
Be The Husband She Brags About
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Latest episodes

Feb 28, 2024 • 1h 3min
162: Why Heroic Husbands Do All The Work In Their Marriage Transformation Journey
The podcast discusses the Heroic Husband approach to marriage transformation, featuring success stories and the resistance men face. It delves into extreme ownership, family communication, the sacred feminine journey, and the transformative journey of male initiation. Embracing emotional reactivity, the power of extreme ownership in marriage transformation, and giving without expectation are also key topics.

Feb 21, 2024 • 1h 6min
161: The Art of Defusing Atomic Bomb Arguments
Atomic arguments are those mundane moments that suddenly explode into a full-on argument.
From one moment of peace to the next moment feeling flooded with righteous anger ready to fight tooth and nail to prove how right you are and how wrong she is!
These moments destroy marriages. Period.
If any of the above description sounds familiar, you gotta listen to this one!
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 15, 2024 • 54min
160: "How To Help Your Son Become a Man - PART 2" with Don Ross
After a sensational first guest appearance, the men within Heroic Husbands men’s circles demanded Mark would get Don back on for a Part 2! So here we are.
Don goes deep into how to create a season of initiation for your son, systematically preparing him for entering manhood with confidence.
If you want to know how to set your son up to know he has what it takes to be, do or have whatever he wants in life, this is a bloody good place to start!
Let’s begin…..
PART 1 of this special 2-part series with Don
To connect with Don:
First Tribe: Path to Manhood (manhoodtribes.com)
Manhood Tribes Podcast
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 14, 2024 • 44min
159: Start Thinking Like A Shaolin Warrior During Conflict
Mastering marriage involving learning how to grab your mind, shut off the supply of BS, and turn on the wisdom tap. Period.
Here's how.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 8, 2024 • 1h 2min
158: How To Control Your Restless Monkey Mind During Conflict
The masculine practice in marriage is being the Mountain in the Storm. Your Queen’s unpredictable and untameable feminine core (the Storm) needs the spiritual medicine of your unshakeable presence; the Mountain.
Heroic Husbands train to be Mountains in the Storm. Let’s begin…
Access Your FREE Heroic Husbands Guided Meditations here!
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 31, 2024 • 1h 6min
157: How Consciously Resenting Your Mother Will Transform Your Marriage!
If you release your subconscious resentment with your mother your marriage will thrive.
If you leave resentment with your mother stuck in the recesses of your mind, your marriage is doomed to divorce or eternal struggle.
It's that simple.
No husband on the planet can afford to ignore this absolutely vital topic….especially the ones who read this and think “but I don’t have any resentment with my mother”. Especially you guys!!!!
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 25, 2024 • 28min
156: My Most Powerful Daily Habit For Creating Uncommonly Deep Connection
This episode highlights the most potent daily connection habit a conscious King can bring to his relationship. Mark eats some humble pie as he discusses the negative marital impact of unwittingly dropping this one habit for during a recent period of outward life expansion.
This episode is to remind you guys, and Mark himself, of the unmissable impact of this ridiculously simple connection habit.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 18, 2024 • 1h 22min
155: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Dean Hoag
We welcome in Dean Hoag, one of the many Marriage Transforming Heroes within Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles.
Just two months doing this work, Dean tells his story going from habitually unconscious and hurtful ways of relating to rapidly being more able to make his Queen feel seen, heard and progressively safer in deep intimate relationship with him.
If you’re looking for an exemplar of how to own your shit and turn the ship of your marriage around for the better, this episode is for you.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 17, 2024 • 1h 26min
154: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Anthony Marchese
In this special episode we welcome in Anthony Marchese. Anthony is one more regular man showing up with a ferocious willingness to do irregularly deep inner work within Heroic Husbands Men's Circles. Only two months within the circles at the time of recording, you will hear Anthony's story of how his has went from near separation to generating love, laughter and deepening connection with his powerful Queen once more.
To connect with Mark:
Don't MISS the next intake into Heroic Husbands Men's Circles!
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 11, 2024 • 53min
153: Tibetan Wisdom To Help You Become an Unstoppable Heart Warrior
The most sharpened super-power of most men is their rational mind. It’s also simultaneously their own worst enemy in marriage and personal development.
This episode places your awareness on a destructive rational mind blind spot that will screw up any chances you have of reaching your potential in marriage and life.
With this awareness, spiritual unstoppability awaits the bold and brave men who have the courage to implement it’s wisdom.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast