

186: How To Overcome Your Sexual Shame and Get What You Want in the Bedroom
Jun 5, 2024
Discover how sexual shame in men can derail intimacy in marriage, and learn impactful strategies to reignite your connection. Dive into personal journeys of overcoming stigma associated with desire, emphasizing emotional ownership and open communication. Explore the delicate balance of masculine and feminine dynamics, and find ways to foster trust and personal growth as partners. Finally, navigate the nuances of vulnerability in discussing sexuality, paving the way for deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling relationship.
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Sexual Shame Kills Intimacy
- Sexual shame is a major hidden factor that kills long-term intimacy in marriages.
- It leads to the false assumption that the sexual fire just dies out naturally over time.
Practice Presence and Ownership
- Practice presence by being the stable mountain in the storm of emotions in your relationship.
- Allow yourself to feel your human experience fully to heal and communicate effectively.
Horse Mating as Relationship Metaphor
- In nature, a mare resists the stallion until he proves himself worthy to access her sexually.
- This illustrates that men must earn the right for intimacy, not expect it entitledly.