
The Secure Family Podcast
Hosted by Andy Murphy, The Secure Family Podcast is your trusted source for practical tips and expert advice to keep your family safe at home, online, and in public. With a focus on empowering parents, each episode delivers simple, actionable strategies to help you protect what matters most. From securing your house to navigating digital safety and staying aware in everyday situations, this podcast makes family safety second nature.
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Latest episodes

Jul 9, 2025 • 29min
You Won’t Believe What I Got Asked
Ask Me Anything... kinda What’s the creepiest question I’ve ever been asked? Yep, we’re going there. In this special Ask Me Anything episode of The Secure Family Podcast, I’m answering your burning questions. Everything from what scares me most to whether I ever worry about someone trying to track me down. Some questions were serious, others made me laugh… and one definitely gave me the chills. Hear my candid takes on privacy, parenting, and what it really means to be a protector in today’s world. You asked. I answered. Buckle up. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. OmniWatch is a scam and identity protection service that monitors your data, alerts you to threats, and backs you with up with insurance. Try it for only $1 for 7 days. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:07 Understanding the Importance of Data Privacy 03:07 Home Security Tips and Advice 11:57 Protecting Your Kids Online 21:33 Answering Your Burning Questions 28:26 Final Thoughts and Farewell The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Jun 25, 2025 • 33min
Unlocking Safe Secrets with The Safe Gal Cookie Tanney
Locked In: Safe Tips from The Safe Gal In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy is joined by Cookie Tanney, the owner of The Safe Gal and Kaynine Safe Company. They discuss the intricacies of the safe industry. Cookie shares her unique journey from metal art to safe expert. Cookie shares valuable tips on selecting, hiding, and securing safes. Their conversation gives you the information you need to keep your family's valuables protected. Plus, get insights on differentiating between safes for jewelry and firearms, and learn the pros and cons of various safe features. For more from Cookie visit: https://thesafegal.com Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:06 Data Collection Reform 01:59 Summer Gaming Safety 02:34 Introducing Cookie Tanny: The Safe Gal 03:32 Cookie's Journey in the Safe Industry 05:21 Challenges and Insights in the Safe Business 08:45 Evaluating Safe Quality and Features 14:27 Fireproofing and Common Safe Mistakes 24:22 Balancing Accessibility and Security 26:49 Creative and Custom Safe Designs 32:17 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Jun 18, 2025 • 15min
The Best Firearms for Home Defense
The Best Firearms for Home Defense: A Comprehensive Guide for Families Join Andy on The Secure Family Podcast as he breaks down the best firearms for home defense, emphasizing the importance of making informed and safe choices. From shotguns and AR platform rifles to handguns, Andy discusses the pros and cons of each, offering recommendations for parents looking to protect their homes. Tune in for valuable insights on legal considerations, safe storage, and practical tips to ensure your family's safety. Plus, get updates on data privacy protection with DeleteMe and learn about online gaming safety through Andy's ebook, Level Up. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Protect your home and your family with Andy's best-selling book, Home Security: The Secure Dad's Guide. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:55 Data Collection Reform Update 01:47 Summer Gaming Guide for Parents 02:32 The Best Gun for Home Defense 06:58 Shotguns for Home Defense 09:02 AR Platform Rifles for Home Defense 10:22 Handguns for Home Defense 12:37 Final Thoughts on Home Defense Firearms The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Jun 11, 2025 • 43min
Summer Online Safety Tips with Family IT Guy
Keeping Kids Safe Online: Insights from an NSA Cybersecurity Expert In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, host Andytalks with Ben Gillenwater, an ex-NSA cybersecurity expert and The Family IT Guy on TikTok. They discuss the importance of cybersecurity for kids, especially during the summer when screen time often increases. Ben shares his career journey, insights on setting appropriate screen time boundaries, the dangers of addictive algorithms and online chats, and the significance of promoting healthy skepticism in children. They also dive into warning signs of online addiction and how to implement effective parental controls. Towards the end, Ben emphasizes the importance of values in parenting and how to translate them into actionable strategies. For more from Ben Gillenwater: https://www.familyitguy.com Watch The Interview: https://youtu.be/oObXzjiFsHU Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:58 Data Collection Reform 01:50 Meet Ben Gillenwater: The Family IT Guy 02:42 Ben's Journey into IT and Cybersecurity 06:11 The Challenges of Parenting in the Digital Age 12:49 The Impact of AI on Kids 18:26 Setting Screen Time Boundaries for Summer 21:32 Embracing Boredom in a Digital Age 22:18 Modeling Positive Behavior for Kids 25:36 Parental Controls and Online Safety 27:08 Understanding the Dangers of Online Algorithms 34:22 Recognizing Red Flags in Children's Online Behavior 38:18 Final Thoughts And More From Ben The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

Jun 4, 2025 • 13min
3 Safety Tips We All Need To Know
Enhancing Family Safety with Situational Awareness: Top Tips In this episode of The Secure Family Podcast, Andy discusses the importance of situational awareness for family safety. He shares three essential security habits that can help parents protect their families from potential threats. Topics include checking your surroundings in parking lots, avoiding distractions in public, and identifying unusual behavior. Additionally, the episode touches on current data collection laws and features offers for privacy protection services and online gaming safety resources. Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 00:56 Data Collection Reform Update 01:49 Summer Gaming Safety Tips 02:33 Three Essential Security Habits 04:25 Habit 1: Parking Lot Awareness 05:45 Habit 2: Look Up and Out 06:55 Habit 3: Spotting Incongruent Behavior 08:42 A Personal Story on Situational Awareness 11:37 Conclusion The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

May 28, 2025 • 28min
Are Security Cameras Secure with Josh Summers
In this discussion, Josh Summers, host of the All Things Secured YouTube channel, shares his expertise on home security cameras. He explains the crucial differences between wired and wireless systems and highlights the importance of data storage and encryption for protecting privacy. Josh debunks myths surrounding indoor cameras and offers a handy checklist to assist listeners in selecting the best security solutions for their homes. This conversation empowers homeowners to take control of their data and enhance their family's safety.

May 21, 2025 • 17min
Drowning (Really) Doesn’t Look Like Drowning
How to Spot and Prevent Drowning In this episode, Andy shares crucial insights for parents on how to keep their kids safe around water. Andy recounts a personal and emotional story of a near-drowning incident that underscores the importance of vigilance and understanding the silent nature of drowning. Drowning Doesn’t Look LIke Drowning by Mario Vittone: https://slate.com/technology/2013/06/rescuing-drowning-children-how-to-know-when-someone-is-in-trouble-in-the-water.html Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Download The Secure Dad Family Home Security Assessment today! Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 02:05 Understanding the Real Dangers of Drowning 04:49 A Personal Story of a Near-Drowning Incident 12:43 Reflecting on the Incident and Final Thoughts 16:44 Closing Remarks and Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

May 14, 2025 • 40min
Creating a Safe Room with Samuel Fish
Creating a Secure Home: Safe Rooms and Home Security with Samuel Fish In this episode, Andy discusses the importance of home security with Samuel Fish, a security expert and founder of Shield Security Doors. The conversation covers the creation of safe rooms, the cultural differences in home security between the US and Europe, and practical steps homeowners can take to enhance their security. Samuel shares his personal experiences and offers valuable insights into the holistic approach needed for effective home security. The episode also highlights the role of everyday preparedness to avoid the worst case scenario. For more about Shield Security Doors: https://www.shieldsecuritydoors.com Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Download The Secure Dad Family Home Security Assessment today! Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:00 The Growing Problem of Data Collection 01:59 Meet Samuel Fish: Security Expert 05:34 Understanding Home Security Culture 09:42 The Concept of Safe Rooms 12:29 Designing Your Own Safe Room 24:23 Real-Life Examples and Final Thoughts 39:13 Conclusion and Resources The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.

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May 7, 2025 • 10min
Travel Smart: Simple Ways to Stay Private and Secure
Discover essential online security tips for travelers, focusing on the risks of public Wi-Fi and the need to protect your personal data. Learn how VPNs and travel routers can create secure networks, ensuring your information stays safe on the go. The host shares a must-have travel item that enhances security while vacationing. With personal anecdotes and expert recommendations, prepare to enjoy your travels without compromising privacy.

Apr 23, 2025 • 38min
The Dangers of Online Pornography: Fighting the New Drug with Parker Hymas
Protecting Kids from the Dangers of Pornography In this episode, Andy discusses the protection of children from the dangers of pornography with Parker Hymas, Director of Public Outreach at Fight The New Drug. They take a hard look into the different ways children might be exposed to porn, the impacts it has on their mental health and behavior, and effective strategies for parents to have open conversations about this sensitive issue. Additionally, they discuss the impact of platforms like OnlyFans on modern society and self-exploitation. For more from Fight The New Drug: https://fightthenewdrug.org Take control of your data with DeleteMe. Because they sponsor the podcast you can get 20% off a privacy plan from DeleteMe with promo code: DAD. Level Up your parenting with my ebook about protecting your kids while gaming online. Connect 📧 Subscribe to The Secure Dad newsletter 📸 Follow The Secure Dad on Instagram 📺 Subscribe to The Secure Dad on YouTube 🖥️ Visit The Secure Dad Website 00:00 Welcome to The Secure Family Podcast 01:00 Protecting Your Identity with DeleteMe 01:52 Meet Parker Hymas from Fight The New Drug 02:50 Parker's Journey to Fight The New Drug 05:50 Understanding the Impact of Pornography 08:49 The Dark Side of the Porn Industry 15:09 How Kids Are Exposed to Pornography 17:29 Tips for Parents to Talk About Pornography 18:48 Preparing for Job Interviews vs. Talking to Kids About Pornography 19:27 The Importance of Open Conversations with Kids 20:08 Parents' Expectations and the Reality of Solutions 22:09 The Impact of Pornography on Relationships 26:31 The Rise of OnlyFans and Its Dangers 32:57 Addressing Pornography Exposure and Avoiding Shame 35:10 Resources and Final Thoughts The information, opinions, and recommendations presented in this Podcast are for general information only and any reliance on the information provided in this Podcast is done at your own risk. The views and opinions expressed by guests are those of the authors and do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of The Secure Dad, LLC. The Secure Dad® is a registered trademark of The Secure Dad, LLC.