

Why Knowing Who You Are is the Key to High Performance (Part 1) with Dr. Craig Manning
In this episode of Paradigm Shifting Books, hosts Stephen and Britain Covey begin a powerful two-part conversation with Dr. Craig Manning, author of The Fearless Mind. Part 1 unpacks why knowing who you truly are and unapologetically embracing your strengths is the foundation of consistent high performance.
Dr. Manning shares his journey from athlete to performance psychologist, explains why he reframed “high performance” as human performance, and reveals how to build skills around your unique strengths instead of chasing someone else’s path. From the science of confidence to stories of elite athletes like Giannis Antetokounmpo scoring 50 points in the NBA Finals, this conversation makes mental performance training both practical and inspiring.
The episode also highlights how the same principles apply outside of sports, in business, leadership, and everyday life. Because at its core, high performance isn’t about outcomes, it’s about identity.
If you’ve ever felt the weight of comparison, pressure from authority figures, or uncertainty about your strengths, this episode offers a new framework to unlock your potential.
What We Discuss
- [00:00] Introduction
- [01:27] Why Dr. Manning wrote The Fearless Mind and how it began as a personal project
- [08:18] Giannis Antetokounmpo’s “unapologetically ourselves” mindset before scoring 50 in the NBA Finals
- [11:19] Why comparison leads to insecurity and how to break free from it
- [22:32] Generational shifts: why Gen Z thinks differently and how collaboration beats hierarchy
- [30:39] Why trying to be someone you’re not sabotages performance
- [32:05] The power of owning your lane in a collaborative, commitment-based culture
Notable Quotes
- [00:08:54] “When you know who you are and you trust yourself, you don’t care what others think—you just perform.” — Dr. Craig Manning
- [00:11:37] “Comparison leads to insecurities. Insecurities lead to needing approval. And needing approval destroys confidence.” — Dr. Craig Manning
- [00:14:42] “The key to success is not being a stereotype. It’s being the best version of yourself.” — Dr. Craig Manning
- [00:22:07] “Your identity is here in the present. Too many people live out in the future, and that future never arrives.” — Dr. Craig Manning
Resources
Paradigm Shifting Books
Book
Dr. Craig Manning
Britain Covey
Stephen H. Covey