
Reconcilable Differences
John Siracusa and Merlin Mann try to figure out exactly how they got this way. Hosted by Merlin Mann and John Siracusa.
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Aug 19, 2023 • 2h 4min
215: They Did Start Tomorrow
The podcast discusses frustrating experiences with unresponsive tradespeople, the challenges of home repairs and renovations, and the difficulties in finding quality painters. They also explore their journey with AI technology, focusing on ChatGPT and generative AI. The hosts discuss the complexity of Google and the challenges of finding accurate information online. They touch on trust and verification in search engines and code, and their frustration with plugins in CSS cascade. Additionally, they explore the power of synthesizing data with Google Sheets and the potential risks of relying too much on technology.

Aug 4, 2023 • 1h 26min
214: First Farm in New York
Subtitle: An Aunt, An Uncle—Panama!John reports in with his Vacation Results, but he seems reluctant to set Merlin up with his aunt.
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(Recorded on Tuesday, July 25, 2023)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Jul 21, 2023 • 1h 29min
213: Double Crown
Subtitle: Numbers Go UpJohn interrogates the source of Merlin's recent infection.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with an exploration of sharing a mic on-stage and the Battle of Stalingrad. John reminds Merlin he's repeatedly tried to get him into airplane videos.
John's effort to get his username on a new site is being thwarted by a mom who claims to work too hard.
Lemongrab is discussed, and this leads to a real time review of your hosts' avatars on select streaming service. On my account?
Merlin shares that he needs to watch TV with his kid at night in order to feel alive.
A case is made for normalizing rest, and Merlin shares his worst-received onsite corporate visit. John has been lifting very light weights, and Merlin suggests John start really focusing on his core.
There's a brief discussion of Steven Spielberg in general and Jaws in particular. John informs Merlin that he's pronouncing the name of the movie wrong. Merlin teaches John how to pronounce an umlaut, and John reciprocates by explaining the automotive traffic of Long Island.
Unsurprisingly, this leads to yet another discussion of pronunciation, accents, and regional usage. Then, Merlin tells John about a time he barfed jimmies really hard.
(Recorded on Tuesday, July 11, 2023)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Jul 7, 2023 • 1h 37min
212: Green Grow the Onions
Subtitle: Every scallion contains a continuum.John has questions about Merlin's recent Wedding Results.
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Links and Show Notes: A question about question marks becomes a fairly detailed exploration of proper calendar usage and workplace culture. This inexplicably leads to a conversation Merlin recently had about engineering.
John has some Follow-Up on how Vision Pro might handle being used in unusual situations. Casting the right shadow is hard.
Next up, John has questions about Merlin's new interest in onions. Plants are discussed.
For the main topic, John has questions about Merlin's recent Wedding Results. John also tells Merlin things he should have said on other podcasts.
For this month's members-only bonus show, your hosts discuss Spider-Man: Across the Universe (2023).
Also: a surprising amount of R.E.M. talk.
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(Recorded on Tuesday, June 27, 2023)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Jun 23, 2023 • 2h 13min
211: A Very Bad Grayble
As a main topic, your hosts talk about Apple's recent Vision Pro announcement.
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Links and Show Notes: In follow-up, John addresses a question from one of Merlin's co-hosts in which John agrees that Merlin is weird.
Also, there's a new movie that John saw and that Merlin hasn't (at the time of recording), and John wants Merlin to figure out how it lost part of a star on his letter box dee.
(Recorded on Tuesday, June 13, 2023)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Jun 9, 2023 • 1h 33min
210: My Personal Fantasia
Subtitle: Keep the honest people honest.At last, the pop quiz show.
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(Recorded on Tuesday, May 30, 2023)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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ATP #537: Worse Than All of Our ToiletsThe pre-WWDC episode where we do "exit interviews" for all current Apple operating systems.
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May 26, 2023 • 1h 19min
209: Trick Food
Subtitle: John is Merlin's gashapon.How would your hosts approach teaching the other to be them?
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with some sundry food talk. John shows no interest in party-cut pizza or fruit juice concentrates, and Merlin identifies a perplexing class of food that's made of the wrong food.
Follow-up brings updates on how John tries to make his app play nice with macOS weirdness, and there's some important reconsideration regarding what Larry Mullen, Jr. actually said about the location where The King was laid to rest.
Speaking of music, with pretty much zero provocation, Merlin launches into a jeremiad about a pet peeve with bad needle drops. What a waste.
Finally, your hosts talk about the movie, Gattaca (1997). John saw it a long time ago, and Merlin has watched it most of the way through.
John dutifully lays out a bulleted list of items Merlin needs to immediately start changing about himself.
(Recorded on Tuesday, May 16, 2023)
Credits
Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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May 12, 2023 • 1h 34min
208: Spinal Tap with Cowboy Hats
Subtitle: John will live in her backpack like Yoda.For a main topic, John has a new project involving music playlists. Generational divides are identified, and we learn the lengths to which John will go for his ungrateful children.
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Links and Show Notes: Things kick off with Merlin giving John a pop quiz on music and a font. Merlin would also please like a special episode for his birthday.
After an admittedly overdue U2 Tangent, John gives Merlin a pop quiz on what their show is about. Then, Merlin clarifies what John can expect from an omnibus "Before Show" super-episode.
Follow-Up covers John's count of Steam games, much Succession lore, plus you, the listener's, stated position regarding the correct toothbrush water temperature. Also, Merlin has finally rid himself of a problem with a meddlesome dæmon.
Finally, Merlin reveals one of the numerous ways in which he is a terrible liability.
For this month's members-only bonus show, there's more on playlists and disambiguation, with Merlin offering an impassioned paean to the magic of scene naming—including improbable places we might benefit from standardization in the future. Music is so good, you guys.
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(Recorded on Tuesday, May 2, 2023)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Apr 28, 2023 • 1h 46min
207: Between Ridiculous and Nonexistent
Subtitle: One Must Imagine Biff HappyJohn tells Merlin about Steam, and Merlin catches John up about Merlin.
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Links and Show Notes: Merlin explains his laundry number, and John has some quick Follow-Up on bathroom cups.
(Recorded on Monday, April 18, 2023)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
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Apr 14, 2023 • 1h 35min
206: Hand Cuppers & Faucet Slurpers
Subtitle: “I’m Not Worried. I’m Concerned.”What happens in the bathroom can no longer stay in the bathroom.
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(Recorded on Monday, April 3, 2023)
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Audio Editor: Jim Metzendorf
Admin Assistance: Kerry Provenzano
Music: Merlin Mann
The Suits: Stephen Hackett, Myke Hurley
Get an ad-free version of the show, plus a monthly extended episode. How To Pronounce Slainte - YouTube Florence Y'all Water Tower - Wikipedia Toilet seat example of Secret Weird Things People Do Poll: Do you have a cup in the bathroom? Poll: For non-cuppers only Non-Cupper Definition of Terms I’m Sorry, WHAT Does the Peloton CEO Do Every Morning? Photos of attic water tanks in Ireland Water tank house diagram Rat-Water thread with Kieran Healy David O’Doherty's comedy song about his water tank Back to Work #85, featuring a public bathroom RPG Things I recommend you buy and use, by Sam Bowman Pink Uber | Do By FridayThis week’s challenge: share private mind motions.