
Reconcilable Differences
John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.
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Nov 12, 2022 • 1h 44min
195: Sloppy Focus
Trade-offs, risks, and feature requests relating to the next generation of panopticons.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with about ten minutes of very useful nail clipper talk.
Up next, lots of good listener Follow-Up on the origins of CSS color names, how to pause a TikTok with your meat fingers, plus revealing some scalable methods for finding free money from the government.
Next, comes some FU on Lifestreams that somehow kind of becomes the basis for the rest of the episode.
How can we track the stuff that's valuable to us—but also provide the specificity and context needed to annotate that data in a way that makes it actionable?
Then, of course, you wonder about the privacy implications of living in a panopticon. Sure isn't working out too great for the Uyghurs. Won't somebody please think of the children?
The digital divide is real, but you may not realize how real until you watch someone else use a computer. Secret gestures, powerful browser plug-ins, and even general internet hygiene are still anything but evenly distributed.
Finally, John shows Merlin how to fix his notifications even as he continues to refuse a very generous job offer.
(Recorded Thursday, November 3, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Oct 28, 2022 • 1h 30min
194: Hard Four
John has been looking into the unclaimed property of Massachusetts, but Merlin always assumes everything like this is some kind of jam-up.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with John's strident observation of pre-show hygiene, and Merlin struggles to know his Targaryens from his Velaryons and his Valyrians. Merlin has a lot of problem with twins, and John mourns this new generation's lack of respect for proper media queuing. As ever, Merlin's demos are the worst.
There's some brief confusion about 80s music, and, even though he's drop-tuned, Merlin plays John a nice "FMaj7" chord. John claims to have no interest in Merlin making him a mixtape.
In Follow-Up, John interrogates Merlin about a new domain name. John pushes some commits to Merlin, as various tool tip options are workshopped in real time lol.
Merlin offers John a prestigious new position, because he's got a bunch of computer problems to put him on. John demurs.
This somehow leads to a surprisingly deep discussion of Letterboxd and the inevitable return of the evergreen topic of ratings and reviews. John and Merlin do not want to host their own email.
In the (101 minute!) members-only bonus show, John has real-time Letterboxd homework for Merlin, and your hosts consider what it will be like to pick through their digital lives after they die.
And, finally, yes: John has even more updates on his seemingly endless journey towards "home improvement."
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(Recorded on Tuesday, October 18, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Oct 14, 2022 • 1h 32min
193: The Wrong Helen
John aggressively interrogates a new Secret Weird Thing Merlin Does.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with an ambitious proposal to recognize outstanding work by team members and keep the relationship fresh.
After ticking an item off of his "queue," John leads a nominally rapid-fire round highlighted by a controversial new Secret Weird Things People Do.
Things wrap with a provocative Dog Update in which John leverages the love of a British TV show to re-home a new friend with Merlin's family. Merlin identifies the wrong Helen.
(Recorded on Tuesday, October 4, 2022)
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Music: Merlin Mann
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Sep 30, 2022 • 1h 29min
192: The End Table is Not Your Enemy
This week, Merlin asks whether John is inoculated against stress.
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Links and Show Notes: John has concerns about why his fans are spinning up, and Merlin interrogates his recent obsession with the previous vice president.
Once the usual arguments about wording and meaning have been (mostly) settled, numerous angles are explored. Including an exploration of one of life's thorniest differences to reconcile: how much can I be "how I am" with other people?
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(Recorded on Tuesday, September 20, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. Theory of Mind - Internet Encyclopedia of PhilosophyTheory of Mind is the branch of cognitive science that investigates how we ascribe mental states to other persons and how we use the states to explain and predict the actions of those other persons.
Perfectionism and the Performance of OrganizingRevising a book (or any piece of writing) is about exerting control and imposing order over the first messy draft. But it’s also about running up against the brick walls of your talent and realizing just how much of the success of the book you absolutely cannot control. So it’s not a huge surprise that in between revising bursts, I’ve been organizing the shit out of my house.
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Sep 17, 2022 • 1h 36min
191: Love and Cleaning
Apple announces some new products, London Bridge is down, and your hosts continue their tour of mini-topics.
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Links and Show Notes: John learns a little about a legendary Hollywood producer, and Merlin may not know how to do his job.
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
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Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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GitHub for English teachers – Jon UdellThis week I tried a different approach when editing a document written by a colleague. Again the goal was not only to produce an edited version, but also to narrate the edits in a didactic way. In this case I tried bending GitHub to my purpose.
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Sep 2, 2022 • 1h 22min
190: Three Whys Later
We learn why John is still behind on his podcasts as well as why Merlin liked it better when podcasts were less…"professional."
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with a brief debate on whether using things wrong makes you a hacker.
In Follow-Up, John has updates on that announcement about dropping a device in a plane seat, and Merlin expresses skepticism about announcements in general.
Then, there's some updates related to the prior discussion of performance reviews. Believe it or not, quantifying the unquantifiable is even more difficult than it sounds.
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(Recorded on Tuesday, August 23, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Playing God in Yellowstone: The Destruction of America's First National Park

Aug 19, 2022 • 1h 40min
189: The Cutting Edge of Technological Grievance
Your hosts dig in to the continuing saga of John’s TV.
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John also shares his Vacation Results—alongside some anthropological observations on the state of air travel in 2022.
(Recorded August 9, 2022)
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Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
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Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. I Just Want My TV Legs to Actually Work - WIREDAs TVs get bigger, it’s gotten more complicated to set them up. One simple fix could have you streaming Netflix in no time.
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Aug 6, 2022 • 1h 5min
188: Ten-Year Cleanse
This week finds both John and Merlin helping things leave their house.
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(Recorded on Tuesday, July 19, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
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Music: Merlin Mann
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Jul 22, 2022 • 1h 31min
187: Beauty Fades
John is discovering life with SwiftUI to be a bit of a drag.
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Links and Show Notes: Once John is ready, things kick off with a discussion of Merlin's increasing asymmetry.
Follow-up concerns pinned messages. Merlin thinks Marco still doesn't understand what a priority is, and John thinks skeuomorphism doesn't mean what it used to mean.
John graciously saves Merlin's sanity, and then your hosts express skepticism about the wisdom of offering subscriptions in premium automobiles.
As an extended mini-topic, you hosts talk about the recent FX show, The Bear. John points out that Merlin is still misquoting Billy Joel. But, so close.
(Recorded on Tuesday, July 12, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
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Jul 8, 2022 • 1h 31min
186: QD-OLED Vaccine
Is it the after times yet?
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with Merlin proposing a new title for himself which John immediately vetoes for cause.
In Follow-Up, John claims that he knows what month it is, plus there's some promising new data on John's TV project.
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Is Covid "over" to a point where we can feel good about making plans and…doing things?
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(Recorded on Tuesday, June 28, 2022)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
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