

Small Things Often
The Gottman Institute
Give your relationships a boost in 5 minutes or less with Small Things Often from The Gottman Institute. We provide simple, proven, quick tips to help you deepen and enhance your relationships!
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Sep 30, 2020 • 3min
How to Respond Non-Defensively
It takes practice to respond non-defensively. On this episode of Small Things Often, we’re sharing the questions you need to ask yourself before jumping to your own defense. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 28, 2020 • 3min
Identifying the 3 Forms of Defensiveness
Do you know when you’re being defensive? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’re identifying the 3 forms of defensiveness so you can recognize them in conversations with your loved ones. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 23, 2020 • 3min
How Conflict Can Improve Your Relationship
Do you avoid dealing with any conflict with your partner because you think it will hurt your relationship? Think again! On this episode of Small Things Often, find out ways to deal with conflict and friction that can actually transform your relationship — and help make you and your partner even closer! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 21, 2020 • 4min
How to Recognize Gridlock and Overcome It
Are you and your partner totally stuck in perpetual conflict over a specific issue? Have you reached the point where neither of you are willing to open your mind to the other’s thoughts and opinions? Then you might be in gridlock. In this episode, learn how to recognize it — and ways to overcome it! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 16, 2020 • 2min
How to Become Aware of Your Emotions
Are you aware of your emotions? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’ll help you identify your feelings so you can help your loved ones when they experience difficult emotions. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 14, 2020 • 2min
Why You Don’t Always Have to Agree
You don’t always have to agree with your loved one! On this episode of Small Things Often, how you can change the goal from agreement to understanding during disagreements. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 9, 2020 • 3min
Embracing Relationship Changes
In relationships, the only constant is change. On this episode of Small Things Often, how you can embrace the changes to evolve individually and together with your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 7, 2020 • 3min
What Are Love Maps?
You probably think you know your partner, but do you have an active and up-to-date understanding of their interior world? We’re digging deep on this episode of Small Things Often so you can learn the importance of building Love Maps with your partner. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sep 2, 2020 • 3min
Are You Taking Responsibility in Your Relationship?
It’s easy to get defensive instead of taking responsibility in times of conflict, but what is that doing to your relationship? On this episode of Small Things Often, we’re sharing the importance of taking ownership of our actions and how they affect our loved ones. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Aug 31, 2020 • 3min
Why Being Neutral Can Be Invalidating for your Partner
Do you walk the road of “neutrality” when your partner comes to you with an emotional issue? If so, your relationship may be suffering because of it. On this episode of Small Things Often, learn why validation is so important — and how it can make or break a relationship. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices


