Soft Skills Engineering

Episode 470: I said something stupid in a meeting and just want to code

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Jul 21, 2025
The hosts dive into the cringe-worthy moments we all face in professional meetings, sharing laughs about accidental outbursts. They explore the intricate balance between technical skills and the bureaucratic tasks that often bog down software engineers. Listeners get practical strategies for improving team dynamics and managing awkward interactions. The discussion highlights the absurdities of workplace dynamics and the importance of humor to overcome challenges. It's a lighthearted yet insightful look at navigating the complexities of collaboration in tech.
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ADVICE

Process Negative Emotions Actively

  • To process negative emotions, identify and name them, decide on action, and then act accordingly.
  • Including humor and sharing with trusted confidants helps lessen emotional burden.
ADVICE

Leverage Manager for Support

  • Talk to your manager about handling the annoying team and adjusting expectations.
  • Use management channels to lessen meeting burdens or improve team interactions.
INSIGHT

Annoying Teams Defend Themselves

  • Annoying teams likely do not care about negative feedback due to their defensive dynamics.
  • Their adversarial stance may prevent meaningful self-reflection or improvement.
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