Being Human with Steve Cuss

**For journals, online community or to inquire about Steve serving your organization, visit www.capablelife.me** This week Steve chats with Jay Kim, a thoughtful and wise young pastor who chats through analog Christianity, challenges of transition in leadership and minority culture. There were just so many fantastic nuggets of wisdom in this episode. Jay Y Kim serves as lead pastor at WestGate Church.He has written two cracking books on navigating our faith in a digital age: Analog Church and Analog Christian and was a contributor to Red  Skies. You can reach Jay on Twitter, Instagram, and Facebook. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

** For a journal, video series or to join our Capable Life self paced learning journey, visit www.capablelife.me ** I'm writing a new book! For feedback, or to share your own gaps, email steve@stevecusswords.com Also, shout out to Don Pape at PapeCommons.  For more about Tyler Schultz:  The Dropout Podcast Tyler Schultz Interview.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

** For a journal, video series or to join our Capable Life self paced learning journey, visit www.capablelife.me **Murray Bowen, founder of Family Systems Theory developed 8 concepts to guide and explain how we think and act. Understanding and putting into practice these 8 concepts can really revolutionize your relationship with people and with anxiety.This episode is part 2 of 2 as we cover the last 4 of the 8 concepts. Hosted by Steve Cuss and Brendan Reed. (Listen to Part 1 here.)**This episode is a re run of one of our most downloaded episodes.*****Apologies for episode 150 which was supposed to be this recording, but we mixed up the file, so we have deleted episode 150 and this episode is the correct file.***Links referenced in both episodes:MLA Episode featuring Rich VillodasMLA Episode featuring Jim HerringtonMLA Episode featuring Trisha TaylorEmotionally Healthy LeadershipThe Leader’s Journey8 Concepts of Bowen Theory bookGeneration to Generation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Lucy Peppiatt is the Principal of Westminster Theological Centre in the UK where she teaches classes in systematic theology and spiritual formation. She is the author of volumes on discipleship, women in the NT, and the imago Dei and has a particular interest in the relation of Christ and the Spirit. She and her husband, Nick Crawley, have been in church leadership for over 30 years. They have four married sons.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

DJ Chuang works as a freelance strategy consultant with over 20 years of experience in developing digital strategies and effective team processes for businesses, nonprofits and churches, accomplishing a reputation for pioneering innovations, developing effective resources, and strategically connecting people for greater impact. DJ is a recognized facilitator of dynamic conversations that co-create innovative solutions that meet specific organizational needs and context. He’s launched 3 podcasts, edited 2 books, and authored 1 book.DJ has worked with a wide range of organizations, including: AT&T, American Bible Society, Get.Bible, Leadership Network, Exponential Network, Worship Leader Magazine, Visually Linked Bible, L2 Foundation, and Biola University. DJ has been featured on PBS, NBC News, Los Angeles Times, OC Register, Christian Post, and NPR. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Sharon Hodde Miller is a speaker, author, church planter, co pastor and scholar whose recent book The Cost Of Control is a must read. Sharon diagnoses our control issues, but then sifts them through modern challenges like smart phones and body image. A delightful chat with a sharp and vital thinker.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

**To join Capable Life before the price increase, sign up for our free communications masterclass or buy a journal, visit www.stevecusswords.com Murray Bowen, founder of Family Systems Theory developed 8 concepts to guide and explain how we think and act. Understanding and putting into practice these 8 concepts can really revolutionize your relationship with people and with anxiety.This episode is part 1 of 2 as we cover 4 of the 8 concepts. Hosted by Steve Cuss and Brendan Reed.Links referenced in both episodes:MLA Episode featuring Rich VillodasMLA Episode featuring Jim HerringtonMLA Episode featuring Trisha TaylorEmotionally Healthy Leadership The Leader’s Journey8 Concepts of Bowen Theory book Generation to Generation  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Steve is delighted to be joined by his 15 year old daughter, Kaylee. Kaylee is a foremost expert on the TV show Gilmore Girls AND she has sat through enough of Steve’s workshops (and, frankly, dinner conversations) that she is able to diagnose the anxiety in the System of Gilmore Girls. Steve and Kaylee cover triangulation, double binds, mixed messages and more.  Note: www.capablelife.me membership prices increase Sept 15th. Join now before the price goes up.  Also, our journals are now available for sale! You can use the above link to order a journal.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dr Anne Pattel-Gray was the first Indiginous Australian to receive a PhD in Theology and she has used her personal experience and training to speak prophetically into unjust and evil racist systems. Anne has achieved many firsts in her life, and she is known as a trail blazer and has opened many doors for her people. She is a recognised scholar, Aboriginal activist and prolific writer with several publications –chapters, articles, edited works and authored books. Steve first encountered Dr Pattel-Gray’s work while he was in seminary and was thrilled to chat with her about the nature of power, what the white church can do and the ongoing plight of First Nations people. Anne is the author of many books including Through Aboriginal Eyes Note: Capable Life subscription price is increasing September 15. You can learn more about Capable Life as well as join to lock in the current price here. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

After a quick update and a candle lighting, Steve digs into the nature of power by comparing the Roman Pax Romana to the Gospel of Jesus and the Gospel of our chronic anxiety and inner critic.  To learn more about the free Communication Style masterclass, visit www.stevecusswords.com Note: Capable Life membership prices increase Sept 15. To join before the price increases, visit www.capablelife.me   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices