The Lila Rose Show

Why do men and women so often miss each other completely despite the best of intentions? Misunderstandings between the sexes often lead to tension, hurt, and total communication breakdown. Today’s guest, relationship expert Alison Armstrong, brings decades of research on male behavior to the table. She reveals how women unintentionally emasculate men by over-correcting, over-explaining, or interrupting. These habits push men out of their natural state of protect-and-provide into a posture of defense and retreat. Alison breaks down how to talk to men (hint: stop interpreting their reactions like they're female) and how just a few simple shifts can lead to dramatic transformation. By the end of this episode, you won’t just understand men better, you might even turn a few frogs into princes.Alison's website: https://www.alisonarmstrong.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. -Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!-EveryLife: https://www.everylife.com Buy diapers from an amazing pro-life diaper company and use code LILA and get 10% off!00:00:00 - Intro00:02:37 - Alison’s background00:03:09 - “Frog Farmer”00:10:30 - We Heart Nutrition00:11:27 - Why Study Men?00:24:41 - Seven Weeks Coffee00:25:46 - Women don’t need to try00:26:56 - How women emasculate men00:38:33 - EveryLife00:39:24 - Do women accept the whole package during marriage?00:48:59 - Two nervous systems for a reason01:08:41 - An example from Lila’s life01:24:31 - “Certification” in relationships 01:32:21 - Queen’s Code Experiment01:39:51 - 3 Ways Women Emasculate Men

Long before Myers-Briggs, there were the Four Temperaments. From Hippocrates to the Church Fathers to the 21st century, this timeless model has helped people understand themselves (and each other) on a deeper level.Now, Art and Laraine Bennett bring this ancient wisdom into the modern world with fresh insight and real-life application. Discover your temperament, decode your child’s baffling behavior, and turn your spouse’s quirks into opportunities for deeper connection and communication. Plus don’t miss Lila’s surprising temperament reveal!Website: https://artandlarainebennett.com/Amazon Store: https://amzn.to/3UsPEKzNEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Good Ranchers: https://go.goodranchers.com/lila Purchase your American Meat Delivered subscription today and get a free add-on of beef, chicken, or salmon! Use code LILA for $40 off! -EveryLife: https://www.everylife.com Buy diapers from an amazing pro-life diaper company and use code LILA and get 10% off!-Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!00:00:00 - Intro00:04:50 - What are temperaments?00:07:00 - Phlegmatic00:07:46 - Melancholics00:09:37 - Sanguine00:11:06 - Good Ranchers00:12:18 - Do opposites attract?00:19:57 - EveryLife00:20:48 - Has psychology come up with anything better than temperaments?00:25:34 - Therapy and Temperaments00:29:05 - Phlegmatic II00:30:12 - Seven Weeks Coffee00:31:16 - Fixing False Notions of Others00:38:08 - Sanguine II00:40:12 - Melancholic00:46:58 - Discipline for Parents00:56:22 - Lila takes temperament test01:01:52 - Can temperament change?01:06:51 - Pairing certain temperaments for relationships

Gene McConnell, the son of a pastor, was a naturally charismatic young man—full of life and passionate about his faith. But an early experience of abuse introduced deep wounds that led him into a decades long struggle with sexual addiction.Everything changed when a friend extended genuine love and acceptance, offering a glimpse of God’s grace and the unconditional embrace of the Father seen in the story of the Prodigal Son. That moment marked the beginning of a ten-year journey of healing and restoration.Along the way, Gene came to understand a profound truth: when shame and unmet emotional needs go unaddressed, they can keep people from experiencing the love they were created for. But he also discovered that real transformation is possible.Today, Gene shares his story to bring hope to others walking through similar battles. His message is simple and powerful: no one is too far gone—healing is possible.Authentic Relations International: https://www.authenticrelationshipsint.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Covenant Eyes: http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Kjngb9 Sign up to grow in purity and gain traction over sexual addiction: use code “LILA” for a free month!-Good Ranchers: https://go.goodranchers.com/lila Purchase your American Meat Delivered subscription today and get a free add-on of beef, chicken, or salmon! Use code LILA for $40 off! -EveryLife: https://www.everylife.com Buy diapers from an amazing pro-life diaper company and use code LILA and get 10% off!00:00:00 - Intro00:02:45 - Gene’s early challenges00:10:02 - Covenant Eyes00:11:05 - What tools would have helped your parents?00:16:40 - First exposure to p*rn00:20:26 - Good Ranchers00:21:37 - Did anyone know about your addiction? 00:37:35 - EveryLife00:38:35 - When did p*rn start to escalate into more?00:56:00 - Major fallout at church00:59:20 - How should churches handle pastor scandals?01:05:59 - His wife’s response to potential r*pe01:26:41 - 2 problems that drive addictions01:28:40 - It’s not about stopping, but becoming01:41:00 - Learning the most important principle01:42:17 - How can family members help?01:51:14 - Have you seen recovery and healed marriages?01:56:14 - P*dophiles02:14:35 - Solutions02:22:54 - Top 3 practical resources02:37:00 - This is a huge deal

When we hear the words of John 15:13, “No one has greater love than this, to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” most of us assume it’s a metaphor, not a literal call. But on June 18, that verse became a lived reality. Three friends, Val Creus, Matt Schoenecker, and Matt Anthony lost their lives in an act of heroic brotherhood. When Val jumped into the swimming hole at Rattlesnake Falls and called for help, both Matts jumped in after him without hesitation. Today, we’re joined by their close friend and fellow Opus Dei member, Matt Bowman, who shares how these men were remarkable not just in their final sacrifice, but in the way they lived: humbly, joyfully, and always in service to others, drawing people closer to Christ. We also remember another quiet hero, diver Juan Heredia, who risked his own life to recover their bodies and bring some measure of peace to grieving families. Their story reminds us to live with purpose, to love without delay, and to lead others to the source of all love: Christ Himself.Zephyr Institue: https://www.zephyr.org/Juan's Angel Diver site: https://angelsrecoverydiveteam.org/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!-Hallow: https://www.hallow.com/lila Enter into prayer more deeply this season with the Hallow App, get 3 months free by using this link to sign up! -Covenant Eyes: http://covenanteyes.sjv.io/Kjngb9 Sign up to grow in purity and gain traction over sexual addiction: use code “LILA” for a free month!00:00:00 - Intro00:04:01 - Understanding Opus Dei00:09:04 - Seven Weeks Coffee00:10:01 - Is DaVinci Code Accurate?00:12:53 - Response to Vatican II00:16:27 - What happened in the accident? 00:29:16 - Hallow00:30:06 - The Rescue Mission00:36:58 - Covenant Eyes00:38:02 - Who is Val?01:00:43 - Matt Schoenecker01:16:21 - Matt Anthony01:32:52 - Life after Matts and Val01:36:00 - Healthy Male Friendship

Ariel Fitz had it all until tragedy left her and her family homeless. Thrown into a new school where she didn’t speak the language, Ariel struggled to adjust and fell into depression and doubt. But God wasn’t done.Through deep trials, Ariel’s faith was rebuilt and so was her life. When she felt called to leave a traditional career and start creating TikTok content and music, it was a leap of radical surrender. That leap turned into a viral ministry reaching millions.In this episode, Ariel shares her powerful testimony, her unexpected rise on TikTok, and how faith fuels her music career. Her story is living proof that when God leads, anything is possible.Ariel’s website: https://www.arielfitzpatrick.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Nimi Skincare: The best skincare—and it aligns with your values. Use code LILA for 15% off! https://www.nimiskincare.com/discount/LILA?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-products-Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!-Hallow: https://www.hallow.com/lila Enter into prayer more deeply this season with the Hallow App, get 3 months free by using this link to sign up! 00:00:00 - Intro00:03:08 - Ariel’s Background00:09:06 - Seven Weeks00:10:02 - Experiencing Homelessness00:19:25 - I Renounced God00:25:57 - Nimi Skincare00:27:04 - Sharing struggles with family00:32:16 - Moral education from parents00:34:52 - Hallow00:35:42 - Moral issues in Christianity00:41:49 - Starting TikTok00:45:42 - Discerning God’s voice00:52:00 - Became a student of TikTok01:12:33 - Ariel’s music and singing

In this enlightening discussion, Mary Stanford, a professor and mother of seven, unpacks the complexities of obedience in marriage from her book, The Obedience Paradox. She explores how submission doesn't equate to inequality, emphasizing the beauty of mutual respect and collaboration. Stanford reflects on her upbringing, the dynamics of communication, and the importance of nurturing healthy relationships. By distinguishing true obedience from harmful dynamics, she advocates for dignity and individuality in marital roles.

Dr. Joseph Nicolosi Jr., a licensed clinical psychologist and researcher, dives into the complexities of sexual attraction and identity. He challenges the notion of fixed sexual orientation, discussing how trauma can influence and even alter attractions. Critics often mislabel his Reintegrative Therapy, but Nicolosi clarifies its intent to help those with unwanted attractions. The conversation also touches on the role of early relationships, the societal implications of sexuality theories, and the ethical aspects surrounding therapy focused on the LGBTQ community.

A disturbing trend is sweeping Gen Z—and it’s making headlines in The New Yorker, The Guardian, Time Magazine, and NPR. It’s called No Contact: young people aren’t just disagreeing with their parents—they’re cutting them off entirely.In an age where ideological conformity is demanded, even a hint of dissent can be grounds for exile. Radical acceptance is the new litmus test—and conservative parents are failing by default. Instead of sticking with the families who raised them, many are replacing them with “chosen family” that affirms every belief and lifestyle.Author Noelle Mering is sounding the alarm in her upcoming book, exposing how authoritarian ideas are driving a wedge through families—and how parents can fight back with truth, boundaries and love.Theology of Home website: https://theologyofhome.com/Noelle's website: https://www.noellemering.com/NEW: Join our exclusive Rose Report community! https://lilaroseshow.supercast.com - We'll have BTS footage, ad-free episodes, monthly AMA, and early access to our upcoming guests.A big thanks to our partner, EWTN, the world’s leading Catholic network! Discover news, entertainment and more at https://www.ewtn.com/ Check out our Sponsors:-Nimi Skincare: The best skincare—and it aligns with your values. Use code FREEDOM for 15% off! https://www.nimiskincare.com/discount/LILA?redirect=%2Fcollections%2Fall-products-We Heart Nutrition: https://www.weheartnutrition.com/ Get high quality vitamin supplements for 20% off using the code LILA. -Seven Weeks Coffee: https://www.sevenweekscoffee.com Buy your pro-life coffee with code LILA and get up to 25% off!00:00:00 - Intro00:02:46 - ‘No Contact’00:05:24 - Noelle’s background00:10:27 - Nimi Skincare00:11:31 - Did covid play a role?00:13:59 - Most tragic Gen-Z no contact story?00:21:16 - We Heart Nutrition00:22:14 - Rejecting older generations00:28:17 - Modern distaste for children00:34:16 - Seven Weeks00:35:23 - Maximilian Kolbe and Self Sacrifice00:43:15 - Left-wing authoritarianism00:46:28 - Honest progressives are good at self-correction00:51:46 - How to respond to this movement?00:59:35 - How can parents affirm children?01:03:47 - Therapy01:09:01 - Hopes from her book:

In this engaging discussion, Becket Cook, a former Hollywood insider turned author and podcaster, shares his remarkable transformation from a life of fame and same-sex relationships to finding deep purpose and peace in Christ. He candidly explores the emotional turmoil that led him to faith, recounting pivotal moments that challenged his identity. Becket also delves into his traumatic childhood experiences, the complexities of LGBTQ+ acceptance, and the profound impact of his spiritual awakening, offering a message of hope and inspiration for all.

Stephanie Gray Connors, a renowned pro-life apologist and speaker, shares her heartfelt journey of finding love at 40. She candidly discusses the heartache of waiting, the tension between her life’s purpose and personal longings, and the unexpected ways God’s timing unfolded in her life. Tune in for reflections on deep spiritual friendships, the complexities of balancing advocacy with personal commitments, and the beauty of discovering companionship later in life, all woven together with faith and humor.