

The Secure Family Podcast
Andy Murphy
Hosted by Andy Murphy, The Secure Family Podcast is your trusted source for practical tips and expert advice to keep your family safe at home, online, and in public. With a focus on empowering parents, each episode delivers simple, actionable strategies to help you protect what matters most. From securing your house to navigating digital safety and staying aware in everyday situations, this podcast makes family safety second nature.
The information shared on The Secure Family Podcast is for general information only. The Secure Family Podcast is a production of The Secure Dad ®.
The information shared on The Secure Family Podcast is for general information only. The Secure Family Podcast is a production of The Secure Dad ®.
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Jun 11, 2025 • 43min
Summer Online Safety Tips with Family IT Guy
Keeping Kids Safe Online: Insights from an NSA Cybersecurity Expert In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, host Andytalks with Ben Gillenwater, an ex-NSA cybersecurity expert and The Family IT Guy on TikTok. They discuss the importance of cybersecurity for kids, especially during the summer when screen time often increases. Ben shares his career journey, insights on setting appropriate screen time boundaries, the dangers of addictive algorithms and online chats, and the significance of promoting healthy skepticism in children. They also dive into warning signs of online addiction and how to implement effective parental controls. Towards the end, Ben emphasizes the importance of values in parenting and how to translate them into actionable strategies. For more from Ben Gillenwater: https://www.familyitguy.com Watch The Interview: https://youtu.be/oObXzjiFsHU Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:58 Data Collection Reform 01:50 Meet Ben Gillenwater: The Family IT Guy 02:42 Ben's Journey into IT and Cybersecurity 06:11 The Challenges of Parenting in the Digital Age 12:49 The Impact of AI on Kids 18:26 Setting Screen Time Boundaries for Summer 21:32 Embracing Boredom in a Digital Age 22:18 Modeling Positive Behavior for Kids 25:36 Parental Controls and Online Safety 27:08 Understanding the Dangers of Online Algorithms 34:22 Recognizing Red Flags in Children's Online Behavior 38:18 Final Thoughts And More From Ben The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Jun 4, 2025 • 13min
3 Safety Tips We All Need To Know
Enhancing Family Safety with Situational Awareness: Top Tips In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy discusses the importance of situational awareness for family safety. He shares three essential security habits that can help parents protect their families from potential threats. Topics include checking your surroundings in parking lots, avoiding distractions in public, and identifying unusual behavior. Additionally, the episode touches on current data collection laws and features offers for privacy protection services and online gaming safety resources. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:56 Data Collection Reform Update 01:49 Summer Gaming Safety Tips 02:33 Three Essential Security Habits 04:25 Habit 1: Parking Lot Awareness 05:45 Habit 2: Look Up and Out 06:55 Habit 3: Spotting Incongruent Behavior 08:42 A Personal Story on Situational Awareness 11:37 Conclusion The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

May 28, 2025 • 28min
Are Security Cameras Secure with Josh Summers
In this discussion, Josh Summers, host of the All Things Secured YouTube channel, shares his expertise on home security cameras. He explains the crucial differences between wired and wireless systems and highlights the importance of data storage and encryption for protecting privacy. Josh debunks myths surrounding indoor cameras and offers a handy checklist to assist listeners in selecting the best security solutions for their homes. This conversation empowers homeowners to take control of their data and enhance their family's safety.

May 21, 2025 • 17min
Drowning (Really) Doesn’t Look Like Drowning
How to Spot and Prevent Drowning In this episode, Andy shares crucial insights for parents on how to keep their kids safe around water. Andy recounts a personal and emotional story of a near-drowning incident that underscores the importance of vigilance and understanding the silent nature of drowning. Drowning Doesn’t Look LIke Drowning by Mario Vittone: https://slate.com/technology/2013/06/rescuing-drowning-children-how-to-know-when-someone-is-in-trouble-in-the-water.html Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Download The Secure Dad Family Home Security Assessment today! Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 02:05 Understanding the Real Dangers of Drowning 04:49 A Personal Story of a Near-Drowning Incident 12:43 Reflecting on the Incident and Final Thoughts 16:44 Closing Remarks and Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

May 14, 2025 • 40min
Creating a Safe Room with Samuel Fish
Creating a Secure Home: Safe Rooms and Home Security with Samuel Fish In this episode, Andy discusses the importance of home security with Samuel Fish, a security expert and founder of Shield Security Doors. The conversation covers the creation of safe rooms, the cultural differences in home security between the US and Europe, and practical steps homeowners can take to enhance their security. Samuel shares his personal experiences and offers valuable insights into the holistic approach needed for effective home security. The episode also highlights the role of everyday preparedness to avoid the worst case scenario. For more about Shield Security Doors: https://www.shieldsecuritydoors.com Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Download The Secure Dad Family Home Security Assessment today! Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:00 The Growing Problem of Data Collection 01:59 Meet Samuel Fish: Security Expert 05:34 Understanding Home Security Culture 09:42 The Concept of Safe Rooms 12:29 Designing Your Own Safe Room 24:23 Real-Life Examples and Final Thoughts 39:13 Conclusion and Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

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May 7, 2025 • 10min
Travel Smart: Simple Ways to Stay Private and Secure
Discover essential online security tips for travelers, focusing on the risks of public Wi-Fi and the need to protect your personal data. Learn how VPNs and travel routers can create secure networks, ensuring your information stays safe on the go. The host shares a must-have travel item that enhances security while vacationing. With personal anecdotes and expert recommendations, prepare to enjoy your travels without compromising privacy.

Apr 23, 2025 • 38min
The Dangers of Online Pornography: Fighting the New Drug with Parker Hymas
Protecting Kids from the Dangers of Pornography In this episode, Andy discusses the protection of children from the dangers of pornography with Parker Hymas, Director of Public Outreach at Fight The New Drug. They take a hard look into the different ways children might be exposed to porn, the impacts it has on their mental health and behavior, and effective strategies for parents to have open conversations about this sensitive issue. Additionally, they discuss the impact of platforms like OnlyFans on modern society and self-exploitation. For more from Fight The New Drug: https://fightthenewdrug.org Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:00 Protecting Your Identity with DeleteMe 01:52 Meet Parker Hymas from Fight The New Drug 02:50 Parker's Journey to Fight The New Drug 05:50 Understanding the Impact of Pornography 08:49 The Dark Side of the Porn Industry 15:09 How Kids Are Exposed to Pornography 17:29 Tips for Parents to Talk About Pornography 18:48 Preparing for Job Interviews vs. Talking to Kids About Pornography 19:27 The Importance of Open Conversations with Kids 20:08 Parents' Expectations and the Reality of Solutions 22:09 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 26:31 The Rise of OnlyFans and Its Dangers 32:57 Addressing Pornography Exposure and Avoiding Shame 35:10 Resources and Final Thoughts The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Apr 16, 2025 • 9min
Fire Safety Tips for Famillies
Essential Home Fire Safety Tips for Families In this episode, Andy emphasizes the importance of family safety and provides crucial tips on preventing and responding to house fires. The discussion includes the significance of kitchen safety, working smoke detectors, creating and practicing a family fire escape plan, and the proper use of fire extinguishers and fire blankets. He also highlights the importance of having fire escape ladders for multi-story homes in multiple locations. Listen to my interview with Jason Patton. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:42 Introduction to Fire Safety 01:56 Preventing House Fires: Kitchen Safety 03:56 Smoke Detectors and Family Fire Escape Plans 06:01 Fire Extinguishers and Fire Blankets 06:59 Fire Escape Ladders for Multi-Story Homes 07:29 Conclusion and Additional Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Apr 9, 2025 • 45min
Everyday OSINT: Protecting Your Family and Home with Ricky Alonzo
Empowering Family Safety with Open Source Intelligence In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, host Andy Murphy welcomes Ricky Alonzo, an open source intelligence expert also known as Rickynomics. The discussion centers on empowering parents to protect their families through informed decision-making and the use of open source intelligence (OSINT). Ricky shares his journey and expertise and explains how OSINT can be used to safeguard family safety, conduct background checks, and understand potential threats. He also shares how to protect your home’s title from being taken from you. Ricky gives valuable advice on how parents can assess potential threats their children might face online and offers strategies to decentralize personal information to make it harder for malicious actors to exploit. The episode is a comprehensive guide to using intelligence skills to enhance family security in today's digital age. For more from Ricky Alonzo: https://institutionoftheamericas.com/ Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:58 Meet Ricky Alonso: From Military Intelligence to OSINT Expert 04:21 Understanding Open Source Intelligence (OSINT) 09:38 Using OSINT to Protect Your Family 16:31 Recognizing Online Threats to Your Kids 21:53 How Much Can Someone Learn About Your Home? 22:11 Understanding Public Information on Your Property 22:51 Loan Programs for Elderly Homeowners 23:34 Risks of Public Information and Deception 24:42 Protection Measures Against Property Fraud 26:24 Real Estate Tax Debts and Liens 30:00 Using OSINT for Personal Safety 37:16 Maintaining Privacy and Security Online 42:32 Final Thoughts The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Apr 2, 2025 • 10min
Surviving the Follow-Home Robbery
Protecting Your Family from Follow Home Robberies: Tips to Save Your Life In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy discusses the concept of follow home robberies. He offers practical advice on how to avoid becoming a victim. He explains how criminals profile potential targets based on various factors and provides actionable tips to detect and deter these threats. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:54 Understanding Identity Theft 01:54 Introduction to Follow Home Robberies 03:18 Preventing Follow Home Robberies 05:09 Defensive Driving Techniques 06:16 Securing Your Home Arrival 08:50 Final Thoughts and Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.