26. How does Confession Turn Guilt into Love?

In this episode of the Growing Hearts Podcast, Lucia Garcia is joined once again by Fr Sam for a deep dive into the sacrament of confession. Building on last episode’s discussion on forgiveness, Fr Sam helps us understand why confession is not just about “telling God directly,” but about loving Him in the way He asks to be loved. 

 

Discussion Points:

• Why confession is more than a formality — it’s God’s chosen way of healing us. 

• The “battle at the confessional door” and why saying our sins out loud matters. 

• How confession restores us completely — as if the sin never happened. 

• The power of hearing the words of absolution spoken aloud. 

• Practical tips for overcoming hesitation, shame, or nerves when approaching the sacrament. 

• Confession as a doorway to spiritual direction and growing deeper in love with God. 

Fr Sam also shares insights on how going to confession regularly helps us live a freer, humbler, and more merciful life. He reminds us that confession isn’t about perfectionism but about being at peace with who we are, trusting in God’s boundless mercy. 

 

Join the Conversation 

Confession can feel intimidating, but it’s one of the most profound ways we encounter God’s love. As Fr Sam reminds us, God doesn’t just forgive reluctantly — He restores us completely. 

Take a moment to reflect: 

• What holds me back from going to confession more regularly? 

• How have I experienced healing or peace after confession? 

• In what ways can I encourage others to see confession as a gift rather than a burden? 

We’d love to hear your thoughts! Share your reflections with us and join the conversation. 

 

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