18Forty Podcast

This series is sponsored by Mira and Daniel Stokar.In this episode of the 18Forty Podcast, we speak with Naftuli Moster, a former activist for major changes in Hasidic education, about how and why he changed his understanding of the values imparted by Judaism.In this episode we discuss:Why did Naftuli stop campaigning for fundamental reform in Hasidic education?Why are Jews often drawn to movements that can be counterproductive to their interests? How did October 7 make Naftuli rethink his relationship with the Jewish world? Tune in to hear a conversation about finding healthy communities in times when we feel lost. Interview begins at 25:09.Naftuli Moster is the founder and CEO of Shtetl, a non-profit media outlet serving as a free press for the Haredi community. He formerly worked with YAFFED, an organization that pushes for reform in Haredi and Hasidic education.References:“‘Why I left Hasidic education activism’ | Naftuli Moster”Tosafot on Pesachim“The Words of the Master and the Life of the Student” by Shalom CarmyMan's Search for Meaning by Viktor E. FranklNight by Elie WieselFor more 18Forty:NEWSLETTER: 18forty.org/joinCALL: (212) 582-1840EMAIL: info@18forty.orgWEBSITE: 18forty.orgIG: @18fortyX: @18_fortyWhatsApp: join hereBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/18forty-podcast--4344730/support.

Gayle Kirschenbaum, an Emmy-winning filmmaker and forgiveness coach, shares her poignant journey of mending her complicated relationship with her mother. She discusses the teachings of a forgiveness coach and how understanding our parents' humanity can facilitate healing. Gayle emphasizes the significance of navigating family dynamics to transform past traumas into connections. The heartwarming inclusion of her mother, at over 101 years old, adds a unique perspective, highlighting the beauty of forgiveness and gratitude across generations.

In this engaging discussion, Sarah Hurwitz, a former White House speechwriter and author, explores what it means to be a proud Jew today. She addresses the importance of being well-educated in Judaism and how it helps combat shame and blame. Sarah shares insights on navigating Jewish identity in a complex political landscape and the value of Mussar literature for personal growth. The conversation emphasizes the need for deeper connections to Jewish traditions while supporting inclusivity in diverse practices, ultimately encouraging a reclamation of heritage.

Rabbi Dov Ber Pinson, a world-renowned scholar and spiritual mentor, delves into the transformative power of teshuva amidst today's challenges. He distinguishes between 'lower' and 'higher' teshuva, encouraging a deeper reflection on personal growth. The conversation also tackles the rise of antisemitism and the necessity of unity within the Jewish community, emphasizing love even when faced with disagreements. Pinson highlights the importance of adapting Jewish identity in a rapidly changing world, urging a collective return to spiritual authenticity.

Rachel Tova Ebner, a linguist, teacher, and translator with a Master’s degree in Hebrew, discusses the spiritual insights of Rav Kook. She delves into the yearning for God and the role of feelings in personal transformation. Ebner explores how Rav Kook's teachings redefine the concept of teshuva, or repentance, and the paradox of changing the past. Additionally, she highlights the interplay between traditional beliefs and personal spirituality, urging a deeper emotional connection to Judaism as we reflect during the month of Elul.

Rabbi Joey Rosenfeld, a psychotherapist and translator of Kabbalah and Hasidut, discusses navigating the complexities of spiritual life in today’s world. He explores where to channel spiritual energy as we reflect on recent events, the purpose of yearning, and the mystical concept of Mashiach. Joey emphasizes the importance of self-acceptance and confronting inner emptiness while drawing on themes from Jewish mysticism. Their conversation highlights the significance of embracing imperfections as pathways to spiritual revelation.

Dive into an enlightening discussion on the challenges of modern dating. Explore how personal experiences shape our understanding of commitment while navigating faith and emotional health. Gain insights on balancing religious identity with romantic aspirations. Discover the transformative nature of solitude and the evolving definition of home. Reflect on growth and connection in relationships, and learn why true commitment is essential for meaningful love.

Yosef Sokol, a psychologist studying the Shidduch crisis, Efrat Sobolofsky, director of YUConnects matchmaking, and Devorah Mansdorf Ajami, an endodontist who found love on JSwipe, explore modern Jewish dating dynamics. They discuss the diverse approaches across communities, from traditional matchmaking to dating apps, emphasizing how cultural values influence relationships. The conversation addresses challenges like age gaps, societal pressures, and the balance between modernity and tradition, providing insights into the quest for meaningful connections.

In a poignant conversation, Hadas Hershkovitz shares her journey of loss after her husband, Yossi, was killed in Gaza. She discusses the urgency her grief has brought to her mission of uplifting the Jewish People. Hadas reflects on the anger and blame that often accompany tragedy and emphasizes the importance of community and unity in healing. Through personal anecdotes, she explores the power of faith, the transformative role of music, and how collective experiences help navigate grief, ultimately celebrating resilience and shared purpose.

Elissa Felder, author and head of her local chevrah kadisha, and her daughter Sonia Hoffman, a dedicated Limmudei Kodesh teacher, share their profound insights on Jewish burial traditions. They discuss the Tahara ritual, emphasizing its emotional and spiritual significance in caring for the deceased. The duo also engages in a heartfelt conversation about navigating grief, normalizing discussions about loss, and the historical and communal aspects of mourning practices. Their stories intertwine the themes of love, memory, and dignity in the face of death.