

Soft Skills Engineering
Jamison Dance and Dave Smith
It takes more than great code to be a great engineer. Soft Skills Engineering is a weekly advice podcast for software developers about the non-technical stuff that goes into being a great software developer.
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Sep 8, 2025 • 38min
Episode 477: Four months and I already hate my job and grumpy and fuzzy
A C# backend engineer shares frustrations about their job's technical debt and lack of automated testing, contemplating whether to switch companies or enhance skills with side projects. The discussion highlights the emotional challenges of staying in a stagnant role versus pursuing personal growth. Additionally, listeners explore communication barriers between engineers and product managers, with insights on fostering clarity and collaboration to improve teamwork and project success.

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Sep 1, 2025 • 38min
Episode 476: How much help is too much help and guarding against slop
The hosts tackle the delicate balance of mentoring junior engineers, weighing the need for independence against the importance of guidance. They discuss the frustrations and dilemmas faced when onboarding new team members. The conversation shifts to the pitfalls of AI-generated code, referred to as 'AI slop,' examining its effects on software quality and maintainability. Finally, they reflect on the tension between the speed of development and the necessity of maintaining high coding standards in an ever-evolving tech landscape.

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Aug 25, 2025 • 33min
Episode 475: Am I too loyal to my big tech job and politely preserving time
The hosts delve into the dilemma of choosing between a high-paying job offer and an internal transfer, weighing loyalty against career growth. They discuss the complexity of professional relationships and the importance of clear communication during transitions. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they tackle the challenge of managing workplace venting, emphasizing the need for boundaries and professionalism. They also explore effective feedback strategies, advocating for caring and constructive dialogues in tech environments.

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Aug 18, 2025 • 38min
Episode 474: I hate the idea of firing a low performer and cheaper context switching
The podcast dives into the tough reality of firing low performers, balancing empathy with accountability. There's a deep discussion on how new managers can handle termination transparently, while also maintaining team morale. Listeners also get tips on reducing the mental cost of context switching, especially when juggling meetings and coding tasks. Practical strategies for managing interruptions and nurturing curiosity in projects are shared, making strides towards improved focus and productivity.

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Aug 11, 2025 • 36min
Episode 473: Mental health support and overcoming FOMO of taking a break from work
Dive into a lighthearted exploration of workplace dynamics and mental health. The hosts tackle the challenges of supporting neurodivergent colleagues, especially those with ADHD, discussing effective strategies for fostering productivity. You'll hear personal stories about the juggling act of parental leave and staying relevant in tech amidst family life. Plus, enjoy playful debates on digital identity and whimsical community names, all wrapped in humor and relatable insights!

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Aug 4, 2025 • 27min
Episode 472: Should my junior dev use AI and thrown in to ETL
The discussion kicks off with a funny take on the challenges of tech device upkeep and community support. Then, the hosts dive into a debate about whether junior developers should use AI tools, weighing foundational skill-building against future job market demands. A listener shares their struggle transitioning to a data project that doesn't align with their expertise, prompting insights on navigating such mismatches in a large company. The hosts also explore tech stack adaptability and humorously suggest a dating app approach for internal job transfers.

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Jul 28, 2025 • 29min
Episode 471: Why does my junior engineer do so little and I fell asleep in a Zoom meeting
Frustrated with a junior developer sticking to assigned tasks, the hosts discuss how to encourage initiative without being bossy. They also share a humorous tale of a new senior developer who dozed off during a lengthy Zoom meeting, sparking ideas on engagement strategies for virtual calls. The importance of asking questions to promote understanding and initiative is highlighted, along with tips for keeping audiences attentive during online meetings. It's a lively blend of advice and relatable experiences for anyone in tech.

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Jul 21, 2025 • 30min
Episode 470: I said something stupid in a meeting and just want to code
The hosts dive into the cringe-worthy moments we all face in professional meetings, sharing laughs about accidental outbursts. They explore the intricate balance between technical skills and the bureaucratic tasks that often bog down software engineers. Listeners get practical strategies for improving team dynamics and managing awkward interactions. The discussion highlights the absurdities of workplace dynamics and the importance of humor to overcome challenges. It's a lighthearted yet insightful look at navigating the complexities of collaboration in tech.

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Jul 14, 2025 • 36min
Episode 469: Passed over for lead role and perhaps I'm the jerk
Explore the chaos of workplace dynamics as experienced employees navigate being overshadowed by inexperienced newcomers. Hear humorous takes on cookie banners while delving into the complexities of QA roles and responsibilities. The conversation covers the frustrations faced by individuals pushing for quality practices in resistant environments. With a focus on enhancing communication and team alignment, the hosts share valuable advice to empower listeners in overcoming challenges and improving workplace relationships.

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Jul 7, 2025 • 31min
Episode 468: Should I take a mini-retirement and doubling down on anachronisms
In this lively discussion, the hosts tackle the intriguing concept of mid-career pivots, exploring one listener's shift from software engineering to UX design after receiving a sizable inheritance. They humorously debate the less glamorous aspects of pursuing dreams, like yacht ownership versus financial stability. With personal anecdotes, they illustrate the importance of mini-retirements for self-discovery and joy, while also diving into the generational quirks of language in the workplace. Plus, there's a fascinating look back at historical tech methods and how they connect to today’s advancements.