Therapy Rebranded

In this episode, Rachel's still away in Europe, so Javae's best friend Patrice joins as a guest co-host with a surprise—a recording of a meeting from 2017 when they both worked at a job they loathed. Patrice shares the audio where she (and somehow Javae, even though she wasn’t there) gets reprimanded for being late and working too closely together on tasks. But before we dig into that juicy throwback...We kick things off by diving into some tough Reddit questions. First, a grieving wife discovers her late husband was unfaithful throughout their entire relationship. We unpack the emotional layers of complicated grief. Next, we respond to someone whose cousin committed a serious crime, but their family is brushing it off—what happens when your family’s moral compass is completely off? Lastly, we tackle a dilemma about a coworker "stealing time"—should they mind their business or risk loyalty for the sake of ethics?Finally, we get into the core of the episode: the job that strengthened Patrice and Javae’s friendship. They reflect on their time at a toxic workplace, talk about feeling micromanaged, and share insights on race, gender, and workplace dynamics. Tune in for the laughs, real talk, and some throwback drama!4o📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

With Rachel out of town, Javae brings on her friend Joe Onuoha—a police officer, business owner, and father—to discuss a wide range of topics, including his experiences during the George Floyd Uprisings, the Breonna Taylor verdict, body cams, mental health stigma in policing, and the debate around defunding the police.We start by breaking down a Reddit post about a wife who’s helping her best friend cheat, questioning the trust issues and motivations behind the behavior. Then, we delve into Joe’s background, from his immigration from Nigeria due to religious persecution to his upbringing in Minnesota and his decision to join law enforcement.Joe shares how becoming a police officer affected his decade-long friendship with Javae, particularly during the George Floyd Uprisings. We discuss the complexities of policing, racial identity, and the social pressures Joe faces in his role as a Black officer.Join us for an honest conversation on policing, race, and navigating tough conversations between friends📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

Rachel has passed her LICSW exam and launched her own business, The Collective Mental Health and Wellness! Specializing in helping individuals and couples with anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship stressors, Rachel's new venture is off to a great start. We toast to her achievements before diving into some juicy Reddit posts.First, we tackle a couple comparing their "micro-cheating" incidents. They turn to Reddit for answers on whose actions were worse and whether they can salvage their relationship. Next, we explore the struggles of two adolescents dealing with "insane parents." One teen is caught in their dad's relationship drama, while another faces a manipulative mother driven by addiction.Javae shares her experiences as a Black American traveling internationally and the surprising revelation about her name during the trip. Meanwhile, Rachel recounts having the most important therapy session of her life, though she can't quite remember the details!This episode was shot in mid-June, and little did we know how much would change before its release! With the reality show of American politics heating up for election season, we wrap up by discussing Clarence Thomas's agreement with Rahimi in the US vs. Rahimi Texas Supreme Court Case. What's the benefit of arming people convicted of domestic abuse? How have these protections helped domestic violence victims? We dive deep into these pressing issues.News Articles Referenced In The Episode https://www.texasstandard.org/stories/supreme-court-domestic-violence-guns-zackey-rahimi/https://abcnews.go.com/Politics/supreme-court-upholds-federal-ban-firearms-domestic-violence/story?id=111272685📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

In this episode, we start by tackling key topics: understanding childhood trauma, supporting parents who fear therapist judgment, why some therapists don't take insurance, and bridging generational gaps in parenting. We then dive into a Reddit post where a parent is troubled by their adult child’s negative recollections of childhood. We explore the differing perspectives and discuss how collective healing might bridge the divide. Next, we dissect a dramatic Reddit story of a man whose wife confessed to cheating only after he donated a kidney to her. Can their marriage be saved? We're not so sure. Lastly, we interview Rosilynn Morris about her passion for trauma work, her insights on attachment, and the unique challenges of being both a therapist and a parent.If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rosilynn being your therapist, click the link: [Rosilynn Morris](https://www.find-your-piece.com/) 📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

Tune in for some content that’s fun, a bit petty and not at all therapeutic! We shake things up by interviewing a contestant from the wildly popular show, Pop the Balloon or Find Love. If you want to watch the episode before seeing this its Episode 12, (from 28 minutes - 37:00 minutes). In this episode of *Therapy Rebranded*, we dive into the wild world of reality dating with special guest Mayowa Ojo, famously known as the "Black Barbie" from episode 12 of *Pop the Balloon Or Find Love*. Before we get into the interview, we tackle a couple of thought-provoking Reddit posts.First up, we discuss a 37-year-old woman’s dilemma about men who write "Not in a rush" on their dating profiles. Is this a red flag for commitment issues, or are we all reading too much into it? Then, we explore the story of a man who slept with his wife's cousin in a misguided act of revenge after her infidelity. Now he's filled with regret and fears his wife might find out. Is this a relationship-ending move, or can they work through it? We share our personal experiences with infidelity and betrayal, discussing whether it's possible to move forward after such deep wounds.Next, we shift gears to Mayowa’s experience on *Pop the Balloon Or Find Love*. Mayowa opens up about why she decided to join the show, the behind-the-scenes process of shooting her episode, and her candid thoughts on what went down. We break down each part of her segment, delving into why the men rejected her and how she felt about each of them. Javae digs up some dirt on Eric's love story, and Mayowa spills the tea on behind-the-scenes drama, including DMs from other contestants, failed matches, and more!Mayowa also shares who she initially wanted to match with and which guys ended up apologizing after the show. To wrap things up, she talks about her own dating history, her love for polyamory, and how her last throuple led her to therapy.Don't miss this juicy, revealing episode filled with reality TV insights, relationship talk, and so much more![Lash Haus] (https://www.lashbossacademy.org/) 📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

Reddit Drama and Biracial Mental HealthIn this episode, we kick off live on YouTube by diving into a fascinating Reddit user who piqued Javae's interest. We analyze her posts, her bans from various forums, and her fears of becoming a spinster due to losing her virginity past 25. This segues into a discussion about race in dating and the racial features used by Hinge. We wrap up our live session with a post from a woman living with her ex-boyfriend who believes he might be hinting at wanting to kill her. Is she overreacting?After YouTube Live, we head to Patreon for an in-depth discussion on biracial mental health. Javae shares a statistic revealing that people who identify as multiple races have the worst mental health outcomes in the country. We explore the reasons behind this and share personal experiences.We also discuss the case of Sonya Massey and the issues with policing that lead to unnecessary deaths, expressing our frustrations and fears.Finally, we touch on Biden stepping down as the Democratic nominee, Kamala Harris’s potential candidacy, and the reactions we've seen. We end with some creative marketing ideas for the Democratic party to boost voter turnout.Check In: Biracial Mental Health https://mhanational.org/mentalhealthfactshttps://www.nimh.nih.gov/health/statistics/mental-illness#:~:text=Young%20adults%20aged%2018%2D25,AN)%20adults%20(26.6%25).Sonya Masseyhttps://www.theguardian.com/us-news/article/2024/jul/22/sonya-massey-illinois-shooting-video📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

Live Listener Q&A and Deep Dives into Therapy CritiquesWe kick off this episode live on YouTube, taking a few listener questions before diving into our main topics. First up, we explore a Reddit post from someone who believes therapy does more harm than good. We both identify some common themes that hint at a particular diagnosis, leading to a discussion on how therapists often struggle to support individuals with borderline personality disorder. This includes a mini-explanation of CBT and its limitations.Next, we answer a listener's question about forcing a partner into therapy and where to start with couples therapy. This sparks a side conversation about how lying often stems from not wanting to comply with what's being asked.We then address a listener's concern about a partner they suspect is cheating, despite having no solid proof. Every time he brings it up, his wife freaks out. What should he do now?After wrapping up our live session on YouTube, we continue the conversation on Patreon. We end with a general discussion about JD Vance as Trump’s potential running mate and the implications of his proposed policies on gender-affirming care, not only for the trans community but also for the providers who support them.📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

Bridging Faith and Mental Health with Toni TaylorWe kick off this episode with special guest Toni Taylor, LPCC, MA, RYT! Toni is a faith-based counselor who blends mental health research with Christianity to support clients without discrediting their beliefs. She shares her approach to helping clients with religious trauma, processing their relationship with God, and rethinking their beliefs. Toni discusses how faith can be an intervention tool, using scriptures, Christian-based resources, and prayer in sessions. Her goal is to “be the gap in between” faith and mental health.Next, we dive into our first Reddit dilemma: a woman discovers her husband is paying a $900 car payment for “an old family friend.” Initially, he lied but has now confessed. Can they recover from this, or should she leave to avoid a lifetime of drama? All three therapists weigh in on how they'd handle this situation.In the second Reddit story, a woman is devastated when her new husband admits he doesn't find her attractive. The therapists have differing opinions on whether her husband was wrong and how to move forward.We then discuss Meagan Good’s appearance on Club ShayShay, focusing on her relationship with religion. Javae expresses concern over her acting coach introducing her to religion at 12, while Toni provides a different perspective, challenging the notion that children shouldn’t explore religion without their parents.We also explore a couple from season 4 of "Couples Therapy," Joey and Rex, whose relationship issues are deeply intertwined with religion. We debate who is in the wrong and whether they can make it work. It becomes clear that religion is a distraction from her unhealthy close relationship with her mother.We wrap up with a discussion on how religion and therapy are often seen as being at odds with each other.📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

In this episode, we start by giving advice to a Redditor who is unsure if she should get a DNA test, despite her mom's warnings. We speculate on why her mother might not want her to uncover the truth - could she be adopted, or was her dad a sperm donor? Ultimately, she decides not to pursue the test. Is that the right call?Next, we dive into a reddit post from a couple who concealed their genders to seek unbiased advice on their relationship. It soon becomes clear that the writer is a man who doesn't want to stay in the relationship. Skipping our mental health check-in, we review the HBO documentary Slave Play: Not a Movie. A Play. We discuss the initial outrage, the taboo topics it addresses, and the racial themes it explores.We then delve into Nicole LePera, The Holistic Psychologist, and her substantial following. Javae begins by sharing her extensive research and initial reluctance to discuss the topic, followed by a description of LePera’s podcast, platform, and captivating language. Rachel adds her insights on the brand and its goals for subscribers. We then analyze a few podcast episodes, examining how their broad generalizations could be harmful to some groups. We conclude with a discussion on accusations of pseudoscience, LePera's strong belief in CPTSD, and more!Selfhealers Soundboard Episodes [that Javae References]Episode 50: How To Deal With Toxic Situations Episode 1: We’re in a Throuple Chapter 3: A New Theory of Trauma Episode 91: An Honest Conversation On Father’s Day 📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now

We kick off the episode by diving into our opinions on weight loss drugs, discussing their effectiveness and cost. Rachel opens up about her personal judgments towards people who use these drugs and how she manages to keep these feelings from affecting her clients. Javae explores the mood, self-esteem, and health benefits lost by not pursuing weight loss naturally. We question the sustainability of weight loss off the drug, the long-term use of type 2 diabetes medications by non-diabetics, and the potential dissatisfaction for those with body dysmorphia or eating disorders.Next, we tackle the topic of food addiction and obesity, pondering whether obesity could ever be classified as a disease. After a brief check-in, we continue the conversation on Patreon.We then move on to the intricacies of blended families, discussing the challenges and shifting perceptions of family as relationships between step-parents and parents end. Both therapists share their sadness about their current relationships with former step-parents and reflect on how these relationships shaped their childhood. Join us for this episode as we navigate these complex topics! 📧 For business inquiries, listener advice, feedback, or questions, please email us at therapyrebranded@gmail.com 📣 Connect with us:* Listen on your favorite platform: [Apple Podcasts](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/therapy-rebranded/id1705644055), [Spotify](https://open.spotify.com/show/6LYgiFlFWzYFxy9Kfpb7gz?si=d07c7b2251ec4155)* Follow us on social media: [TikTok](http://www.tiktok.com/@therapyrebranded), [Instagram](https://instagram.com/therapyrebranded)If you live in Minnesota and are interested in Rachel being your therapist, connect with her at the links below! [Psychology Today](https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/rachel-collins-minneapolis-mn/1321695)[Book A Session](https://rachel-collins7781.clientsecure.me/)🎧 Listen to the full episode now