Paradigm Shifting Books

Did you know that despite the changing workplace dynamics and technological advancements, many leaders still adhere to outdated "command and control" models?In this episode of Paradigm Shifting Books, hosts Stephen and Britain Covey sit down once again with their father, Stephen M. R. Covey, to dive into his book Trust and Inspire. They explore why so many leaders are still stuck in an outdated “command and control” model, even though the world, the workforce, and the nature of collaboration have changed dramatically.Stephen explains the origins of the Trust and Inspire framework, rooted in his work with The Speed of Trust and inspired by lessons from his father, Stephen R. Covey. He shares the core leadership paradigm shifts that move organizations from micromanaging to unleashing the greatness already inside their people.The conversation tackles common misconceptions, like the idea that Trust and Inspire is “soft” or unrealistic in high-pressure industries. With real-world examples from football coaching, Fortune 500 companies like Microsoft, retail standouts like Wegmans, and even the military, Stephen shows that this leadership style delivers results without sacrificing accountability.One of the big takeaways: leadership isn’t just about getting results, it’s about growing people, building trust, and inspiring them to give their very best. And that’s not just idealistic; it’s a competitive advantage.What We Discuss[00:17] Introduction[02:04] Origins of Trust and Inspire[05:53] Key leadership paradigm shifts[12:02] What Trust and Inspire is and isn’t[15:35] Strong leadership without micromanaging[20:09] Authenticity in leadership styles[22:00] Global response to Trust and Inspire[24:31] From idealism to practical application[29:45] Thriving cultures and unleashing greatnessNotable Quotes[13:35] “Trust and Inspire is a style of leadership that gets results in a way that grows people and inspires trust.” — Stephen M. R. Covey[16:06] “A Trust and Inspire leader can be strong without being forceful. They can be demanding without being demeaning.” — Stephen M. R. Covey[20:10] “The key thing is I see the greatness inside of people. I try to unleash it, but that might include being demanding.” — Stephen M. R. Covey[29:55] “Inspiring is learnable as a skill, that's like a paradigm shift.” — Stephen M. R. CoveyResourcesParadigm Shifting BooksPodcastInstagram YouTube BooksTrust and Inspire by Stephen M. R. CoveyThe SPEED of Trust by Stephen M. R. CoveyThe 8th Habit by Stephen R. CoveyStephen M. R. CoveyLinkedInInstagramBritain CoveyLinkedIn InstagramStephen H. CoveyLinkedInX

Dive into the powerful concepts behind execution beyond just willpower. Discover how focusing on what truly matters and using structured systems can transform both professional and personal realms. Hear relatable stories about sales teams and NFL strategies that illustrate the importance of clear scoreboards for motivation. Learn how to tackle life's chaotic challenges by applying simple principles effectively. One standout tip? Treat an area of your life that feels chaotic with the same care as an ICU patient for transformative results.

Discover the art of navigating tough conversations with ease. The hosts explore how avoiding crucial talks can harm relationships and organizations. Learn why addressing concerns promptly is vital to reducing emotional tension. They break down the three essential phases of effective discussions and highlight the importance of emotional control. Special insights from Joseph Grenny reveal real-life applications that enhance communication and foster growth. Get ready to transform your approach to high-stakes dialogues!

In a world that glorifies talent and quick wins, this episode of Paradigm Shifting Books offers a refreshing take on what true success requires. Stephen and Britain Covey revisit Angela Duckworth’s Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance, exploring how real achievement isn’t about being born gifted; it’s about loving what you do enough to keep showing up.Through personal stories, from NFL training to parenting challenges, they unpack Duckworth’s core message: grit is the blend of long-term passion and perseverance. It’s not about grinding for the sake of it, but about aligning your effort with what matters most.They challenge the myth of talent, reflect on how passion develops gradually through exploration, and offer honest insights about raising resilient kids in a world that wants to cushion every fall. They also explore how grit doesn’t diminish happiness; it deepens it. When your effort aligns with your values, fulfillment follows.Whether you’re navigating your own career path, helping your kids build resilience, or simply trying to stay consistent with your goals, this episode will shift how you think about success. Grit isn’t just about surviving the hard days; it’s about being fueled by purpose through all of them. Tune in and discover what grit really looks like in action.What We Discuss[00:00:02] Introduction[00:01:31] Redefining grit: Passion and perseverance[00:05:27] Developing passion over time[00:10:55] The romance and reality of talent[00:14:44] Effort vs. talent at the highest levels[00:18:47] Fixed traits vs. malleable qualities[00:24:16] Parenting tips for grit: Letting kids struggle[00:29:17] Grit and happiness: Avoiding burnout[00:32:13] Living with integrity and alignmentNotable Quotes[01:31] “I define grit as the combination of perseverance and passion for long-term goals. It's not just about brute force; it's more about loving what you do for a very long time.” — Angela Duckworth[05:27] “The development of a passion is probably a better way to phrase this process than the discovery of a passion. Most of us grow into, develop, mature, and evolve into our eventual passions.” — Angela Duckworth[14:17] “So much of our success in life is really about what we do and not about what we were born with. It's the long, hard road to climb, but that's the truth of it.” — Angela Duckworth[29:49] “Happiness and grit are compatible. The moments in my life where I have felt the most good are when everything is lined up, that what I do well is good for others.” — Angela DuckworthResourcesParadigm Shifting BooksPodcastInstagram YouTube Britain CoveyLinkedIn InstagramStephen H. CoveyLinkedInMentioned Grit: The Power of Passion and Perseverance by Angela DuckworthWritings of Epictetus (Ancient Roman Stoic Philosopher)

In this episode, Stephen and Britain Covey dive into Getting Things Done (GTD) by David Allen, a groundbreaking book that redefines productivity. They explore how GTD isn’t just about checking off tasks but about creating a trusted system to free your mind, reduce stress, and focus on what truly matters.  Stephen shares his personal connection with David Allen, having worked closely with him early in his career. Together, they unpack the core principles of GTD, from "appropriate engagement" to the five-step workflow, and how these concepts can transform your work, relationships, and daily life.  Through engaging storytelling and practical insights, this episode challenges the traditional view of productivity and offers a paradigm shift for managing your mind and tasks with clarity. Let's jump in!What We Discuss[00:00] Introduction[05:44] Appropriate engagement: clear mind ⇒ full presence[09:13] Structure × freedom on the playing field[13:15] GTD as an “installed thought-process” for teams[17:37] The 5 steps: Capture · Clarify · Organize · Reflect · Engage[25:36] Next-action thinking stops mental “open loops”[28:52] Procrastination: signal of high stakes, not laziness[32:59] Paradigm shifts: presence over productivity & minds for ideasNotable Quotes[05:44] “The methodology is about being appropriately engaged with your life… Are you appropriately engaged with your cat? …with your career and your future?” — David Allen[07:05] “Productivity has a lot of baggage: work harder, sweat harder, clock more hours… Real productivity is doing what clears your mind so you can stay focused and present.” — David Allen[19:15] “Your brain is a crappy office—it can juggle about four things before it’s hijacked by the latest and loudest.” — David Allen[25:36] “If you haven’t nailed the next physical, visible action, you haven’t finished thinking—so your mind keeps looping: What about the Saturday meeting? The cat food?” — David AllenResourcesParadigm Shifting BooksPodcastInstagram YouTube BooksGetting Things Done by David AllenDeep Work — Cal NewportFour Thousand— Oliver BurkemanDavid AllenWebsiteBritain CoveyLinkedIn InstagramStephen H. CoveyLinkedIn

In this episode, Stephen and Britain Covey spotlight one of the most transformational ideas from The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Habit 1: Be Proactive. Featuring rare, archival audio from Stephen R. Covey himself, this episode explores the foundational mindset behind personal growth, empowerment, and leadership.Stephen R. Covey’s voice rings through decades to offer one of the most important paradigm shifts: that between what happens to us and how we respond, there lies our ultimate freedom. With stories from Viktor Frankl to frontline caregivers to corporate leaders, the episode shows how taking responsibility isn’t just a behavioral shift, it’s a life-altering lens for viewing the world.Whether you’re navigating career setbacks, relational challenges, or societal pressures, this episode will help you reclaim your agency and expand your influence.What We Discuss[00:00] Introduction to power principle episodes[01:09] The legacy of Stephen R. Covey and Habit 1.[03:03] Viktor Frankl and the last human freedom[07:26] Why taking ownership is empowering, not daunting[08:56] Circle of Concern vs. Circle of Influence[10:19] The rise of Ben: How one proactive employee changed everythingNotable Quotes"Between stimulus and response is a space. In that space lies our power and our freedom to choose our response." — Stephen R. Covey"Your life is a product of your values, not your feelings... your decisions, not your conditions." — Stephen R. Covey"Proactive people work on the inner circle. Reactive people focus on the outer circle." — Stephen R. CoveyResourcesParadigm Shifting BooksPodcastInstagram YouTube BooksThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R, CoveyBritain CoveyLinkedIn InstagramStephen H. CoveyLinkedIn

In this episode, Stephen and Britain Covey revisit a modern classic: Essentialism by Greg McKeown. They dive into the core message of doing “less but better,” exploring how prioritizing what truly matters can lead to a more meaningful, purpose-driven life.Stephen reflects on his friendship with Greg McKeown, sharing stories that highlight the man behind the message. Together, the hosts explore how essentialism isn't just about time management; it's a fundamental paradigm shift. They unpack how this mindset applies in careers, early adulthood, leadership, and even family life.Through thoughtful storytelling and personal insight, this episode challenges listeners to rethink the constant pursuit of more and instead, embrace the transformative power of intentional living.What We Discuss[00:02] Introduction to essentialism[02:26] Greg's personal story that gave birth to essentialism[04:40] Principle of prioritizing your life[08:09] Life as a diamond mine[09:11] Less but better[13:04] Essentialism as a paradigm and not a hack[17:21] Essentialism for early career[21:22] Detecting life's mission[25:21] Reflection and experience[27:28] Prioritization and controlNotable Quotes[03:54] “If you don't prioritize your life, someone else will.” — Greg McKeown[08:04] “Life is much more akin to a diamond mine where it's not about how much stuff you get out. It's whether you can identify those few things that are exceptionally valuable.” — Greg McKeown[13:04] “If you try to do it all, all the time for everyone, you don't get it all. You get exhausted, you get burned out.” — Greg McKeown[13:24] “The essentialist is waking up in a way, a little bit like a Matrix moment, but you just wake up and you go, what? This isn't how it works at all.” — Greg McKeown[21:30] “There is an essential and unique mission in life that needs to be detected, not just designed, not just selected.” — Greg McKeownResourcesParadigm Shifting BooksPodcastInstagram YouTube BooksEssentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeownBritain CoveyLinkedIn InstagramStephen H. CoveyLinkedIn

In this special episode, Stephen and Britain Covey sit down with their father, Stephen M. R. Covey, to explore the real origin story behind The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey. From childhood family councils to a 20-year publishing journey, they uncover the behind-the-scenes moments that shaped one of the most influential personal development books of all time.The episode dives deep into how the habits evolved over time, why paradigms matter more than behavior, and how primary greatness, not just success, leads to lasting fulfillment. With heartfelt stories, insightful breakdowns, and meaningful listener questions, this episode brings the 7 Habits to life in a way you’ve never heard before. Let's dive in!What We Discuss[03:01] How the 7 Habits began as stand-alone principles[07:13] How the habit names and structure evolved[12:02] Why the 7 Habits took over 20 years to develop[16:08] Choosing purpose over profit: Stephen M. R. Covey’s career decision[27:11] Private victory as the key to public victory[29:38] Mental resilience in competitive environments[32:46] The hardest habit to live consistently[37:16] What would the 8th habit be?[39:19] Are the 7 Habits still relevant today?[57:28] Practical applications to live more effectivelyNotable Quotes[04:47] “You have to decide what your highest priorities are and have the courage pleasantly, smilingly, unapologetically to say no to other things.” — Stephen H. Covey[20:53] “Secondary greatness is success. Primary greatness is character.” — Stephen M. R. Covey[25:21] “Peace doesn’t come from accumulation. It comes from contribution.” — Britain CoveyResourcesParadigm Shifting BooksPodcastInstagram YouTube BooksThe 8th Habit by Stephen R. CoveyThe 7 Habits of Highly Effective People by Stephen R, CoveyStephen M. R. CoveyLinkedIn Britain CoveyLinkedIn InstagramStephen H. CoveyLinkedIn

In an exciting relaunch, hosts share their journey from Super Bowl glory to launching a transformed podcast. Britain humorously recalls a childhood project featuring Flat Stanley, while both delve into the timeless wisdom of Stephen R. Covey. They explore how shifting perspectives can lead to life-changing insights and commit to revisiting 15 impactful books for personal growth. With a promise of structured conversations, listeners can look forward to a deeper dive into transformative literature and practical wisdom.

Unlocking Confidence and Presence with Amy CuddyIn this powerful episode of Paradigm Shifting Books, Stephen and Britain Covey sit down with Amy Cuddy, renowned social psychologist and author of Presence: Bringing Your Boldest Self to Your Biggest Challenges. Together, they explore the transformative concept of presence and how it enables us to show up authentically and confidently in life’s most demanding moments.Amy shares fascinating insights from her research, including how body language and self-affirmation techniques can help individuals tap into their most empowered selves—even in high-stakes situations like job interviews, public speaking, or competitive sports. Britain as an NFL Punt Returner talks through how Amy’s work has been directly applicable to his role as an NFL player. The conversation dives into the science behind power posing, the profound impact of aligning with your core values, and how to overcome self-doubt and imposter syndrome.From practical strategies for building confidence to stories of real-world application, this episode offers listeners actionable tools to cultivate personal power and authenticity. Whether you’re preparing for a pivotal presentation, navigating a challenging conversation, or striving to perform under pressure, Amy’s insights will inspire you to approach life’s challenges with greater courage and connection.Tune in for an engaging discussion that’s as practical as it is empowering, and discover how to bring your boldest self to your biggest challenges.00:00 Introduction to Presence05:10 Applying Presence in Various Scenarios10:39 Preparation, Confidence & Self-Affirmation30:38 Dealing with Hyper-Awareness and External Judgement36:18 Exploring the Paradox of Nerves and Performance39:06 The Importance of Personal Power46:07 Power Posing: The Science and Application55:02 Practical Tips for Cultivating Personal Power01:03:13 The Broader Impact of Confidence and Self-Doubt01:07:53 Affirming Others and Building Presence01:12:30 Final Thoughts and Practical Advice***If you like this podcast and the books we discuss it would mean a lot if you left a positive rating and review on Apple Podcasts ;)Follow Paradigm Shifting Books On:YouTubeInstagramFacebook