

Man of War: Forging Men into Warriors
Rafa Conde
Every episode, Rafa J. Conde, a combat-proven law enforcement veteran, combatives expert, and unapologetic leadership coach, reveals what it truly takes to become a Tier 1 man. This show goes beyond surface-level motivation and exposes how modern warriors are built. How they think, how they live, and how they lead in every area of life, from combat to business to fatherhood.
You’ll hear raw, unfiltered stories from elite performers. Men who have faced adversity head-on and emerged stronger. These conversations will dismantle your excuses and equip you with the mindset, discipline, and confidence needed to become the warrior you were meant to be.
You’ll hear raw, unfiltered stories from elite performers. Men who have faced adversity head-on and emerged stronger. These conversations will dismantle your excuses and equip you with the mindset, discipline, and confidence needed to become the warrior you were meant to be.
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Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 13min
How Success Exposes the Fakes (Not the Real Ones) Ep. 240 w/ Frank Stallone
In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, We sit down with Frank Stallone for a raw and powerful conversation about what it really means to survive in a world built on illusion.
Frank shares the truth about growing up under the weight of the Stallone name, what it felt like to be pushed aside in the industry, and how betrayal shaped his view of loyalty and legacy. This is not a Hollywood story. It's a lesson in grit, manhood, and standing firm in your values when everyone around you folds.
We talk about what it takes to stay grounded, why so many men lose themselves chasing recognition, and how to build something real that lasts.
If you're a man navigating adversity, dealing with identity, or fighting to carve your own path, this conversation will hit home.

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Aug 8, 2025 • 40min
Becoming Unstoppable: Authentic Leadership, Service, and Faith with Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco | Ep. 239
Join Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco, entrepreneur and author of Rocket Fuel, as he shares his inspirational journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a purpose-driven leader. He discusses the power of authenticity and how it builds influence. Mike emphasizes that self-development is essential before serving others and reveals how to turn setbacks into unstoppable momentum. He explores the importance of vulnerability in leadership and why service forms the foundation for meaningful impact, both personally and professionally.

Jul 30, 2025 • 60min
From Millionaire to Man of Honor: Elliot Wise on Marriage, Masculinity & Mission | Ep. 238
In this powerful episode of the Man of War Podcast, we sit down with Elliot Wise entrepreneur, husband, and father who built and lost a fortune by 21, only to come back stronger. But this isn’t just about money. It’s about what it means to lead a family, build a legacy, and become a man worth following.
Elliot and Rafa dive deep into the crisis of modern masculinity, the collapse of traditional values, and how weak men allow weak societies to rise. From the sanctity of marriage to self-reinvention after fatherhood, this conversation exposes what most won’t say out loud: modern men are soft, and it’s time to change that.
If you’re a man searching for purpose, power, or just the truth start here.
💥 Takeaways:
• Weak men create weak families and weak families collapse nations
• Marriage without shared vision is doomed
• Masculinity is not toxic—it’s necessary
• Confidence starts with becoming a man of value
• Leadership is earned through action, not entitlement
• Structure, physical fitness, and spiritual gratitude are non-negotiables
• A man without purpose is already defeated
⏱️ Chapters:
0:00 - Intro & Elliot’s Background
1:30 - The Role of Fathers & Male Role Models
5:00 - Society’s Attack on Masculinity
10:00 - How Weak Men Enable Cultural Collapse
15:00 - Building a Lasting Marriage Through Framework & Standards
23:00 - Vision, Values & Communication in Relationships
30:00 - Why Most Men Lack Confidence
36:00 - Reinvention After Fatherhood
42:00 - Why Real Men Do More Than Provide
46:00 - Power, Purpose & Mission
50:00 - What Real Leadership Looks Like
54:00 - Staying Physically and Mentally Sharp
58:00 - Final Thoughts & Where to Find Elliot Wise

Jul 23, 2025 • 47min
Bulldog Mindset: Destroying the Victim Mentality & Reclaiming Masculinity | Ep. 236 w John Sonmez
Men today are drowning in victim mentality and John Sonmez, founder of Bulldog Mindset, is here to crush it. In this powerful conversation, we break down:
✅ How to eliminate the victim mindset and take full responsibility for your life
✅ Why men must embrace pride, hardship, and masculine virtues
✅ The secret to mastering fear (and how John overcame crippling panic attacks)
✅ Stoic philosophy and emotional mastery for men
✅ Why self-worth comes from YOUR judgment, not others
This episode will challenge you to stop blaming the world and start becoming the man you were meant to be.
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Takeaways
• Responsibility over Blame: Your life is YOUR responsibility, regardless of fault.
• Masculine pride comes from hardship, not comfort.
• Fear dies when you face it head-on, not when you avoid it.
• Stop external validation: your opinion of yourself matters most.
• Emotional mastery means feeling deeply but staying steady—a true king’s mindset.
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Chapters
00:00 Intro: Why Masculine Mindset Matters
01:04 The Birth of Bulldog Mindset
03:39 Killing the Victim Mentality
07:49 Pride, Hardship, and Becoming a Man
11:02 Conquering Fear: John’s Panic Attack Story
16:55 Stoicism & Overcoming Life’s Hardest Challenges
24:18 Emotional Mastery for Men
31:14 Past Trauma vs Present Responsibility
39:51 Building True Self-Worth
46:54 Where to Find John Sonmez
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Programs for Men Ready to Lead:
Men of War Crucible – A rite of passage, not a retreat: https://www.manofwar.us/
The Odyssey Program – Father-son legacy through challenge: https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody…
Private Mentoring Protocol – 1-on-1 elite coaching: https://www.rafajconde.com/
House of Kings Mastermind – For warrior CEOs and legacy builders: https://www.thehouseofkings.com/
MAN of WAR Podcast – Unfiltered truth for modern men.
Explore all: https://www.manofwar.us
Follow Rafa on Instagram: @manofwarr
Facebook: @therealmanofwar
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#masculinity #mindset #stoicism #selfimprovement #mensmentalhealth #manofwar #bulldogmindset #victimmentality #mentoughness #masculineframe

Jul 16, 2025 • 46min
Why Men Are Lost & How to Fix It | Ep.235 w/ Adam Allred on Confidence & Leadership
Most men today are struggling not because they’re weak, but because they’ve been programmed to fail.
In this powerful conversation, Adam Allred breaks down:
• Why toxic messaging to men is destroying confidence
• How to reprogram your mind to win
• Why stacking daily wins builds real self-respect
• The truth about leadership in the home & relationships
• How to find your purpose & live with honor
This episode isn’t theory it’s real-world wisdom for men who want to reclaim their strength, confidence, and purpose.
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Takeaways:
• Confidence starts with self-respect
• Leadership begins by leading yourself
• Your purpose is to level up every day
• Stop blaming own your life
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Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Adam’s background
02:11 – The toxic messaging destroying masculinity
05:12 – Why men fail to take action
07:18 – Reprogramming your mind for success
10:11 – Building confidence by stacking wins
14:11 – The power of a morning routine
18:00 – Leadership in the home & respect in relationships
30:45 – Reigniting the fire in soft men
39:01 – Extreme accountability & stopping self-deception
41:14 – Honor, integrity & keeping your word
44:12 – Finding purpose & leveling up as a man
46:03 – Where to follow Adam Allred
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Hashtags: #masculinity #selfimprovement #leadership #confidence #mensmentalhealth #discipline #mindset #purpose

Jul 9, 2025 • 1h 23min
Confronting Gangs, Politics, and Fear | EP. 234 Sheriff Mark Lamb & Rafa Conde | Man of War Podcast
Sheriff Mark Lamb joins Rafa J. Conde for a raw and unfiltered conversation about leadership, law enforcement, border chaos, faith, and his run for U.S. Senate. From growing up in Hawaii and the Philippines to taking command as Sheriff of Pinal County, Lamb reveals how a ride along changed the trajectory of his life and why he believes America needs strong, principled men now more than ever.
We dive deep into what it takes to lead from the front, the crisis at the border, the dangers of micromanagement in policing, and the cultural shifts that are impacting law enforcement across the country. If you’re a man looking for purpose, discipline, and the courage to stand for what’s right this one is for you.
Takeaways:
• How a business owner became a cop at 33
• Leading from the front and earning respect
• Why most police departments are failing their men
• A behind-the-scenes look at the border crisis
• Controlled violence vs. reckless force
• Building faith and family through purpose
• Why Sheriff Lamb ran for U.S. Senate—and what’s next
Chapters:
00:00 - Intro: Sheriff Mark Lamb
01:00 - Childhood, Hawaii & International Life
04:50 - Lessons from Culture, Faith & Family
10:30 - Becoming a Cop at 33
17:00 - Gangs, Violence & Tribal Policing
24:00 - Running for Sheriff: Leadership in Action
30:00 - Fixing Broken Departments
35:00 - Social Media & Building a Brand in Law Enforcement
41:00 - COVID, Mandates & Standing Firm
46:00 - Law Enforcement & Micromanagement
50:00 - Principles of Great Leadership
53:00 - Faith & Moral Compass Under Fire
57:00 - Border Crisis: What the Media Isn’t Telling You
1:05:00 - Terrorism Risks & National Security Concerns
1:10:00 - Family Protection & Situational Awareness
1:13:00 - Illegal Immigration: Truth vs. Narrative
1:17:00 - Global Politics, Ukraine, and Iran
1:19:00 - Life After Law Enforcement & New Mission
1:21:00 - Final Thoughts & Legacy

Jul 1, 2025 • 1h 43min
How to Win in Life & Business | Ep. 234 w/ Omar Elattar of The Passionate Few
In this conversation with Omar Elattar, creator of The Passionate Few, he shares his remarkable journey from living in his car to interviewing billionaires. He discusses the importance of discipline and how it acts as the foundation for transformation. Omar emphasizes the power of belief and purpose over comfort and explains the spiritual fuel that drives his relentless pursuit. With insights from his experiences with top entrepreneurs, he reveals the key habits and mindset necessary to stay hungry and foster personal growth.

Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 5min
Why Women Don’t See You: The Truth About Modern Men | Ep. 233 w/ Michael Sartain
Most men are invisible not because they’re weak, but because they’re playing by rules that no longer work.
In this unfiltered episode, Michael Sartain ( @MichaelSartain ) breaks down the reality of dating dynamics, masculine identity, and social status. From military discipline to dominating the Vegas nightlife scene, Michael’s perspective is built on real world experience not theory.
We unpack why women are more selective than ever, why most men are struggling silently, and what it truly takes to rise above the noise. No gimmicks. No shortcuts. Just clear, direct advice on how to earn respect, build value, and stop being overlooked.
Whether you’re seeking purpose, clarity, or just tired of losing this episode is a wake-up call.

Jun 16, 2025 • 57min
Growth Starts Where Comfort Ends. | Ep. 232 w/ Ben Reinberg
In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, Ben Reinberg shares what most men overlook—the silent killers of potential: comfort, avoidance, and fear of failure.
We dive into why so many men hide behind a version of success that isn't real, why playing it safe leads to a slow death of purpose, and how true growth requires discomfort, intention, and powerful male guidance.
If you’ve ever felt stuck, uncertain, or like you’re not living at your full capacity, this conversation offers clarity and direction. The truth is, resilience starts with facing what’s hard, not running from it. Strength begins when you stop negotiating with your weaknesses and start demanding more from yourself.
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Want to reclaim your edge? Start here:
👉 Men of War Crucible
This isn’t a retreat. It’s a rite of passage.
Strip the ego. Face the fire. Rebuild the man.
https://www.manofwar.us/
👉 The Odyssey Program
Build the father-son bond through challenge and legacy.
https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody...
💰 Private Mentoring Protocol (PMP)
1-on-1 elite coaching with Rafa J Conde.
Clarity. Discipline. Power.
https://www.rafajconde.com/
💰 House of Kings Mastermind
For warrior CEOs and high-level men.
Brotherhood. Expansion. Legacy.
https://www.thehouseofkings.com/
🎙 MAN of WAR Podcast
Unfiltered truths on masculinity, discipline, and leadership.
Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts.
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👉 Explore all programs: https://www.manofwar.us
👉 Follow Rafa on Instagram: / manofwarr
👉 Facebook: / therealmanofwar
This is not for every man. It’s for the few who are ready to lead.
If you’re done pretending to be strong — your journey starts now.
@MANofWAR
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Jun 10, 2025 • 58min
You Built It All and Still Feel Alone? Watch This | Ep. 231 w/ Rob Moore
In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, I sit down with Rob Moore for a hard-hitting conversation on success, adversity, and the deeper drive behind high performance. Rob opens up about his early battles with insecurity, rejection, and being underestimated. But instead of folding, he used every setback to build a mindset of resilience and clarity.
We talk about the power of mentorship, the impact of being in the right rooms, and why conflict is often the key to growth. Rob breaks down what it really means to lead with purpose and how your mindset must evolve if you want to build something lasting.
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Chapters
0:00 Introduction: The battle between success and fulfillment
0:06 Childhood trauma and forging mental toughness
0:14 Mentorship, masterminds, and why your circle matters
0:25 Building empires while staying grounded
0:37 The mindset shift that changes everything
0:49 Hate, conflict, and leading with purpose
1:01 The question every man must ask himself
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Want to reclaim your edge? Start here:
👉 Men of War Crucible
This isn’t a retreat. It’s a rite of passage.
Strip the ego. Face the fire. Rebuild the man.
https://www.manofwar.us/
👉 The Odyssey Program
Build the father-son bond through challenge and legacy.
https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody...
💰 Private Mentoring Protocol (PMP)
1-on-1 elite coaching with Rafa J Conde.
Clarity. Discipline. Power.
https://www.rafajconde.com/
💰 House of Kings Mastermind
For warrior CEOs and high-level men.
Brotherhood. Expansion. Legacy.
https://www.thehouseofkings.com/
🎙 MAN of WAR Podcast
Unfiltered truths on masculinity, discipline, and leadership.
Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts.
________________________________________________________
👉 Explore all programs: https://www.manofwar.us
👉 Follow Rafa on Instagram: / manofwarr
👉 Facebook: / therealmanofwar
This is not for every man. It’s for the few who are ready to lead.
If you’re done pretending to be strong, your journey starts now.