SoulTalk with Kute Blackson

"If you look at a millionaire and you look at the beggar on the street, they are both learning lessons of abundance." Episode Summary: Paul Selig is considered one of the foremost spiritual channels of our time. In this powerful episode, he shares some of the wisdom his guides have expressed through him, including the true meaning of surrender, the main reason for war and atrocities, and the reason humanity is undergoing such unsettling times at this moment in history. Some Questions I Ask: What is a spiritual medium and channel? How does it work and how do you become one? How can people get themselves out of their own way? Why do we suffer? What kept you going when you felt like giving up? Where do you feel we are as a humanity in our development? In This Episode You Will Learn: How to distinguish between knowing and thinking. A powerful claim to help you overcome fear. 2 keys to get through a dark time. How to work with the fear and learn from it. 3 main blocks that keep you from your spiritual evolution and how to overcome them.

"Control is the master addiction and trying to control the things that you cannot control only leads to a sense of powerlessness and helplessness." Episode Summary: Modern life is hectic. We often feel pulled in several directions at the same time and end up feeling overwhelmed and unable to find peace in the chaos of our life. Listen to this episode to learn how to achieve deep, internal peace that will allow you to stay calm in the center of any storm. Some Questions I Ask How can you find your peace in the world? Have you ever felt overwhelmed? How did you deal with it? Is it difficult for you to stop overthinking about things? What are the things you are overthinking about? Where is your attention at when you are feeling overwhelmed? In This Episode You Will Learn The main reason you should not rely on external factors to find peace. One key concept to grasp to avoid feeling overwhelmed. How feeling overwhelmed might be a signal that you need to make some changes. How cultivating a relationship with your breath will bring you closer to peace. A key shift in mindset to help you find peace.

"Knowledge brings confidence, because the more you know, the more sure of yourself you are." Episode Summary: In this heartfelt episode, Tony Gaskins openly shares about his past as a toxic partner in a relationship and how that inspired him to become a relationship coach. He talks about the connection between a person's pain and their purpose, as well the importance of being authentic and honest to strengthen your self-esteem and find the right person for you. Some Questions I Ask: What inspired you to make a decision to be a role model for relationships? What did you do within yourself to heal, to transform and to let go? What stopped you from giving up when things went wrong? How did you find your true purpose? What is your advice for someone to find their purpose? What is the secret to your success on social media? In This Episode You Will Learn: How to deal with your fear. The key question to ask yourself to find your purpose. How to strengthen your belief in yourself. The most important thing women should know about men. The number one way to know if someone is the right person for you.

"An experience is inherently neutral. Your reality is determined by the story you make up within yourself." Episode Summary: We have all had negative thoughts in our lives. It often seems safer to give in to the negative thinking than questioning it. However, this will only rob you of happiness and cause you suffering. Listen to this short, powerful episode to learn 3 simple keys to overcome negative thinking, deal with your inner critic and be happy. Some Questions I Ask Do you ever get caught in negative thinking? How are you interpreting things? Who does the negative voice in your head belong to?Is it really yours? Is there a payoff for being negative? What can you learn from this experience? In This Episode You Will Learn The reason we gravitate towards the negative. The importance of dealing with your inner stuff to perceive events accurately. 3 keys to dealing with negative thinking. How being aware of your thoughts will help you stop the negative pattern. The key reason we choose to wallow in the negative and how to prevent it.

"Set your ego aside and allow yourself to be a vessel for the power of healing and love to flow through you " Episode Summary: In this insightful episode, New York Times best-selling author, Dr Judith Orloff, shares the self-care practices that highly sensitive people need to have in order to survive the constant energetic bombardment of the world and their loved ones. She talks about the connection between empaths and narcissists and shares the key strategies to identify and deal with a narcissist person. Some Questions I Ask How can someone who is an empath, or highly sensitive person, stop absorbing the energies of the world? Is being an empath something you are born with or is it a result of conditioning? What is the connection between empaths and narcissists? Can a narcissist have empathy? What is your self-care plan? How do intuitive readings work? In This Episode You Will Learn 7 questions you need to ask to find out if you are an empath. How to set boundaries and remain caring and compassionate. Key patterns to look for if you suspect someone is a narcissist. How to discern between intuition and fear. A protective technique for sensitive people when going out into a crowd The key to being a good healer.

"Abundance starts with remembering who you are. When you remember who you are, you start tapping into that inexhaustible stream of energy that is life. At that level, there is no scarcity." Episode Summary: Abundance is not about what you have but about your attitude and feelings towards what you have. Abundance is not really about money because real abundance is a state of being. Listen to this insightful episode to learn how to shift your vibration in a way that attracts more abundance in all aspects of your life and the key practice to get out of scarcity. Some Questions I Ask: What do your relationships and life reflect about yourself? What is your relationship with abundance? How do you feel about yourself ? Can you celebrate everything that you are and are not? How often do you thank your body? What pain, problems or challenges can you solve for humanity? In This Episode You Will Learn: How money and abundance are not synonymous. The real meaning of abundance. The key shift you need to make within to attract money. Gratitude and its role in creating abundance. The relationship between money and freedom. An important question to ask yourself to activate the flow of money in your life.

"If you can't be true to yourself then you can't be true to anyone" Episode Summary: In this inspiring episode, Laird Hamilton, world-renowned 'waterman', best known as an American big-wave surfer and pioneer in the world of action water sports, talks about his feelings and thoughts during those heart-stopping seconds when he is riding a wave. He shares his technique to conquer fears and speaks honestly about his relationship with death. He also explains how coming to terms with dying makes you appreciate life a lot more and helps you live life on your own terms. Some Questions I Ask What does it feel like to ride those big waves? How do you prepare yourself to surf these waves? How do you get yourself into the zone? Do you still get scared? Is the fear the same or is it different after all these years? Was there ever a time on your journey where you felt like giving up? What kept you going? How do you deal with the mundane? Are there any ways that you calculate risk in your life? In This Episode You Will Learn How to navigate negative self-talk. The main reason you should listen to your instincts and not your pride. How to make peace with death. A key to developing your courage. The definition of success. 3 practices to optimize your life.

"The more you love yourself just as you are, the less you'll actually need it from other people." Episode Summary: One of the greatest fears we have as human beings is not being accepted and loved for who we really are. As children we often learn to behave a certain way in order to fit in and feel liked. That is a betrayal of ourselves, and ultimately no one wins. Listen to this episode to learn 6 keys to stop betraying yourself, start honoring you and set yourself free. Some Questions I Ask: Are you being true to yourself? Are you expressing all of who you are? Are there any ways that you are betraying yourself? How is your relationship a mirror of your authenticity? How can you expect another person in your life to honor and respect you, if you are not giving that to yourself? In This Episode You Will Learn: 6 keys to stop betraying yourself. One important reason you might be experiencing pain in your life and unhappiness in your relationships. How negative feelings can actually be a portal to your authenticity. One key question to ask yourself when someone betrays you. The connection between self-betrayal and toxic relationships.

"It's not really the economic devices, but the story that we tell ourselves that determines whether we rise or fall." Episode Summary: In this touching episode Martha Beck, New York Times best-selling author and monthly columnist for O, The Oprah Magazine, shares how she found the courage to break away from her birth religion as well as sharing her inspiring lessons from being the mother of a down-syndrome child. She talks about the importance of living in integrity to fulfilling your purpose and how the stories we tell ourselves are the key to achieving success. Some Questions I Ask: What led to your journey of becoming an author? Was there a moment when you knew that this was your career? What would you say to a person who wants to find their purpose? Are there any first steps to connect with to find out what they are truly here to do? What gave you the courage to break away and make your own path? What lessons have you learned from being a mother to a down-syndrome child? In This Episode You Will Learn: How to navigate fear and move through it. A key practice to cultivate compassion. How to shift your limiting story to an empowering one. The importance of integrity in finding your purpose. How to move through needing other people's approval and validation.

"Forgiving yourself is perhaps the greatest gift you can give yourself, and through forgiving, you give yourself the opportunity to live a new future." Episode Summary: We have all done something in our lives that we judge ourselves for and wish we could change. When we worry too much about past mistakes, it is easy to stay stuck in the past and repeat the pattern of bad decisions in the future. Listen to this episode to learn 5 simple, yet powerful keys to dealing with regret and start healing your past in order to create a brighter future. Some Questions I Ask: What regrets are you carrying? What are you still judging yourself for? Do you feel that God will never forgive you for something you did? How do you forgive yourself and move on? How do you let go of regret? In This Episode You Will Learn: The importance of making amends to facilitate healing. The main reason God doesn't forgive. The only person that can ultimately forgive you. Two reasons not to judge yourself. Another way to look at "mistakes".