

Why Men Are Lost & How to Fix It | Adam Allred on Confidence & Leadership
Jul 16, 2025
46:22
Most men today are struggling not because they’re weak, but because they’ve been programmed to fail.
In this powerful conversation, Adam Allred breaks down:
• Why toxic messaging to men is destroying confidence
• How to reprogram your mind to win
• Why stacking daily wins builds real self-respect
• The truth about leadership in the home & relationships
• How to find your purpose & live with honor
This episode isn’t theory it’s real-world wisdom for men who want to reclaim their strength, confidence, and purpose.
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Takeaways:
• Confidence starts with self-respect
• Leadership begins by leading yourself
• Your purpose is to level up every day
• Stop blaming own your life
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Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Adam’s background
02:11 – The toxic messaging destroying masculinity
05:12 – Why men fail to take action
07:18 – Reprogramming your mind for success
10:11 – Building confidence by stacking wins
14:11 – The power of a morning routine
18:00 – Leadership in the home & respect in relationships
30:45 – Reigniting the fire in soft men
39:01 – Extreme accountability & stopping self-deception
41:14 – Honor, integrity & keeping your word
44:12 – Finding purpose & leveling up as a man
46:03 – Where to follow Adam Allred
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Hashtags: #masculinity #selfimprovement #leadership #confidence #mensmentalhealth #discipline #mindset #purpose