the Book with a walk down memory lane. The ladies listen back on some of their favorite clips from throughout the years - like the time  Kristen used The Secret to move traffic, when the Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up nearly drove Dean mad, and when a drop of olive oil made Jolenta yelp for joy. Plus, they share a very special announcement!Join the By The Book Patreon Community! For $5 per month, you receive a new book summary, including all the rules we live by, each week. For $10 per month, you receive that PLUS a weekly affirmation podcast hosted by Jolenta and Kristen! Learn more at https://www.patreon.com/listentobythebook Kristen and Jolenta's new book How to be Fine is available now [amazon.com]. You can subscribe to Jolenta and Kristen's show, We Love You (And So Can You) on Stitcher, Apple Podcasts [podcasts.apple.com], or wherever you listen to podcasts. We love hearing from you! CALL us at 302-49B-OOKS. Email us at kristenandjolenta@gmail.com, or tweet us @jolentag, @kristenmeinzer, or @bythebookpod. And if you haven't already, please join our By The Book Facebook community! https://www.facebook.com/groups/116407428966900/?source_id=475465442806687 To get By the Book merch, head over to PodSwag.com: https://www.podswag.com/collections/by-the-book Check out Kristen's other podcasts! The Royal Report from Newsweek https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-royal-report/id1603695814 Movie Therapy with Rafer & Kristen https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/movie-therapy-with-rafer-kristen/id1508455193 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices