Growing Hearts Podcast

In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Father Sam explores the deeply human and deeply divine reality of forgiveness. He talks about why forgiveness is so central to the Christian faith, why it can feel so hard, and how it shapes our relationships — especially in family life.  Father Sam shares personal reflections, gospel stories, and practical insights to help us see forgiveness not just as a duty, but as a path to healing and true freedom.    Discussion Points:  Why Forgiveness Is Necessary  Without forgiveness, we remain tied to the people or events that hurt us, trapped in what Father Sam calls a “victim mentality.”  Forgiveness in the Christian Faith  At the heart of Christianity is God’s unconditional forgiveness, most powerfully shown on the cross.  Christians are called to forgive without limits, because we have first been forgiven.  Divine Forgiveness vs. Human Forgiveness  God forgives fully, restores us completely, and forgets our sins because of His love.  Human forgiveness can be incomplete; we often struggle to truly let go.  The Role of Feelings and the Challenge of Letting Go  Forgiveness isn’t always about feeling ready; it’s often a choice before it becomes a feeling.  Sometimes people hold on to hurt because it gives a sense of identity or emotional power.  Forgiveness in the Family  The home is the first place children learn what forgiveness looks like.  True forgiveness in families includes mercy and helping each other grow into better people.  Parents shouldn’t fear hurting their kids by setting expectations — children need to see love, joy, and a call to something greater.    Join the Conversation  Forgiveness isn’t just about forgetting or excusing what happened — it’s about choosing freedom and love over resentment. Father Sam invites us to see forgiveness not as a one-time decision, but as a process that draws us closer to God and makes us more like Him.  Reflect on these questions and share your thoughts with us:  When have I experienced real forgiveness — either giving or receiving — and how did it change me?  What does forgiveness look like in my family? Do we make space for both mercy and growth?  How can I help my children — or those around me — experience forgiveness as something healing and hopeful?  We’d love to hear your stories. Share your reflections and keep the conversation going with us!    You can:   Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes  

In this episode, Fr Phil and Fr Paul explore what kids need most from their parents, emphasizing the importance of understanding reality and the imperfect love we receive. We discuss how parents can instil faith, beauty, and hope in their children, and how to be a living example of joy and faith. Learn practical tips on teaching young kids to pray, create family traditions, and broaden your teenagers' horizons. Discover the profound impact of showing children that life can be awesome.   Discussion Points: The importance of giving children experiences of beauty to open their perspectives.  How to promote a Living Faith: with naturalness and freedom.  How to help children understand that God is alive, and we can talk to Him through simple prayers.   The importance of knowing that suffering is a reality that can exist alongside hope.  The importance of expanding teenagers' horizons and the meaning of self-giving.    Join the Conversation! You can:   Follow us on Instagram @thegrowingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes  

In this heartfelt and lively conversation, Fr. Phil and Fr. Paul dive into the life and message of St. Josemaria Escriva, the founder of Opus Dei, to explore what it truly means to become a saint in everyday life. With wit, honesty, and real-life examples, they dismantle the myth of the saint as a "spiritual superhero" and propose something far more attainable—and transformative: holiness through ordinary life.  This episode touches on why sanctity isn’t about doing something extraordinary, but about allowing God to work in us, especially through our work, our relationships, and even our study habits. Whether you're a student stressed about exams or a parent guiding your child’s formation, this episode offers clarity and hope rooted in the deep message of divine filiation: you are a beloved child of God.    Discussion Points:     How the vision of Opus Dei reframes daily work and study as pathways to holiness.  The connection between childlike trust and spiritual growth.  The concept of gift-mentality and rediscovering wonder in ordinary life.  Study as prayer and service: practical tips for students.  What schools inspired by St. Josemaria try to cultivate: personal mentoring, deep friendship, and family involvement.  How one-on-one relationships reflect the Gospel pattern of encounter, and how Jesus models this personal, loving attention.    Join the Conversation    Do you sometimes feel like holiness is out of reach or only for a select few?   How have you experienced God working through your ordinary, everyday responsibilities?   If you're a parent or educator, how do you help children see their work and life as a path to holiness?  We’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts or questions by emailing us at [insert contact info], or join the discussion on Instagram @growingheartspodcast     Other Resources:  Who is St Josemaría Escriva? What is Opus Dei?  The Heart of Work: St Josemaría’s vision    You can:   Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes  

In this heartwarming and laughter-filled episode, Ponch sits down with two sisters, Lucia "Cia" and Anica, to explore the beautiful (and sometimes chaotic!) reality of growing up in a family of four daughters. Together, they reflect on the shared memories, road trips, dinner table conversations, and life lessons that shaped them.  From pillow forts and Macca’s breakfasts to intentional parenting and the power of saying “I’m sorry,” this episode dives deep into how family culture, communication, and individual respect laid the foundation for strong sibling bonds and personal growth.   Whether you’re a parent, sibling, or just someone reflecting on your own upbringing, this episode will remind you that the little moments—when approached with love, presence, and intention—are what ultimately form the strongest family ties.    Discussion Points:   How everyday moments like family meals, road trips, and kitchen time can become lasting sources of connection and joy.  Exploring how a home filled with four sisters stayed grounded through open dialogue, mutual support, and intentional parenting.  The normal ups and downs of sibling life, and how choosing to say sorry and forgive quickly helps preserve relationships.  Why it matters when children, especially teen, feel their opinions and feelings are genuinely considered—whether it’s choosing a house or navigating social situations.  How doing chores, being relied on, and helping one another builds a sense of ownership and unity within the family.  Celebrating the beauty of unique personalities and different career paths—all nurtured under one roof without comparisons or competition.    Join the Conversation  We’d love to hear from you!  What are some of your favorite childhood memories with your siblings or family? Have you experienced moments when your parents (or you as a parent) made space for dialogue and understanding? How do you encourage individuality while keeping family unity strong?  🎧 Share your thoughts with us on social media or send us a message—we might feature your story in a future episode!  💬 Message us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   📩 Or send us an email at paredacademy@pared.edu.au  👩‍👧‍👦 Know a parent who needs to hear this? Share the episode!    You can:   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes    

In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, we delve into the challenges and opportunities of nurturing faith during the teenage years. Our special guest, Seb James, shares his personal journey and insights from his extensive experience working with teenagers. Seb, a journalist and director of the Nairana Study Centre, discusses the importance of faith, the role of parents and mentors, and how to support teenagers in their spiritual and personal growth.    Discussion Points:  Challenges Teenagers Face Today:  Identity and the need for unconditional love.  Influence of social media, technology, and peer pressure.  Helping young people understand their true identity and worth as children of God.  Role of Parents and Mentors:  Building loving and trusting relationships with teenagers.  Setting boundaries and providing guidance.  Importance of fathers spending quality time with their sons.  Support Systems for Teenagers:  Seb shares the activities and intentional programs offered at Nairana Study Centre, including:  Optimal Work Sessions   Study time   Community Service trips and Local service initiatives   Openness at the Study Centre  Seb acknowledges that some parents may have concerns or questions—and that's a good thing:  “It is okay to have worries and doubts—it is a very natural thing. We want parents to be very concerned; they need to know what we are doing.”  To foster this trust, Nairana organises regular events to engage with parents:  “That’s why in these places we have a lot of days or activities where we get parents to come and we try to explain what we are trying to do. For example, at the end of every school term, we have a night where we explain what Opus Dei is (…)”  For families of all backgrounds:  “We believe also, if you are non-Christian or Catholic, that these activities will help your son grow in virtue, become a man of character.”  He warmly invites parents to engage in person:  “If you have doubts or concerns, please come and visit us. I’m very happy to sit and talk.”    Resources Mentioned  Nairana Study Centre  Mirrabooka Study Centre   Optimal Work    Join the Conversation  We'd love to hear your thoughts on this episode! Share your experiences and insights on nurturing faith during the teenage years. How have you supported your teenagers in their spiritual and personal growth? What challenges have you faced, and what strategies have worked for you? Join the conversation on our social media channels or leave a comment on our website.    You can:   Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes  

Join Tamara El-Rahi, a dedicated mum, mentor, and Tangara alumni, as she shares heartfelt insights on motherhood. She discusses the unexpected shifts of being a mom and the selfless love it fosters. Tamara emphasizes the importance of faith and community in navigating both the joys and challenges of parenting. She also reflects on Mary as an enduring example of grace, encouraging mothers to balance love with self-care. This uplifting conversation offers valuable perspectives for mothers on their unique journeys.

In this episode, we welcome Matt Unicomb to share his powerful conversion story. From growing up in a secular household to discovering the Catholic faith, Matt takes us through the pivotal moments that led him to embrace Christianity. Through intellectual exploration, deep personal reflection, and the influence of his wife, family, and mentors, Matt's journey is one of humility, truth-seeking, and transformation.  Resources Mentioned:  Ross Douthat’s article: A Guide to Finding Faith  St. John Paul II: Veritatis Splendour    Connect with Matt:  Podcast: Human Ecology    You can:   Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes    

Fr. Paul and Fr. Phil delve into the profound connection between a child’s relationship with their parents and their understanding of God. They tackle complex themes like the influence of parental expectations on a child’s self-worth and the importance of creating an expectation-free home. The conversation highlights genuine hope rooted in faith and grace, alongside warnings against false hopes and the dangers of unrealistic dreams. Inspired by the Jubilee Year’s message, they explore how spiritual reflection can nurture trust in divine promises.

Father Phil, a dedicated chaplain, joins Father Paul to unpack the heart’s vital role in faith and emotions. They reflect on Pope Francis' insights, emphasizing the heart as a sacred space for encountering God. With humor and personal anecdotes, they explore the complexities of the heart, the importance of emotional expression in relationships, and how to nurture children’s emotional and spiritual development. Their discussion highlights a profound connection to one’s true self, transcending societal expectations.

In this episode, Father Phil Elias, Chaplain of Redfield College, is joined by Father Paul Muller from Tangara. Together, they dive into the season of Lent, exploring its meaning and how we can prepare our hearts for a deeper encounter with Jesus.  They discuss common ideas like give up or offering up things for Lent and how this seasons isn’t just about sacrifice but about drawing closer to God. Through personal anecdotes—including Father Paul’s love for tennis—they highlight the importance of keeping our focus on Christ, much like keeping an eye on the ball in sports.  Join them as they unpack practical ways to approach fasting, almsgiving, and prayer with joy, ensuring that our Lenten journey leads us to a true transformation of heart.   Other Resources:  Podcast Crash Course Catholicism: Lent and Easter  You can:   Follow us on Instagram @growingheartspodcast   Find out more about the Pared Foundation: visit our website   Discover our schools by visiting: pared.edu.au/openday   Remember to hit SUBSCRIBE/FOLLOW so you don't miss out on any of our future episodes