The Secure Family Podcast

Andy Murphy
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Jul 30, 2025 • 51min

Who is Mr. Mustavio?

This week on The Secure Family Podcast, Andy is joined by a guest who doesn't need much introduction Patrick McNamara. You might know him from his no-nonsense training videos, his books on personal defense, or his wildly insightful show for kids, Mr. Mustavio's World of Wonder. But behind the tactical training and the larger-than-life personality is a man who genuinely wants to help families stay safe and raise capable, confident kids. Mac and Andy dive into some real talk about the mindset of preparedness, how we influence the next generation, and what it means to live with intention. If you're a parent who wants to raise street-smart, mentally strong kids, this one's for you. Listen now to hear why Mr. Mustavio is more than a character and how Mac's mindset can help your family live stronger and safer every day. Watch Mr. Mustavio's World of Wonder: https://youtube.com/@mrmustavio Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. OmniWatch is a scam and identity protection service that monitors your data, alerts you to threats, and backs you with up with insurance. Try it for only $1 for 7 days. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 02:45 Patrick's Journey and Social Media Influence 07:41 The Birth of Mr. Mustavio 10:28 Creating Wholesome Content for Kids 17:27 Inspiring Kids to Explore and Learn 25:42 Exploring Nature and Filming Techniques 26:38 Teaching Kids About Defense Mechanisms 28:06 Learning Alongside the Kids 31:02 The Importance of Curiosity and Imagination 33:28 Skills Learned in Childhood 38:05 Encouraging Outdoor Activities and Life Skills 39:16 The Role of Parents in Child Development 45:39 Embracing Uniqueness and Future Plans 49:01 Conclusion and Final Thoughts For more from The Secure Dad: https://www.thesecuredad.com/ The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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Jul 23, 2025 • 17min

Don't Sweat It: Surviving a Heatwave

Protect Your Family from Extreme Heat In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy discusses the critical topic of managing extreme heat. Discover practical tips to keep your family safe during heatwaves, such as maintaining your AC, proper hydration, and recognizing signs of heat-related illnesses. Learn how to optimize your home's cooling system and how to tell if someone needs medical aid on a hot day. Sit back and chill out with this episode! Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. OmniWatch is a scam and identity protection service that monitors your data, alerts you to threats, and backs you with up with insurance. Try it for only $1 for 7 days. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 02:12 Dealing with Extreme Heat 04:45 Understanding Heat Index and Its Impact 08:30 Keeping Your Home Cool 10:24 Maintaining Your AC System 14:07 Recognizing and Responding to Heat Illness 15:29 Conclusion and Final Thoughts The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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Jul 16, 2025 • 43min

One Step Ahead of Predators and Hackers with George Hyek

Empowering Family Security with Expert Geo Hyek In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy discusses the importance of family security with Geo Hyek, a security professional and founder of Trinsec7. The conversation looks into the complexities of modern threats faced by families, from digital dangers like data exploitation to physical risks such as home burglaries. Geo shares valuable insights from his extensive background in law enforcement, emphasizing the importance of tailored security assessments and proactive measures. Parents will learn practical steps to enhance both their physical and digital security, ensuring their family's safety in an increasingly complex world. For more from George Hyek: https://www.trinsec7.com Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. OmniWatch is a scam and identity protection service that monitors your data, alerts you to threats, and backs you with up with insurance. Try it for only $1 for 7 days. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:57 Meet George Hyek: Security Expert 02:50 Geo's Journey in Security 04:49 Understanding Security Assessments 08:38 The Reality of Modern Threats 14:56 Protecting Your Kids Online 18:50 Creating a Family Security Assessment 22:12 Nation-State Cyber Attacks for Financial Gain 22:53 The Rise of AI-Driven Scams 23:43 Physical Crime and Economic Hardship 24:42 Balancing Preparedness and Paranoia 25:15 Establishing Good Security Hygiene 25:56 The Importance of Intelligence in Security 26:31 Using Community Resources for Security 27:27 Cybersecurity Measures for Families 28:22 The 4D Security Model 37:06 Geo's Company and Services 40:56 Final Thoughts The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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Jul 9, 2025 • 29min

You Won't Believe What I Got Asked

Ask Me Anything... kinda What's the creepiest question I've ever been asked? Yep, we're going there. In this special Ask Me Anything episode of The Secure Family Podcast, I'm answering your burning questions. Everything from what scares me most to whether I ever worry about someone trying to track me down. Some questions were serious, others made me laugh… and one definitely gave me the chills. Hear my candid takes on privacy, parenting, and what it really means to be a protector in today's world. You asked. I answered. Buckle up. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. OmniWatch is a scam and identity protection service that monitors your data, alerts you to threats, and backs you with up with insurance. Try it for only $1 for 7 days. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:07 Understanding the Importance of Data Privacy 03:07 Home Security Tips and Advice 11:57 Protecting Your Kids Online 21:33 Answering Your Burning Questions 28:26 Final Thoughts and Farewell The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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Jun 25, 2025 • 33min

Unlocking Safe Secrets with The Safe Gal Cookie Tanney

Locked In: Safe Tips from The Safe Gal In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy is joined by Cookie Tanney, the owner of The Safe Gal and Kaynine Safe Company. They discuss the intricacies of the safe industry. Cookie shares her unique journey from metal art to safe expert. Cookie shares valuable tips on selecting, hiding, and securing safes. Their conversation gives you the information you need to keep your family's valuables protected. Plus, get insights on differentiating between safes for jewelry and firearms, and learn the pros and cons of various safe features. For more from Cookie visit: https://thesafegal.com Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:06 Data Collection Reform 01:59 Summer Gaming Safety 02:34 Introducing Cookie Tanny: The Safe Gal 03:32 Cookie's Journey in the Safe Industry 05:21 Challenges and Insights in the Safe Business 08:45 Evaluating Safe Quality and Features 14:27 Fireproofing and Common Safe Mistakes 24:22 Balancing Accessibility and Security 26:49 Creative and Custom Safe Designs 32:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts
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Jun 18, 2025 • 15min

The Best Firearms for Home Defense

The Best Firearms for Home Defense: A Comprehensive Guide for Families Join Andy on The Secure Family Podcast as he breaks down the best firearms for home defense, emphasizing the importance of making informed and safe choices. From shotguns and AR platform rifles to handguns, Andy discusses the pros and cons of each, offering recommendations for parents looking to protect their homes. Tune in for valuable insights on legal considerations, safe storage, and practical tips to ensure your family's safety. Plus, get updates on data privacy protection with DeleteMe and learn about online gaming safety through Andy's ebook, Level Up. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Protect your home and your family with Andy's best-selling book, Home Security: The Secure Dad's Guide. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:55 Data Collection Reform Update 01:47 Summer Gaming Guide for Parents 02:32 The Best Gun for Home Defense 06:58 Shotguns for Home Defense 09:02 AR Platform Rifles for Home Defense 10:22 Handguns for Home Defense 12:37 Final Thoughts on Home Defense Firearms The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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Jun 11, 2025 • 43min

Summer Online Safety Tips with Family IT Guy

Keeping Kids Safe Online: Insights from an NSA Cybersecurity Expert In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, host Andytalks with Ben Gillenwater, an ex-NSA cybersecurity expert and The Family IT Guy on TikTok. They discuss the importance of cybersecurity for kids, especially during the summer when screen time often increases. Ben shares his career journey, insights on setting appropriate screen time boundaries, the dangers of addictive algorithms and online chats, and the significance of promoting healthy skepticism in children. They also dive into warning signs of online addiction and how to implement effective parental controls. Towards the end, Ben emphasizes the importance of values in parenting and how to translate them into actionable strategies. For more from Ben Gillenwater: https://www.familyitguy.com Watch The Interview: https://youtu.be/oObXzjiFsHU Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:58 Data Collection Reform 01:50 Meet Ben Gillenwater: The Family IT Guy 02:42 Ben's Journey into IT and Cybersecurity 06:11 The Challenges of Parenting in the Digital Age 12:49 The Impact of AI on Kids 18:26 Setting Screen Time Boundaries for Summer 21:32 Embracing Boredom in a Digital Age 22:18 Modeling Positive Behavior for Kids 25:36 Parental Controls and Online Safety 27:08 Understanding the Dangers of Online Algorithms 34:22 Recognizing Red Flags in Children's Online Behavior 38:18 Final Thoughts And More From Ben The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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Jun 4, 2025 • 13min

3 Safety Tips We All Need To Know

Enhancing Family Safety with Situational Awareness: Top Tips In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy discusses the importance of situational awareness for family safety. He shares three essential security habits that can help parents protect their families from potential threats. Topics include checking your surroundings in parking lots, avoiding distractions in public, and identifying unusual behavior. Additionally, the episode touches on current data collection laws and features offers for privacy protection services and online gaming safety resources. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:56 Data Collection Reform Update 01:49 Summer Gaming Safety Tips 02:33 Three Essential Security Habits 04:25 Habit 1: Parking Lot Awareness 05:45 Habit 2: Look Up and Out 06:55 Habit 3: Spotting Incongruent Behavior 08:42 A Personal Story on Situational Awareness 11:37 Conclusion The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.
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May 28, 2025 • 28min

Are Security Cameras Secure with Josh Summers

In this discussion, Josh Summers, host of the All Things Secured YouTube channel, shares his expertise on home security cameras. He explains the crucial differences between wired and wireless systems and highlights the importance of data storage and encryption for protecting privacy. Josh debunks myths surrounding indoor cameras and offers a handy checklist to assist listeners in selecting the best security solutions for their homes. This conversation empowers homeowners to take control of their data and enhance their family's safety.
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May 21, 2025 • 17min

Drowning (Really) Doesn't Look Like Drowning

How to Spot and Prevent Drowning In this episode, Andy shares crucial insights for parents on how to keep their kids safe around water. Andy recounts a personal and emotional story of a near-drowning incident that underscores the importance of vigilance and understanding the silent nature of drowning. Drowning Doesn't Look LIke Drowning by Mario Vittone: https://slate.com/technology/2013/06/rescuing-drowning-children-how-to-know-when-someone-is-in-trouble-in-the-water.html Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Download The Secure Dad Family Home Security Assessment today! Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 02:05 Understanding the Real Dangers of Drowning 04:49 A Personal Story of a Near-Drowning Incident 12:43 Reflecting on the Incident and Final Thoughts 16:44 Closing Remarks and Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

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