

Dear Gabby
Gabby Bernstein
Dear Gabby is a weekly show where #1 New York Times bestselling author and international speaker, Gabby Bernstein, offers up real-time coaching, straight talk and BIG LOVE. Episodes include unscripted Q&A sessions where she coaches listeners through life-changing transformations, plus free-flowing conversations about personal growth and spirituality with unique and inspiring guests.
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Jul 18, 2022 • 39min
Release Perfectionism to Attract More
Does perfectionism get in the way of creating what you want in your life? On today’s Dear Gabby I’ll teach you how to release the need to be perfect so that you can manifest more. This radical shift will create amazing momentum in every area of your life—and I’ll show you how! I’ll teach you to embrace the power of imperfection. When you learn to live this way, you’ll show up for your life with a more positive attitude, higher vibes …. and a whole lot of love. The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode. Want even more support? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported and inspired every day. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations, live group meditations, community connection and so much more. Plus, I lead a different 21-day challenge each quarter, to help you elevate every area of your life! Click here to join. https://bit.ly/3o4tFJR May Cause Miracles is a 40-day guidebook with subtle shifts that will lead to radical change. It’s the perfect book to accompany this episode and help you deepen your practice of focusing on progress over perfection. https://bit.ly/3Ryp941 Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace also celebrates progress not perfection. It took years of deep spiritual and therapeutic work to wake up every day without anxiety—and it was worth the journey! The book is filled with actionable tools you can use to overcome your fears, too. I hope you’ll take the Happy Days journey with me. You can pick up a copy of the book here or grab the audiobook here. https://bit.ly/3uRXdOG For more information on EMDR therapy, listen to my interview with my own EMDR therapist, Tammy Valicenti. https://bit.ly/3AUkumM If you feel you need additional support, please check out this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3OdrH4m This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/deargabby. Your new favorite shoes are waiting. Discover the versatile styles you can wear absolutely anywhere and get $20 off your first purchase at rothys.com/GABBY. Evlo usually offers a 14-day trial but is extending the free trial to 30 days for our listeners with the code GABBY at checkout. Visit evlofitness.com to learn more and try their membership for 30 days with the code GABBY. Workout smarter, not harder. Visit athleticgreens.com/gabby to take ownership over your health and pick up the ultimate daily nutritional insurance! Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 15, 2022 • 44min
4 Ways to Boost Your Confidence
Do you think you have to be perfect to be confident? Think again! In this bonus episode of Dear Gabby I’m sharing a live talk on confidence. It will help you to stop trying to be perfect and manifest more by just being YOU. I’ll help you see and appreciate yourself for everything you are, express your authentic truth and never, ever sweat the small stuff. The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode: Want even more support? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported and inspired every day. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations, community connection and so much more. Plus, it’s easy to access on your phone, computer or tablet. Click here to join. https://bit.ly/3PdqImm In this talk I reference my new book, Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace. This is the most important book I’ve written to date, and I hope you’ll read it, if you haven’t already taken the Happy Days journey. This audiobook is now available too. https://bit.ly/3ILLDKH If you’ve ever been curious about becoming a health coach or a wellness entrepreneur; if you've been frustrated by some Western medicine options in the past; or if you just want to do a deep dive into your own well-being, the Institute for Integrative Nutrition offers an online training program that could be a great place to start! To access a free online sample class and learn more about their current special offer, including how you can save up to 35% on tuition, visit this link. As a Dear Gabby listener, you’ll also receive a bonus gift package when you enroll. http://www.deargabby.com/iin If you feel you need additional support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3yJFLwQ This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Stay well fueled this summer with Splendid Spoon. Get started today and save on an entire week of ready-made, plant-based meals. Just go to SplendidSpoon.com/GABBY for $50 off your first box when you subscribe. Exclusively for Dear Gabby listeners, Feel Free Botanic Tonics is offering a 40% off discount on your first purchase just use promo code GABBY at checkout. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Jul 11, 2022 • 57min
Stuck in Fight, Flight or Freeze Mode? Here’s How to Escape It—Big Talk with “The Holistic Psychologist” Nicole LePera
Nicole LePera, known as 'The Holistic Psychologist,' joins Dear Gabby to discuss settling the nervous system, confronting shame, creating lasting change, and the importance of understanding the brain and attachment styles.

Jul 4, 2022 • 32min
How I Freed My Body from Trauma: The Untold Story from Happy Days
Trauma doesn’t only affect our mind. We all have emotional disturbances that can get frozen in our body, manifesting as back pain, a locked jaw, etc. But when we can uncover the feelings beneath the physical pain, we can free what’s frozen—and experience great physical and emotional relief. Listen to this episode of Dear Gabby to hear more on this topic, and to hear me read the missing story from Happy Days. The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode: The story I share on today’s Episode of the Dear Gabby podcast is from my latest book Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace. If you’ve read the book, you can revisit Chapter 8 to revisit the lesson about freeing what’s been frozen in your body and mind. And if you haven’t read Happy Days yet, consider this a sign! This is your openhearted invite to take the journey toward inner peace with me. I’ll guide you every step of the way, and open you up to body-based therapies and more. https://bit.ly/3y4ZPtk If you’re interested in learning more about EMDR therapy, check out my Big Talk with my EMDR therapist, Tammy Valicenti. Tammy has a beautiful ability to demystify this life-changing technique, and she shares instructions for finding an EMDR practitioner near you. https://bit.ly/3bD8Kut I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported and inspired every day. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations and community connection. Plus, you’ll get access to hundreds of hours of content about manifesting, abundance and more. Take your spiritual practice to the next level and sign up for the Miracle Membership! https://bit.ly/3yzJP3Q You can find a link to the binaural-beats playlist that I reference in this episode here. If you feel you need additional support, please consult this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3nxpOVn This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/deargabby. Go to Hungryroot.com/GABBY, to get 30% off your first delivery and get your free veggies. Evlo usually offers a 14-day trial but is extending the free trial to 30 days for our listeners with the code GABBY at checkout. Visit evlofitness.com to learn more and try their membership for 30 days with the code GABBY. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 27, 2022 • 55min
How to Heal Childhood Wounds and Reparent Yourself— Big Talk with Dr. Dan Siegel
On today’s Dear Gabby, you’ll learn how to overcome childhood wounds and soothe and care for yourself as an adult. I’m sitting down with the revered psychiatrist Dr. Dan Siegel. Dr. Siegel’s books have miraculously shifted my relationship with my son—and my relationship with myself. Today’s podcast will teach you how to reparent yourself. The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode: My guest on today’s Dear Gabby is Dr. Dan Siegel! Dr Siegel is a clinical professor of psychiatry at the UCLA School of Medicine and executive director of the Mindsight Institute. He’s co-authored some of my favorite parenting books, including No-Drama Discipline: The Whole-Brain Way to Calm the Chaos and Nurture Your Child’s Developing Mind and The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired. To learn more about Dr. Siegel’s work, visit his website. Want more coaching from me? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported and inspired every day. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations, community connection and so much more. Now is the best time to join because the brand new Body Love Challenge kicks off on July 1, and it’s exclusively available to Miracle Members! Click here to join the membership and get 21 proven ways to feel peaceful, safe and free in your body. https://bit.ly/3blwlQ9 Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace is my story of reparenting myself. In the book, I explain how I learned to let Self lead my inner system. https://bit.ly/3HPJJYW If you feel you need additional support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/39Qls8J This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Your new favorite shoes are waiting. Discover the versatile styles you can wear absolutely anywhere and get $20off your first purchase at rothys.com/GABBY. Athletic Greens is going to give you a FREE 1 year supply of immune-supporting Vitamin D AND 5 FREE travel packs with your first purchase of AG1. All you have to do is visit athleticgreens.com/gabby. For listeners of the show, Calm is offering an exclusive offer of 40% off a Calm Premium subscription at CALM.COM/deargabby Visit evlofitness.com to learn more and try their membership for 30 days with the code GABBY. Workout smarter, not harder. Save fifteen dollars off your first visit with an Apostrophe provider at Apostrophe.com/GABBY when you use our code: GABBY. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 24, 2022 • 41min
How to Love Your Body
Do you ever attack your body with unloving thoughts or actions? In this bonus episode of Dear Gabby, I’m sharing my live talk on developing a loving and spiritual relationship with your body. I’ll guide you to witness the ways in which you could be abusing your body with negative thoughts or behaviors. Then, I’ll teach you the simple mindset shift that will miraculously transform the way you see your body—and your whole being. The following are helpful resources and books I mention within the episode: Want more coaching from me? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported and inspired every day. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations, and so much more. And this is the best time to join! We kick off the Body Love Challenge on July 1. This challenge is like nothing I’ve ever done before, and it will radically transform your relationship with your body. You don’t want to miss it! Click here to join.https://bit.ly/3nb985M In this episode of Dear Gabby, I reference my New York Times bestseller May Cause Miracles. This book will teach you how to shift your thoughts to experience miraculous change in all areas of your life, including the way that you perceive your body. https://bit.ly/3Obuxb3 My newest book Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace shares the story of how I recovered from trauma using spiritual and therapeutic tools. I used several body-based healing practices on my journey to freedom and peace. If you’re interested in this topic, check out Chapter 7, “Hiding Behind the Body.” https://bit.ly/3yeiT9K If you feel you need additional support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here! https://bit.ly/3xTblYu This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Go to WHOOP.com and use code GABBY at checkout to save 15% today. Start a new healthy habit today. Visit seed.com/DEARGABBY and use code DEARGABBY to redeem 20% off your first month of Seed's DS-01™ Daily Synbiotic. Exclusively for Dear Gabby listeners, Feel Free Botanic Tonics is offering a 40% off discount on your first purchase - just use promo code GABBY at checkout. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 20, 2022 • 46min
How to Tell the Truth: A Spiritual Guide to Radical Honesty
Today’s Dear Gabby tackles a BIG topic: How to tell the truth! Did you know that there’s a way to be radically honest, have difficult conversations AND remain calm and compassionate? Follow Gabby’s guidance for telling the truth in a way that will elevate your relationships and make you a far more effective communicator. The following are helpful resources and books I mention in the episode: Want more of my coaching? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice that you can stick to. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations and so much more. Plus, Miracle Members have access to my archives, which has hundreds of hours of content. AND I’ll take you through a 21-day challenge each quarter! On July 1, I’m kicking off my BRAND NEW Body Love Challenge. It’s exclusively available to Miracle Members, and you do not want to miss this. Click here to join. https://bit.ly/3QpUiG4 If you feel you need additional support, please refer to this list of safety, recovery and mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3NYtEmf On this episode of the Dear Gabby Podcast, I referenced the Spirit Junkie Masterclass. This is the ultimate 8-week training on how to confidently pursue your passion. I’ll teach you how to get crystal clear on your purpose and infuse spirituality into whatever kind of work you do in the world. (I’ve trained everyone from lawyers to health coaches and spiritual teachers!) Register now. https://bit.ly/3NYhFVr On today’s episode of Dear Gabby, I mentioned two of my books. The Universe Has Your Back shares my methods for tapping into spiritual guidance. And in Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace, I offer support to help you feel safe as you tap into your truth. This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey toward inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Our listeners get 10% off their first month at BetterHelp.com/deargabby. Sign up today at butcherbox.com/GABBY and use code GABBY to get 1 pack of free bacon in EVERY box for the life of your membership PLUS $10 off your first order. And right now, you can get 15% off both when you go to JustThriveHealth.com and use code: GABBY at checkout or click here for an automatic discount: https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/Gabby Eat well and enjoy more of your summer with Splendid Spoon. Get started today and save on an entire week of ready-made, plant-based meals. Just go to SplendidSpoon.com/GABBY for $50 off your first box when you subscribe. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 13, 2022 • 32min
How to Tell The Universe What You Want & Manifest Your Desires
This episode of the Dear Gabby podcast will teach you how to communicate with the Universe so you can manifest exactly what you desire! The KEY to manifesting is to become clear on what you want—and this is a step that many people overlook. Press play. I’ll help you get crystal-clear on your desires and manifest with ease. The following are helpful resources and books I mention within the episode: Want even more support? I created the Miracle Membership so I can be your spiritual coach! On Dear Gabby I get to coach people on all kinds of topics. Inside the membership, I take that coaching to the next level. Members get weekly lessons, meditations, community support, and an awesome challenge each quarter! Now is a better time to join than ever, because my 21-Day Body Love Challenge is coming up in July. It’s exclusively available to members, so you’ll have to join if you want in. Click here to join. https://bit.ly/3tpWQKj In this episode of the Dear Gabby podcast, I reference three of my books. Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace, shows the profound impact of putting your own recovery first. When you do this, your life can become a happy dream—and I mean that. I also talk about two of my best books for manifesting: Super Attractor and The Universe Has Your Back! If you need more support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3NJjvtd This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Go to WHOOP.com and use code GABBY to save 15% and get free shipping automatically applied today. Ready to shake up your protein Ritual? My listeners get 10% off during your first 3 months at ritual.com/DEARGABBY. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 10, 2022 • 48min
The Untapped Secret to Your Power, & Sex Appeal
In this bonus episode I share a live talk from 2011 I’ll teach you to connect to your most untapped resource;. — just by being you! In this live talk, I’ll reveal the exact steps you can take to recognize who you really are (instead of who you think you should be) so you can live with more confidence and power. When you unleash this untapped energy you become a Super Attractor! The following are helpful resources and books I mention within the episode: If you want more guidance on fearlessly honoring your truth, check out my latest book Happy Days: The Guided Path from Trauma to Profound Freedom and Inner Peace. This will help you honor your true life story, recognize that you are not a victim … and believe in happy days ahead. https://bit.ly/39dXEeJ Want even more support? I created the Miracle Membership to help you design a spiritual practice you can stick to—so you can feel connected, supported and inspired every day. Each week I deliver brand new workshops, guided meditations, live group meditations, community connection, and so much more. Plus, it’s easy to access on your phone, computer or tablet. Click here to join. https://bit.ly/3NR4W6U If you feel you need more support, please refer to this list of mental health resources. I’m proud of you for being here. https://bit.ly/3aWoh8x This podcast is intended to educate, inspire and support you on your personal journey towards inner peace. I am not a psychologist or a medical doctor and do not offer any professional health or medical advice. If you are suffering from any psychological or medical conditions, please seek help from a qualified health professional. Go to WHOOP.com and use code "GABBY" to save 15% and get free shipping automatically applied today. Produced by Dear Media. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jun 6, 2022 • 37min
How to Process Unresolved Memories & Emotions with EMDR
Tammy Valicenti, EMDR therapist, joins the podcast to demystify EMDR therapy. They discuss the healing power of EMDR, processing unresolved memories and emotions, big T-traumas and little T-traumas, resourcing and manifesting in EMDR therapy, and the power of connection in healing.