The hosts explore the three core relationships everyone has: with themselves, others, and God. They discuss how assumptions, reactivity, and recurring patterns can impact these connections. Personal self-awareness emerges as a key theme in enhancing relationships. Special emphasis is placed on recognizing divine presence in daily life. The conversation also highlights the complexities of connecting with others during hardships while previewing relevant upcoming guests and enriching literature. They tease upcoming discussions that promise to delve deeper into these important dynamics.

Whether our holidays are snowy or sunny—as they are for Steve Cuss as he records from Perth, Australia—the same thing is true: Christmas is a time to remember God’s nearness to us. Steve looks to the text of Luke 2, exploring Mary and Joseph’s journey to Bethlehem and their quest for a place to stay. He describes the meaning behind the Greek word philoxenia (“love of the stranger”) and the Hebrew word Immanuel (“God with us”) and considers what those terms may mean for Christians today. Ultimately, Steve encourages listeners to recognize that God is the ultimate host—welcoming us with love into a forever family.Resources mentioned in this episode include: Peculiar Treasures by Frederick Buechner “Six White Boomers” ​​Philoxenia Immanuel Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this engaging conversation, Andrew Kuss, a biblical studies student with a passion for non-profit mission work, teams up with his father, Steve Cuss. They dive into the iconic 'Dinner Party' episode of The Office, exploring how it hilariously reflects workplace anxieties. The duo discusses character dynamics, particularly Jan's unraveling leadership and emotional enmeshment. They also touch on Jim's evolution from detachment to connection, illustrating how comedy can expose and help us understand our own anxieties.

What do a high schooler’s senior year and the offices of a high-fashion magazine have in common? Stress.During a discussion of The Devil Wears Prada, Steve Cuss and his college-bound daughter, Kaylee Cuss, talk about the anxiety on display in the iconic Meryl Streep film. The two talk about how Streep’s character, Miranda Priestly, may be the one in charge, but she’s arguably also the most anxious. They talk about trying to fit into existing systems, high emotions in the workplace, and relational enmeshment. Tune in for a heartfelt, insightful discussion of failure, success, and taking care of the relationships that matter most.Resources mentioned in this episode include: The Devil Wears Prada “Ep148: Gilmore Girls and Systems Theory” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

When Joy Allmond was fresh out of college, she struggled to find a professional role in her field. She decided to make the most of her young, single years and became a flight attendant. The Lord used that experience to broaden her perspective—especially when she staffed one of the first flights to take to the skies after September 11, 2001.Now, Allmond is the executive editor of Christianity Today. She and Steve talk about how airport behavior often reveals deeper feelings and what it takes to manage a crisis. They talk about the recent CT redesign, new content in the magazine, and Allmond’s hopes for CT’s future. Allmond shares her thoughts on the church at its best, experiences of feeling fully loved, and taking time to hear from the Lord.Resources mentioned in this episode include: “We Can’t Worry Our Way to Peace” November/December 2024 issue of Christianity Today “CT Design, Redesign, and Re-redesign, from 1956 to Today” “Qualms and Proverbs” (CT advice column) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

As Thanksgiving approaches, the hosts delve into the transformative power of gratitude. They share personal anecdotes and the idea of a 'Life Giving List' to enhance connections. Listeners gain insights into navigating the emotional dynamics of family gatherings and fostering mindfulness amidst political differences. The importance of curiosity in improving relationships is highlighted, along with practical tips for cultivating thankfulness in daily life. The conversation wraps up with a lighthearted debate about holiday favorites, enriching the festive spirit.

Listeners dive into the essential dynamics of healthy relationships and mental health in faith communities. The discussion uncovers family systems theory and its connection to personal growth. Insights are shared on helping young adults transition into independence while maintaining strong ties. Strategies for leaders to foster open communication are explored, alongside the church's role in addressing mental illness. Tips for parents navigating their children's move to adulthood round out this thoughtful conversation.

Explore the beauty of vulnerability in the bustling heart of Central Park. Discover how balancing authenticity with the fear of judgment can transform relationships. Delve into the challenges faced by a chaplain and the lessons learned about unconditional love and emotional growth. Learn the importance of creating nurturing spaces for self-acceptance and connection. Uncover the profound power of being fully seen and known, as we all crave genuine intimacy in our interactions.

Barrett Harkins, a missionary in Santiago, discusses his transformative experiences on the Camino de Santiago, where he helps pilgrims connect spiritually. He emphasizes the power of slowing down and the profound conversations that arise during the journey. Harkins shares how the Camino has been a space for God to meet people in their anxiety, offering a path to personal growth. The conversation touches on letting go of burdens, fostering a reflective mindset, and the simple joys found along the way, including a touching family surprise.

Chuck DeGroat, a pastor and author known for his insights on emotional health, joins for a deep dive into internal healing. They discuss the challenges of aging, including anxiety around mortality and legacy concerns. DeGroat shares thoughts on navigating narcissism within the church and the importance of self-awareness in leadership. The conversation touches on the pain of secondary trauma, the nuances of rest versus shutdown, and the journey towards wholeheartedness. Throughout, there's a focus on reconnecting with God and embracing one's true self.