The Unschool by Andi Alleman

Let's talk about haters, critics, and naysayers and their impact on our manifestations. Should we listen to them, let them take our confidence down, or is there a learning lesson when someone says you’re not good enough? Can we use critique as an opportunity for growth? Consider this: If everyone is happy with what you’re up to, you probably aren’t stepping out of the comfort zone enough. There are a few reasons you may experience haters. As your star rises, it’s inevitable, there will almost certainly be critics and naysayers with something to say about the work that you’re doing to manifest your dream life. In this episode, I’m sharing three tips for letting other people’s shade turn into your shine. Read more on the podcast blog at ouiwegirl.com/podcast.  Resources mentioned in this episode: The episode My Best Friend Shares Her Woo Woo Journey a conversation with my bestie Elsie Larson of A Beautiful Mess, stay tuned we’ll have Elsie on the show again soon! Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256! Upcoming events to know about: After two years of nurturing our amazing Oui, We community online we're excited for our upcoming retreats — hello, New Orleans & Bali!  Travel is the ultimate mind opener and I can’t wait to do it with you! Experience soul-nourishing workshops and experiences while adventuring through New Orleans or Bali with a group of high vibe like-minded people by your side.  This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

Ah - those famous quotes about risk-taking. We've all heard them.  "Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far it is possible to go." - T.S. Eliot "Do one thing every day that scares you." - Eleanor Roosevelt So let's talk about it. Taking the risk. Making a big leap. Stepping into the fire. We know what a difference it can make in the trajectory of our lives, but so often we’re too afraid to go for it. Living in this digital world we often only see other people’s end results. We see someone having the career we want, enjoying the success we wish we had, finding the dream apartment, meeting the loving romantic partner - and we think how did they do it?! How are they so lucky to have all the beautiful things that seem to make life feel complete? Before recording this episode I reflected, on what I've learned about risk-taking over the last several decades. In this episode, I'm spilling it. Three things I’ve learned about risk-taking: You don’t have to have the confidence to take the big leap, just the willingness to take the first step. I share the story about vision boarding the brand new retreat house and the first steps I took to bring the dream to reality. Those steps included hiring an outsourced CFO and learning about real estate and the market where I was interested in buying property. Stop watching everyone else’s success and comparing yourself. It’ll paralyze you. When we allow in the comparison we’re making so many assumptions about why someone else has it made and we don’t. We start getting caught up in the “how” versus staying in a state of embodiment and flow. To become a master manifestor we need to hold the vision, align emotionally, and then find the practical strategies that will keep us moving forward in order to get us where we dream of going. Be in community. Surround yourself with expanders, and get accountability partners to support you. James Clear, the author of Atomic Habits, says “surround yourself with people who have the same goals as you, you’ll rise together. Knowing that someone else is watching is a powerful motivator.” When making big moves call up the people that you know will believe in your vision, have a similar dream as yours, and cheer each other on along the way. If you don’t already have these people in your life, join community groups or mastermind programs that will give you the opportunity to meet people doing what you dream of doing. Read more on the blog. Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256! Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

What is Human Design? Sometimes called the “science of the aura,” Human Design pinpoints the way in which your energy flows as an individual and offers you strategies and insight on how to use your energy correctly so you can find personal alignment as you live your unique life purpose. It’s a synthesis of a variety of ancient modalities and modern science too.  In this episode, we’re not asking “what’s your astrology big three?” instead we’re asking “what’s your design?” As a relatively new system founded in 1987, Human Design brings together multiple ancient modalities including Astrology, the I-Ching, Kabbalah, and the Chakra system, which is then fused together with the contemporary disciplines of quantum mechanics, astronomy, genetics, and biochemistry. My guests today are Shayna Cornelius and Dana Stiles of DayLuna and if you’re asking “what is Human Design?” you’re in the right place. DayLuna was created to share a deep knowledge of Human Design and we’re getting a crash course on Human Design type, strategy, authority, and more. We talk about learning to uncover your unique energy blueprint, strategies for living in alignment with your true purpose, cultivating self-awareness, and learning to make decisions with the body versus the mind. The pair's mission is to empower the collective towards self-love, personal freedom, and radical authenticity. DayLuna offers diverse products and services including personalized Human Design ritual kits, personalized parenting blueprints, live readings, reader training, video courses, and more! The sky truly is the limit when it comes to your own potential and Human Design gives you a crystal clear manual on understanding yourself and unlocking your purpose.  To learn more about DayLuna check out their website.  Book mentioned in this episode: Linda Bunnell’s Human Design: The Definitive Book of Human Design, The Science of Differentiation by Ra Uru Hu Registration is open now at ouiwestudio.com, our intimate group size means space is limited! Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256!   Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

Let’s get juicy. Do sex and pleasure relate to manifestation? Let’s talk about it. In this episode, I'm collaborating with health & transformational life coach Emily Golin of To Bra or Not To Bra Podcast on a joint episode that also includes a conversation about astrology, rituals, habits, and so much more. What is a joint episode you ask? The conversation recorded in this episode is airing simultaneously on both this show and Emily’s show as well. Fun! Emily Golin is a certified health & transformational life coach. She is the founder of Embody Health & Mental Wellness Coaching and podcast host of the To Bra Or Not To Bra Podcast. Once a financial consultant, now turned health coach, she has a passion for helping women step into their healthiest, most confident, inspired versions of themselves. Learn more about Emily on our podcast blog page. Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256! Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

Is moving to Bali and studying with a Balinese healer really as Eat, Pray, Love as it sounds? Today’s guest is living that experience firsthand and takes us on her journey.  Originally a student of civil engineering, Flo Vega believes we can all live a mindful and happy life. Flo shifted her focus as she learned to work with energy. She moved to Bali, was invited to train with a Balinese healer, and continue her path. Today she guides people on their growth and healing journey. She works with her clients to bring awareness to what their soul is communicating, while helping them to let go of what's not serving them, and shift unhealthy patterns. In her sessions, she integrates what she's learned from different holistic practices including Reiki and Akashic Records as well. She specifically works with the chakra system and an incredibly powerful visualization process. Flo brings awareness to what needs to be addressed, released, healed, or transmuted to live a more loving and conscious life. Follow Flo on Instagram. Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

Holly Laurel is an intuitive healer, reiki master, psychic, and spiritual mentor.  Although she was born and raised in New York, Holly is not your typical New Yorker. Exposed to all things alternative wellness from birth, Holly grew up with parents who brought her to full moon circles, women's groups, and her grandmother's crystal shop on the weekends.  Despite her woo woo upbringing, for nearly a decade she worked in the corporate creative world of advertising until her personal journey of healing led her from NYC to Bali and a realization that she could no longer ignore her calling as a healer and space holder. As a reminder: the doors to Oui, We Studio (@ouiwestudio) are officially open! The studio is designed to empower you and support your personal well-being. The courses we’re offering inside the studio are focused on Manifestation, guidance to pursue your highest calling, as well as personal and professional development. Want to travel with us?: After two years of nurturing our amazing community online we're excited for our upcoming retreats — hello, New Orleans & Bali! Travel is the ultimate mind opener and I can’t wait to do it with you! Experience soul-nourishing workshops and experiences while adventuring through New Orleans or Bali with a group of high vibe like-minded people by your side. Embrace the creativity of these magical destinations, and leave with new friends plus a renewed sense of optimism and discovery. NEW ORLEANS May 26 - May 30, 2022 (women’s retreat) BALI March 27 - April 3, 2023 (open to all) Registration is open now at ouiwestudio.com, our intimate group size means space is limited! Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256!  Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

If you’ve been feeling like it’s time to re-build your manifestation plan, design a new vision board for the spring season, and get re-inspired to continue your manifestation practice this episode is for you. I’m sharing an update on the forest retreat getaway house I’ve had on my vision board, and details on the shift I had to make personally to have this manifestation come through. In today's episode, I'm also sharing a visioning exercise that works in conjunction with the Law of Attraction, that will help you begin to build the vision board that aligns with your wildest dreams. We all hold beliefs that subconsciously – or consciously – stop us from taking steps forward. But here’s the thing: we can break through these blocks. That’s one of the major reasons why a manifestation practice is so important. Get the full show notes at ouiwegirl.com/podcast/how-to-use-a-vision-board As a reminder: the doors to Oui, We Studio (@ouiwestudio) are officially open! The studio is designed to empower you and support your personal well-being. The courses we’re offering inside the studio are focused on Manifestation, guidance to pursue your highest calling, as well as personal and professional development. To celebrate the launch of the studio and this course we’re also offering a Free Manifestation Masterclass: 4 Steps to Design Your Manifestation Plan. The free masterclass won’t be open long, so get in while you can. Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256! Text me the code “BLUEPRINT” for something extra special. 😉😘 Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

Just like building a house, you have the power to custom design your world. In today's episode, I'm sharing one mindset exercise that will help you release blocks, and get into manifestation mode faster, so you can build your dream life - brick by proverbial brick. When we're living with blocks it’s often because we’re experiencing a shame story. When we’re experiencing shame we limit our ability to be seen. We lessen our value, we don't share our gifts, we don't allow others the opportunity to appreciate and support us. Releasing shame gives us an opportunity to open our hearts, to experience oneness and flow, and receive. Our shame often creates “rackets”. Rackets are emotional attachments that are unwanted and persistent. In this episode, you’ll learn more about what rackets are, how they’re likely covertly running your life, and how to begin to release them. We also discuss what Manifestation is NOT — Manifestation is not saying positive affirmations over and over again. That might feel good and can make small imprints in your mind, but making substantial changes to the subconscious mind requires re-wiring. It’s like renovating the house from the ground up — you’ve got to pull up the subfloor, knock down walls, and choose a whole new design scheme. p.s. it’s worth adding: manifestation has nothing to do with superstition. We’re all human beings; we’ll have high vibrational days and low ones, too — having a “low vibe” thought won’t take you out of the game. However, if you’re looking for a practice to support your emotional state of being, if you’re seeking tools to step into a higher vibe state of being give Rituals of Manifestation a try! Interested in simple strategies to manifest more? Listen to this episode next! As a reminder: the doors to Oui, We Studio (@ouiwestudio) are officially open! The studio is designed to empower you and support your personal well-being. The courses we’re offering inside the studio are focused on Manifestation, guidance to pursue your highest calling, as well as personal and professional development. Our first course available in the studio is 🖇 The Manifestation Blueprint—On Demand! To celebrate the launch of the studio and this course we’re also offering a Free Manifestation Masterclass: 4 Steps to Design Your Manifestation Plan. The free masterclass won’t be open long, so get in while you can. Have questions, or want to say hi, text me 📱at +1 (323) 405-9256! Text me the code “BLUEPRINT” for something extra special. 😉😘 Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs

In today's episode, I'm sharing a big life update! I’m engaged, and I have a special guest here joining me to tell the story! The journey to manifestation — learning, healing, visioning, growing — it’s never a straight line. One of the things I love about the Oui, We 8-Step Manifestation Practice is the space it allows for releasing old ways of doing things, how it gives us an opportunity to create little daily practices to feel good in our skin, and how it teaches us to stay in regular conversation with the universe.  When making my personal requests to the universe I always ask for “this or something greater.” My students and I recognize that our mortal minds simply can’t know everything that’s meant for us. There’s so much trust and flow in the process. A little backstory on Ben & me: Our first date was seven years ago — from then on we traveled the world, Ben playing music, me building my business — it was a wonderous, challenging, unusually awesome way to build a relationship. We’ve lived in 3 cities, finally landing in Cali, and it’s felt as if we’ve finally found our home. We’ve always felt at home with each other, I’ve called him my hubs for years — but now it’s going to be official official. Read the full engagement story and see pics on the blog. As a reminder: the doors to Oui, We Studio (@ouiwestudio) are officially open! The studio is designed to empower you and support your personal well-being. The courses we’re offering inside the studio are focused on Manifestation, guidance to pursue your highest calling, as well as personal and professional development. Our first course available in the studio is 🖇 The Manifestation Blueprint—On Demand! To celebrate the launch of the studio and this course we’re also offering a Free Manifestation Masterclass: 4 Steps to Design Your Manifestation Plan. The free masterclass won’t be open long, so get in while you can. Have questions, or want to say hi, text me at +1 (323) 405-9256! Text me the code “BLUEPRINT” for something extra special.  Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Photo: @mk.marykatherine Closing music: Pet Fangs

In today's episode, I'm sharing some of my favorite full moon rituals - these are beautiful practices to simply disconnect from the busy and tune back into nature, the universe, and YOU. Before you begin, remember: enter into rituals with a clear mind and an open heart. If you feel negative thoughts arising, simply ask your mind to ground into the present moment and to wash away worry, focusing only on the exact moment at hand.  Manifestation Rituals are one part mystical mindset, and one part practical strategy - and these rituals are designed to help you spring clean your life's dreams.  Get the full details on these rituals and the step-by-step guide on the blog.  If you're interested in taking your practice further download my free 8 step manifestation guide or get onto your soul-led path with a system to lead you there, every step of the way in Manifestation Blueprint.  Join the community free Full Moon Circle, taking place every month on or around the Full Moon. Have questions, have an episode recommendation, or just want to say hi text me at +1 (323) 405-9256! I’d love to hear your manifestation stories too to share on future episodes. Resources in the episode:  Smoke Cleansing 101 Upcoming events to know about: Rituals of Manifestation: A monthly container featuring my manifestation method incorporating yogic technology, psychology, cosmic alignment, and the science of human energy.  The Opulent Shift: The coaching program with multi-passionate creativepreneurs, strategists, and mentors Andi & Nadia. For women ready to receive a customized strategy on how to up-level their earnings by tapping into their unique strengths, natural energetics, and innate gifts. Find more to love and join our community at ouiwegirl.com. Where to find me: ouiwegirl.com @ouiwegirl Follow the show Instagram page: @yourwoowoobff This show is produced, mixed, recorded + additional music by T'Ben Alleman Closing music: Pet Fangs