Man of War: Forging Men into Warriors

Rafa Conde
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Aug 20, 2025 • 1h 13min

How Success Exposes the Fakes (Not the Real Ones) Ep. 240 w/ Frank Stallone

In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, We sit down with Frank Stallone for a raw and powerful conversation about what it really means to survive in a world built on illusion. Frank shares the truth about growing up under the weight of the Stallone name, what it felt like to be pushed aside in the industry, and how betrayal shaped his view of loyalty and legacy. This is not a Hollywood story. It's a lesson in grit, manhood, and standing firm in your values when everyone around you folds. We talk about what it takes to stay grounded, why so many men lose themselves chasing recognition, and how to build something real that lasts. If you're a man navigating adversity, dealing with identity, or fighting to carve your own path, this conversation will hit home.
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Aug 8, 2025 • 40min

Becoming Unstoppable: Authentic Leadership, Service, and Faith with Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco | Ep. 239

Join Mike “C-Roc” Ciorrocco, entrepreneur and author of Rocket Fuel, as he shares his inspirational journey from a challenging childhood to becoming a purpose-driven leader. He discusses the power of authenticity and how it builds influence. Mike emphasizes that self-development is essential before serving others and reveals how to turn setbacks into unstoppable momentum. He explores the importance of vulnerability in leadership and why service forms the foundation for meaningful impact, both personally and professionally.
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Jul 30, 2025 • 60min

From Millionaire to Man of Honor: Elliot Wise on Marriage, Masculinity & Mission | Ep. 238

In this powerful episode of the Man of War Podcast, we sit down with Elliot Wise entrepreneur, husband, and father who built and lost a fortune by 21, only to come back stronger. But this isn’t just about money. It’s about what it means to lead a family, build a legacy, and become a man worth following. Elliot and Rafa dive deep into the crisis of modern masculinity, the collapse of traditional values, and how weak men allow weak societies to rise. From the sanctity of marriage to self-reinvention after fatherhood, this conversation exposes what most won’t say out loud: modern men are soft, and it’s time to change that. If you’re a man searching for purpose, power, or just the truth start here. 💥 Takeaways: • Weak men create weak families and weak families collapse nations • Marriage without shared vision is doomed • Masculinity is not toxic—it’s necessary • Confidence starts with becoming a man of value • Leadership is earned through action, not entitlement • Structure, physical fitness, and spiritual gratitude are non-negotiables • A man without purpose is already defeated ⏱️ Chapters: 0:00 - Intro & Elliot’s Background 1:30 - The Role of Fathers & Male Role Models 5:00 - Society’s Attack on Masculinity 10:00 - How Weak Men Enable Cultural Collapse 15:00 - Building a Lasting Marriage Through Framework & Standards 23:00 - Vision, Values & Communication in Relationships 30:00 - Why Most Men Lack Confidence 36:00 - Reinvention After Fatherhood 42:00 - Why Real Men Do More Than Provide 46:00 - Power, Purpose & Mission 50:00 - What Real Leadership Looks Like 54:00 - Staying Physically and Mentally Sharp 58:00 - Final Thoughts & Where to Find Elliot Wise
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Jul 23, 2025 • 47min

Bulldog Mindset: Destroying the Victim Mentality & Reclaiming Masculinity | Ep. 236 w John Sonmez

Men today are drowning in victim mentality and John Sonmez, founder of Bulldog Mindset, is here to crush it. In this powerful conversation, we break down: ✅ How to eliminate the victim mindset and take full responsibility for your life ✅ Why men must embrace pride, hardship, and masculine virtues ✅ The secret to mastering fear (and how John overcame crippling panic attacks) ✅ Stoic philosophy and emotional mastery for men ✅ Why self-worth comes from YOUR judgment, not others This episode will challenge you to stop blaming the world and start becoming the man you were meant to be. ⸻ Takeaways • Responsibility over Blame: Your life is YOUR responsibility, regardless of fault. • Masculine pride comes from hardship, not comfort. • Fear dies when you face it head-on, not when you avoid it. • Stop external validation: your opinion of yourself matters most. • Emotional mastery means feeling deeply but staying steady—a true king’s mindset. ⸻ Chapters 00:00 Intro: Why Masculine Mindset Matters 01:04 The Birth of Bulldog Mindset 03:39 Killing the Victim Mentality 07:49 Pride, Hardship, and Becoming a Man 11:02 Conquering Fear: John’s Panic Attack Story 16:55 Stoicism & Overcoming Life’s Hardest Challenges 24:18 Emotional Mastery for Men 31:14 Past Trauma vs Present Responsibility 39:51 Building True Self-Worth 46:54 Where to Find John Sonmez ⸻ Programs for Men Ready to Lead: Men of War Crucible – A rite of passage, not a retreat: https://www.manofwar.us/ The Odyssey Program – Father-son legacy through challenge: https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody… Private Mentoring Protocol – 1-on-1 elite coaching: https://www.rafajconde.com/ House of Kings Mastermind – For warrior CEOs and legacy builders: https://www.thehouseofkings.com/ MAN of WAR Podcast – Unfiltered truth for modern men. Explore all: https://www.manofwar.us Follow Rafa on Instagram: @manofwarr Facebook: @therealmanofwar ⸻ #masculinity #mindset #stoicism #selfimprovement #mensmentalhealth #manofwar #bulldogmindset #victimmentality #mentoughness #masculineframe
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Jul 16, 2025 • 46min

Why Men Are Lost & How to Fix It | Ep.235 w/ Adam Allred on Confidence & Leadership ⁨

Most men today are struggling not because they’re weak, but because they’ve been programmed to fail. In this powerful conversation, Adam Allred breaks down: • Why toxic messaging to men is destroying confidence • How to reprogram your mind to win • Why stacking daily wins builds real self-respect • The truth about leadership in the home & relationships • How to find your purpose & live with honor This episode isn’t theory it’s real-world wisdom for men who want to reclaim their strength, confidence, and purpose. ⸻ Takeaways: • Confidence starts with self-respect • Leadership begins by leading yourself • Your purpose is to level up every day • Stop blaming own your life ⸻ Chapters: 00:00 – Intro & Adam’s background 02:11 – The toxic messaging destroying masculinity 05:12 – Why men fail to take action 07:18 – Reprogramming your mind for success 10:11 – Building confidence by stacking wins 14:11 – The power of a morning routine 18:00 – Leadership in the home & respect in relationships 30:45 – Reigniting the fire in soft men 39:01 – Extreme accountability & stopping self-deception 41:14 – Honor, integrity & keeping your word 44:12 – Finding purpose & leveling up as a man 46:03 – Where to follow Adam Allred ⸻ Hashtags: #masculinity #selfimprovement #leadership #confidence #mensmentalhealth #discipline #mindset #purpose
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Jul 9, 2025 • 1h 23min

Confronting Gangs, Politics, and Fear | EP. 234 Sheriff Mark Lamb & Rafa Conde | Man of War Podcast

Sheriff Mark Lamb joins Rafa J. Conde for a raw and unfiltered conversation about leadership, law enforcement, border chaos, faith, and his run for U.S. Senate. From growing up in Hawaii and the Philippines to taking command as Sheriff of Pinal County, Lamb reveals how a ride along changed the trajectory of his life and why he believes America needs strong, principled men now more than ever. We dive deep into what it takes to lead from the front, the crisis at the border, the dangers of micromanagement in policing, and the cultural shifts that are impacting law enforcement across the country. If you’re a man looking for purpose, discipline, and the courage to stand for what’s right this one is for you. Takeaways: • How a business owner became a cop at 33 • Leading from the front and earning respect • Why most police departments are failing their men • A behind-the-scenes look at the border crisis • Controlled violence vs. reckless force • Building faith and family through purpose • Why Sheriff Lamb ran for U.S. Senate—and what’s next Chapters: 00:00 - Intro: Sheriff Mark Lamb 01:00 - Childhood, Hawaii & International Life 04:50 - Lessons from Culture, Faith & Family 10:30 - Becoming a Cop at 33 17:00 - Gangs, Violence & Tribal Policing 24:00 - Running for Sheriff: Leadership in Action 30:00 - Fixing Broken Departments 35:00 - Social Media & Building a Brand in Law Enforcement 41:00 - COVID, Mandates & Standing Firm 46:00 - Law Enforcement & Micromanagement 50:00 - Principles of Great Leadership 53:00 - Faith & Moral Compass Under Fire 57:00 - Border Crisis: What the Media Isn’t Telling You 1:05:00 - Terrorism Risks & National Security Concerns 1:10:00 - Family Protection & Situational Awareness 1:13:00 - Illegal Immigration: Truth vs. Narrative 1:17:00 - Global Politics, Ukraine, and Iran 1:19:00 - Life After Law Enforcement & New Mission 1:21:00 - Final Thoughts & Legacy
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Jul 1, 2025 • 1h 43min

How to Win in Life & Business | Ep. 234 w/ Omar Elattar of The Passionate Few

In this conversation with Omar Elattar, creator of The Passionate Few, he shares his remarkable journey from living in his car to interviewing billionaires. He discusses the importance of discipline and how it acts as the foundation for transformation. Omar emphasizes the power of belief and purpose over comfort and explains the spiritual fuel that drives his relentless pursuit. With insights from his experiences with top entrepreneurs, he reveals the key habits and mindset necessary to stay hungry and foster personal growth.
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Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 5min

Why Women Don’t See You: The Truth About Modern Men | Ep. 233 w/ Michael Sartain ​

Most men are invisible not because they’re weak, but because they’re playing by rules that no longer work. In this unfiltered episode, Michael Sartain ( @MichaelSartain ) breaks down the reality of dating dynamics, masculine identity, and social status. From military discipline to dominating the Vegas nightlife scene, Michael’s perspective is built on real world experience not theory. We unpack why women are more selective than ever, why most men are struggling silently, and what it truly takes to rise above the noise. No gimmicks. No shortcuts. Just clear, direct advice on how to earn respect, build value, and stop being overlooked. Whether you’re seeking purpose, clarity, or just tired of losing this episode is a wake-up call.
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Jun 16, 2025 • 57min

Growth Starts Where Comfort Ends. | Ep. 232 w/ Ben Reinberg

In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, Ben Reinberg shares what most men overlook—the silent killers of potential: comfort, avoidance, and fear of failure. We dive into why so many men hide behind a version of success that isn't real, why playing it safe leads to a slow death of purpose, and how true growth requires discomfort, intention, and powerful male guidance. If you’ve ever felt stuck, uncertain, or like you’re not living at your full capacity, this conversation offers clarity and direction. The truth is, resilience starts with facing what’s hard, not running from it. Strength begins when you stop negotiating with your weaknesses and start demanding more from yourself. ________ Want to reclaim your edge? Start here: 👉 Men of War Crucible This isn’t a retreat. It’s a rite of passage. Strip the ego. Face the fire. Rebuild the man. https://www.manofwar.us/ 👉 The Odyssey Program Build the father-son bond through challenge and legacy. https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody... 💰 Private Mentoring Protocol (PMP) 1-on-1 elite coaching with Rafa J Conde. Clarity. Discipline. Power. https://www.rafajconde.com/ 💰 House of Kings Mastermind For warrior CEOs and high-level men. Brotherhood. Expansion. Legacy. https://www.thehouseofkings.com/ 🎙 MAN of WAR Podcast Unfiltered truths on masculinity, discipline, and leadership. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts. ________________________________________________________ 👉 Explore all programs: https://www.manofwar.us 👉 Follow Rafa on Instagram: / manofwarr 👉 Facebook: / therealmanofwar This is not for every man. It’s for the few who are ready to lead. If you’re done pretending to be strong — your journey starts now. @MANofWAR #LeadershipDevelopment #ResilientMindset #CommercialRealEstate #SelfDiscipline #ModernMentorship #ParentingWithPurpose #SuccessMindset #MenOfCharacter #LegacyDriven #EntrepreneurMindset #WorkEthic #BusinessLeadership #RespectInSociety #ManOfWar #PodcastClip #RafaJConde #BenReinberg #YoungEntrepreneurs #ValueBasedLiving #NoExcuses
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Jun 10, 2025 • 58min

You Built It All and Still Feel Alone? Watch This | Ep. 231 w/ Rob Moore

In this episode of the Man of War Podcast, I sit down with Rob Moore for a hard-hitting conversation on success, adversity, and the deeper drive behind high performance. Rob opens up about his early battles with insecurity, rejection, and being underestimated. But instead of folding, he used every setback to build a mindset of resilience and clarity. We talk about the power of mentorship, the impact of being in the right rooms, and why conflict is often the key to growth. Rob breaks down what it really means to lead with purpose and how your mindset must evolve if you want to build something lasting. _________________________________________________________ Chapters 0:00 Introduction: The battle between success and fulfillment 0:06 Childhood trauma and forging mental toughness 0:14 Mentorship, masterminds, and why your circle matters 0:25 Building empires while staying grounded 0:37 The mindset shift that changes everything 0:49 Hate, conflict, and leading with purpose 1:01 The question every man must ask himself _________________________________________________________ Want to reclaim your edge? Start here: 👉 Men of War Crucible This isn’t a retreat. It’s a rite of passage. Strip the ego. Face the fire. Rebuild the man. https://www.manofwar.us/ 👉 The Odyssey Program Build the father-son bond through challenge and legacy. https://www.theodysseyprogram.com/ody... 💰 Private Mentoring Protocol (PMP) 1-on-1 elite coaching with Rafa J Conde. Clarity. Discipline. Power. https://www.rafajconde.com/ 💰 House of Kings Mastermind For warrior CEOs and high-level men. Brotherhood. Expansion. Legacy. https://www.thehouseofkings.com/ 🎙 MAN of WAR Podcast Unfiltered truths on masculinity, discipline, and leadership. Available on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts. ________________________________________________________ 👉 Explore all programs: https://www.manofwar.us 👉 Follow Rafa on Instagram: / manofwarr 👉 Facebook: / therealmanofwar This is not for every man. It’s for the few who are ready to lead. If you’re done pretending to be strong, your journey starts now.

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