

The Alcohol ReThink Podcast with Patrick Fox
Patrick Fox - Mens Life and Sober Coach
The Alcohol ReThink Podcast is for men who want to change their relationship with alcohol, whether you're in the sober-curious stage or ready to quit for good.
We're ripping up the script on outdated stereotypes and stigmas when it comes to alcohol and addiction, and showing you how you can rethink your relationship with alcohol in a way that feels empowering and sustainable.
Join Patrick as he shares practical strategies, interviews, experiences, coaching tools and concepts to help you break free from alcohol, reclaim control, and start living the life you truly want.
www.patrickjfox.com
We're ripping up the script on outdated stereotypes and stigmas when it comes to alcohol and addiction, and showing you how you can rethink your relationship with alcohol in a way that feels empowering and sustainable.
Join Patrick as he shares practical strategies, interviews, experiences, coaching tools and concepts to help you break free from alcohol, reclaim control, and start living the life you truly want.
www.patrickjfox.com
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Jan 21, 2025 • 17min
183. The Truth About Alcohol: Why It’s NOT the Reward You Think It Is
Is alcohol really a reward for a hard days work?
In episode 183 of The Alcohol Rethink Podcast, Patrick challenges the idea that alcohol is a reward.
He explores how society and our own minds trick us into believing that alcohol is the answer to life’s challenges, celebrations, and everything in between.
Using insights from Dr. Anna Lembke’s Dopamine Nation, Patrick explains the science behind dopamine, why alcohol feels rewarding in the moment, and how it actually robs us of true satisfaction in the long run.
Patrick explores the roots of our desire for rewards, often shaped by childhood experiences, and shows how these patterns influence our adult behaviours.
He shares practical ways to reframe common thoughts like “I deserve a drink” and provides healthier, more meaningful alternatives that align with your values and goals.
If you’re ready to uncover the real rewards of living alcohol-free, this episode is packed with insights and strategies to help you create lasting change.
Awesome takeaways from this episode:
Understand how alcohol manipulates your brain’s dopamine system and creates a false sense of reward.
Recognise how societal conditioning and childhood experiences shape the belief that alcohol is a treat.
Learn practical ways to challenge thoughts like “I deserve a drink” and reframe them into healthier alternatives.
Discover why true satisfaction comes from doing hard things and living in alignment with your values.
Gain insights on how to create internal rewards that build self-esteem and emotional resilience.
Connect with Patrick:
To find out how Patrick can help you stop drinking and create an awesome life without alcohol, book a free one-hour consultation and discover how his 6 month 1-1 coaching program will take you from feeling out of control to sober, clear-headed, full of energy, looking good and doing more of what you love in life.
Whether you decide to work with him or not, the consultation alone will help you understand where you are and why you do what you do. It’s a no-brainer. Get yourself booked in here.
You can also join The Alcohol ReThink Project, a free 30 day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/

Jan 10, 2025 • 37min
182. From Cravings to Connection with Jennie Juechter
In this powerful episode of the Alcohol Rethink Podcast, Patrick is joined by Jennie Juechter, a Sober Curious Coach and Relationship Revivalist who didn’t just rethink alcohol—she did it while working inside the alcohol industry.
Jennie shares her raw and inspiring story of navigating her personal sobriety journey in an environment where drinking was the norm and challenges societal beliefs about alcohol from an insider’s perspective.
We dig into the recent Surgeon General’s warnings about alcohol and how these insights are changing how we view drinking.
Jennie opens up about her personal experiences with alcohol, how she managed social situations while redefining her relationship with drinking, and the lessons she learned about authenticity and connection along the way.
This conversation also explores the toxic behaviors within the alcohol industry that many people don’t see, the role of mindful drinking in uncovering alcohol’s true impact, and why choosing sobriety is a radical and empowering act of self-care.
What You’ll Learn in This Episode:
- How Jennie rethought alcohol while immersed in the industry itself.
- The growing and evolving sober community—and why you’re not alone.
- What the Surgeon General’s warnings mean for your health and drinking habits.
- The power of stepping away from societal norms around alcohol.
- How cravings and urges are a natural part of the journey—and how to manage them.
- Why loss and discomfort can become the fuel for positive change.
- How sobriety creates space for deeper, more authentic relationships.
- The importance of taking risks to embrace growth and live authentically.
Whether you’re curious about living alcohol-free, already on a sober journey, or simply looking for a fresh perspective, this episode is packed with insights that can help you rethink your relationship with alcohol and create a more connected, intentional life.
Tune in now and discover how sobriety can transform not only your health but also your relationships, your mindset, and your future.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Jennie:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenniejuechtercoaching/
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject

Jan 3, 2025 • 25min
181. How To Get Intentional About Stopping Drinking in 2025
Is this going to be another new year, same me, or is it time for real change?
In this episode 181 of the Alcohol Rethink Podcast, Patrick Fox speaks about why mindset matters when you’re rethinking alcohol, especially as we roll into a new year.
For many of us, it’s easy to buy into the idea that the calendar change will magically fix things, but Patrick explains why it takes more than that.
He’s all about setting intentional goals, challenging old beliefs about alcohol, and starting to build a new version of yourself, one that doesn’t rely on drinking to cope, celebrate, or unwind.
With an emphasis on self-awareness, small, doable steps, and a good dose of self-compassion, Patrick will help you navigate the ups and downs of breaking old habits and stepping into a stronger, clearer version of yourself for 2025.
Awesome things you'll hear about in this episode:
- Start the year by shifting your mindset to match the life you’re building.
- Be intentional about the changes you want, instead of winging it.
- Your beliefs about yourself and alcohol drive your actions, know what they are.
- Learn to spot the triggers and thought patterns that hold you back.
- Sobriety isn’t a straight line; expect some twists and turns along the way.
- Small wins matter—consistent progress beats drastic overhauls every time.
- Cut yourself some slack when things don’t go perfectly—growth isn’t about perfection.
- Visualise the version of yourself thriving without alcohol—it’s a game-changer.
- Celebrate your progress, no matter how small—it all adds up.
- Stay clear on why you’re making this change—it’ll keep you going.
This episode is like a pep talk and strategy session rolled into one. If you’re ready to rethink alcohol and start showing up as the best version of yourself in life and business, this one’s for you.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject

Dec 27, 2024 • 36min
180. This Is What Happens When You Stop Drinking Alcohol (Revised & Updated)
Have you ever wondered what happens when you stop drinking alcohol?
Patrick shares how he would religiously check on the googles what would happen for him when he stopped drinking.
He walks you through what to expect in the first week, month and year of stopping drinking and shares his experience along the way.
This was the most downloaded episode in 2024 and had been updated and revised due to poor sound quality in the original episode.
Some of the cool things he covers are:
- Living life in the edges
- What to expect from the first few days, weeks and months
- ALL the benefits of stopping that you can and can’t see
- Alcohol shrinks the brain and the awesome reversal effect that takes place when you stop
Connect with Patrick:
To find out how Patrick can help you stop drinking and create an awesome life without alcohol, book a free one hour consultation to discover how his 6 month 1-1 coaching program will take you from feeling out of control and self-hating to sober, clear-headed, full of energy, looking good and doing more of what you love in life.
Whether you decide to work with him or not, the consultation alone will help you understand where you are and why you do what you do. It’s a no-brainer. Get yourself booked in here.
You can also join The Alcohol ReThink Project, a free 30 day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/

Dec 20, 2024 • 23min
179. 5 Powerful Tools to Crush the Urge to Drink
In episode 179 of The Alcohol ReThink Podcast, Patrick shares 5 straightforward ways to handle the urge to drink when it hits.
Whether you’re starting to rethink alcohol or you’ve been on this journey for a while, these tips are designed to help you stay in control when temptation creeps in.
Patrick dives into practical tools like the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding exercise, counting backwards to shift your focus, and even sitting with the discomfort to remind yourself it’s only temporary.
He also talks about reconnecting with your bigger reasons for wanting to drink less and tapping into your sober toolkit. If you’re looking for simple, actionable strategies to crush cravings and stay on track, this episode is for you.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject

Dec 13, 2024 • 48min
178. Beating The Festive Binge with Kathryn Hansen
In episode 178 of The Alcohol ReThink Podcast, Patrick and Kathryn discuss the challenges of over-drinking and overeating during the festive season.
They explore the common mindset of indulgence in December, the false promise of January as a fresh start, and the importance of feeling in control.
They emphasise the need to redefine celebration, cope with holiday pressures, and create new rituals that support healthier choices.
The discussion also highlights the significance of mindset shifts from scarcity to abundance, encouraging listeners to focus on the benefits of moderation and self-compassion.
In this conversation, Patrick and Kathryn explore the complexities of urges related to eating and drinking, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and mindfulness.
They discuss the all-or-nothing mindset, the distinction between essential needs and conditioned desires, and practical grounding techniques to manage urges.
The dialogue also delves into the role of fear and self-doubt during challenging times, particularly around the holidays, and concludes with a focus on progress over perfection in personal growth and identity transformation.
Key Takeaways
- Feeling in control is essential during the holidays.
- January often feels like a letdown after December's indulgence.
- Indulging in December can make January harder.
- Celebration can exist without overindulgence.
- It's important to disconnect celebration from harmful behaviours.
- Creating new rituals can help break old patterns.
- Being honest about your choices can reduce pressure from others.
- Focusing on the benefits of taking a break from drinking is key.
- Compassion for yourself is crucial in this journey.
- Mindset shifts from scarcity to abundance can empower healthier choices. Understanding that urges are a natural reaction of the brain.
- Compassion for oneself is crucial when dealing with food cravings.
- It's important to set reasonable stopping points for eating.
- The all-or-nothing mindset can lead to feelings of failure.
- Small changes can lead to significant progress over time.
- Identifying essential needs versus conditioned desires is key.
- Redirecting focus can alleviate the intensity of urges.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject

Dec 6, 2024 • 26min
177. Moving from Addiction to Disgust
Have you ever eaten something that tasted so bad that it put you off having it again for life?Were you so disgusted by that experience that you swore never to do it again?This is the power of disgust.In episode 177 of the Alcohol Rethink Podcast, Patrick explores the concept of how you can rethink alcohol by going from addiction to disgust. You'll hear about the psychological principles of pain versus pleasure, the harmful effects of alcohol on the body and mind, and practical strategies for creating negative associations with drinking. By understanding the science behind alcohol and employing techniques to foster disgust, get ready to create some new tools to help you rethink your habits and ultimately transform your lives.Key Takeaways:- The power of disgust- Rethinking alcohol involves changing your mindset.- How to go from addiction to disgust .- Understanding the harmful effects of alcohol is crucial.- Creating negative associations with alcohol can help reduce desire.- Alcohol is a poison that can lead to serious health issues.- How visualising the negative effects of alcohol can help generate disgust.- Reflecting on past drinking experiences can create aversion.Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast GuideThe simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.Get your guide here:www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset ChallengeImagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink ProjectConnect with Patrick:If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know. Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject6968001c4b1a357c3f77dfde9a2cdf3f61fd7a4a

Nov 29, 2024 • 29min
176. What 'Doing The Work' In Sobriety Really Means
Do you hear the phrase 'doing the work' and wonder what on earth it actually means?
You're not the only one.
On this week's episode of The Alcohol ReThink Podcast, Patrick is answering a question recently asked to him about doing the work.
Through various analogies, Patrick illustrates the journey of decluttering one's mind and emotions, challenging societal myths about alcohol, and fostering self-compassion.
The episode serves as a guide for listeners seeking to navigate their own paths to sobriety and personal growth.
Key Takeaways:
- Doing the work means being intentional about your recovery.
- Understanding your relationship with alcohol is crucial.
- Emotional awareness is key to coping with triggers.
- It's important to challenge societal myths about alcohol.
- Compassion towards oneself is essential in the recovery process.
- Creating new habits can help fill the void left by alcohol.
- Recognising that emotions are temporary can aid in coping.
- Education about alcohol can shift your mindset.
- Progress, not perfection, is the goal of recovery.
- Engaging with your feelings can lead to personal growth.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject

Nov 22, 2024 • 41min
175. Time, Patience & Thick Skin with Daniel Wynne
'I looked at my wedding photos and I just didn't remember any of it'
On episode 175 of The Alcohol Rethink Podcast, host Patrick Fox speaks with Daniel Wynn, a long time listener of the podcast and a man who knew he had to stop drinking.
After many failed attempts at stopping Daniel nearly lost it all, family, career and health.
Realising something had to change, it was time for drinking to make way. Get ready to hear Daniels journey to sobriety after struggling with alcohol addiction for many years.
Daniel speaks openly about the impact of alcohol on his family life, the importance of therapy and support systems, and how he navigates triggers and anxiety.
This episode is a true example of what's possible for any man or woman out there who wants to stop drinking and start living a more present and fuller life.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject

Nov 15, 2024 • 1h 43min
174. Addiction Isn't a Dirty Word: Conversations in Recovery
What was the function of your addiction? What was it doing for you?
Patrick delivers a set of powerful questions during a special guest panel on this week's episode of The Alcohol Rethink Podcast.
Get ready to hear some personal stories of addiction and recovery in this week's episode. Each courageous guest opens up about their experiences with different substances, the struggles they faced, and the support systems that helped them along the way.
The conversation explores the crucial role of connection in sobriety, the power of purpose in overcoming addiction, and the tools that have proven effective in their journeys to recovery.
Throughout the discussion, the panel emphasises the importance of celebrating milestones, setting healthy boundaries, and dealing with the ongoing challenges of self-worth and mental health.
You can also expect to hear about the complexities of grief, purpose, and addiction, exploring how personal experiences shape one’s understanding of purpose and how addiction often becomes a coping mechanism for underlying pain.
The conversation highlights the impact of childhood trauma, the importance of self-awareness, and the power of language in shaping your sense of self-worth.
Get ready to hear some incredible and deeply individual recovery stories, reflecting on the need for balance, especially in the early days of sobriety, and how addiction can become part of one's identity.
You'll hear how it’s possible to manage addiction and put it into remission through conscious choices and the right support.
Recovery is a multifaceted journey that brings both challenges and transformations that flourishes best with finding people who will support you along the way.
Awesome resources to help you stop drinking:
1. The Alcohol ReThink Podcast Guide
The simple guide to rethinking alcohol. It was created from the top 3 episodes of the podcast. Each episode has a cool exercise to help you rethink alcohol for good.
Get your guide here:
www.patrickjfox.com/podcast-guide
2. The Alcohol Mindset Reset Challenge
Imagine in the next 30 days that you have radically changed the way you think about alcohol. Imagine getting some sober firsts and sober wins under your belt and feeling incredibly proud of yourself.
A free 30-day email mindset-reset series to support you in stopping drinking.
Get stuck in here: The Alcohol ReThink Project
Connect with Patrick:
If you're interested in working with Patrick and want to find out more about how he can help you APPLY here.
Break free from the cycle of drinking and start doing more of what you love in life. One of the greatest illusions in life is that we have more time, the reality is we just don't know.
Start changing your relationship with alcohol today here.
Website: https://www.patrickjfox.com/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thealcoholrethinkproject/
Facebook:
https://www.facebook.com/groups/alcoholrethinkproject


