Incels
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Hidden deep in online forums, a growing subculture thrives on anger, isolation, and blame: incels, or “involuntary celibates.” Incels see themselves as rejected by women and overshadowed by so-called “Chads”—the confident, attractive men they believe they can never be. Their frustration often mutates into open hostility, harassment, and, in the most extreme cases, acts of violence.
Incels takes listeners inside this unsettling world—not to sensationalize it, but to understand it. Through expert analysis, first-hand accounts, and the voices of former incels, we break down how these communities operate, why they’re growing, and the psychological traps that keep men locked in cycles of resentment. With chilling stories and deep insight, Incels reveals the human cost of a culture built on hate—and the path forward for those ready to leave it behind.
Incels takes listeners inside this unsettling world—not to sensationalize it, but to understand it. Through expert analysis, first-hand accounts, and the voices of former incels, we break down how these communities operate, why they’re growing, and the psychological traps that keep men locked in cycles of resentment. With chilling stories and deep insight, Incels reveals the human cost of a culture built on hate—and the path forward for those ready to leave it behind.
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Nov 5, 2025 • 35min
the 764 Network
David Ryan, former chief of the National Security Division at the U.S. Attorney's Office in Los Angeles, dives into the alarming world of online extremism and incel-related threats. He discusses how vulnerable youth are targeted through manipulation and grooming tactics. Ryan explains the rapid timeline from online radicalization to real-world violence, highlighting the dangerous ideologies of groups like the 764 Network. He emphasizes the critical role of law enforcement and social platforms in prevention, urging proactive measures to protect potential victims.
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Oct 29, 2025 • 30min
The Manosphere
Dr. Sarah Daly, a criminologist focusing on incel-related violence and online radicalization, joins self-described incel Brian to explore the dark corners of the manosphere. They discuss how online misogyny seeps into real-life situations and why figures like Andrew Tate resonate with young men seeking identity. Brian shares his perspective on the lack of positive role models in the incel community, while Dr. Daly highlights the risks posed by these ideologies and the appeal of 'alpha' influencers. Together, they call for healthier guidance for men.
Oct 22, 2025 • 30min
From Victim to Violence
Dr. Michael Kimmel, a sociologist and expert on gender studies, dives deep into the convoluted psyche of incels. He explains how online anonymity fuels hostile environments, allowing misogyny to flourish unchecked. Kimmel discusses aggrieved entitlement, revealing how men feel owed romance and status, which can lead to violent resentment. He also analyzes the language used in incel forums that dehumanizes women and contributes to a dangerous culture. Insights into how personal failures and societal expectations culminate in grievances provide a chilling backdrop to this troubling phenomenon.
Oct 15, 2025 • 34min
One Shot at the Market
Mr. East, a high-functioning autistic self-identified incel of East Asian descent, shares his journey into the black pill community, discussing how isolation and misunderstanding shape his worldview. New Cold Squid, an Australian with a South Asian Muslim background, highlights the pressure of parental expectations and the sting of everyday rejection. Both guests challenge common misconceptions about incels, advocating for empathy and understanding. They reflect on the raw realities of loneliness, social exclusion, and the complexities of seeking connection.
Oct 1, 2025 • 28min
Just Ten Steps
The discussion delves into how social media algorithms can lead vulnerable young people down dangerous paths, with tragic examples like Bianca Devins. It highlights how incel forums foster toxic conversations and amplify abuse through anonymity. Experts reveal that algorithms often prioritize engagement over safety, targeting isolated individuals prone to radicalization. The impact of online communities on mental health is also examined, showing how they can exacerbate loneliness and potentially lead to violence.
Sep 24, 2025 • 44min
Black Pilled
Kim Devins, mother of Bianca Devins, shares her heartbreaking journey following her daughter's murder and the fight for Bianca's Law, aimed at preventing online abuse. Dr. David Ley, a clinical psychologist, delves into the dangerous ideologies of the incel community, the meanings of red, blue, and black pills, and how echo chambers exacerbate feelings of hopelessness and hostility. Together, they highlight the toxic overlap between online radicalization and real-world violence, urging awareness and empathy.
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Sep 24, 2025 • 38min
Begin at the Ending
Connor Powell, an investigative journalist, shares his chilling experiences infiltrating online incel forums, exposing the disturbing dynamics and recruitment tactics within this toxic subculture. Colleen Weiss, mother of victim Veronica Weiss, offers a poignant and personal narrative about the aftermath of the 2014 Isla Vista tragedy, detailing her grief and the shock of losing her daughter to an incel's violence. Together, they shed light on the sinister blend of online radicalization and the profound impact on families left behind.
Sep 17, 2025 • 1min
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