
Be The Husband She Brags About
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Latest episodes

Jul 3, 2024 • 1h 16min
193: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Jak Houghton
Jak Houghton is our latest Marriage Transformation Hero from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles.
Jak leads with radical transparency on overcoming his initial intense emotional struggles to surfacing as a masculine force to be reckoned with in marriage and parenting.
He drops practical wisdom bombs throughout that will inspire you to your next level.
Enjoy a humorous and emotional rollercoaster conversation that will have you exit with radical hope in your capacity to transform your marriage too!
Let’s begin…
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

10 snips
Jun 27, 2024 • 40min
192: 10 Super Simple To Implement Romantic Gestures Rational Minded Men Can Light Up Their Queens Hearts With
Explore ten simple romantic gestures that can reignite passion in your marriage without taking much time. Discover the power of small acts like love notes and appreciation messages that deepen emotional intimacy. Learn how everyday actions can strengthen connections and transform your relationship. Dive into the importance of prioritizing your partner and embracing vulnerability to foster a thriving, joyful home life. These quick, impactful ideas promise a genuine return on investment in love!

Jun 19, 2024 • 1h 5min
190: 3 Simple Steps From Conflict Avoidant Anxiety to Kingly Confidence in Communication Mastery
100% of men entering this work are conflict avoidant.
Thus, 100% of men entering this work are not getting what they want in life and marriage.
These three simple steps will help you unlock the doors to experiencing a married life of infinite expansion, connection and joy for you and your Queen forever more.
A big, BOLD promise that’s backed up by the extraordinary results every husband who uses this simple process reports!
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jun 13, 2024 • 19min
189: How To Master The Storm of Relating to Challenging Children and Criticising Wife In The Octagon of Husband-Wife-Children Conflict
Father-to-child relating is hard enough.
Husband-to-wife relating is even harder.
Husband-to-wife-to-challenging-child relating is a family man’s idea of hell!
Here, Heroic Husband Men's Circle member Mike gets coached in how to begin mastering the art of becoming a grounded and heart-centred father in one of the toughest married life challenges.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

7 snips
Jun 12, 2024 • 35min
188: The Simple Conflict De-escalation Tool To Calm Her Irrationality And Have Her Love You For It!
GREAT NEWS! Arguably the most powerful communication tool to de-escalate your Queen’s irrationality is the simplest tool in the world for regular guys like you and I to use.
It’s called labelling.
It's insanely simple yet ridiculously effective in the Octagon of marital conflict.
Let's begin.....
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jun 6, 2024 • 53min
187: "My Autobiography of Healing Trauma" with Dr Peter Levine
You meet the brilliant Peter Levine in this special guest episode. Mark recognises Peter as one of the most influential teachers on his healing journey to reclaiming his authentic voice and power in marriage and life.
Sharing his personal journey to heal his severe childhood trauma, Peter is a river of insights helping you move forward with hope and courage no matter what has happened in your past.
He reveals the mysterious and unexpected dreams and extraordinary life events that have guided him to becoming one of the most influential healers and teachers of our time.
This conversation is a MUST for any man interested in reclaiming his unlimited power as a husband, father and man.
Let’s begin….
Peter's new book, An Autobiography of Trauma: A Healing Journey is available at:
Ergos Institute, Barnes & Noble, Amazon, Amazon UK,
Inner Traditions, Books A Million, and Bookshop.org
Learn more about Peter and Somatic Experiencing® (SE™) at somaticexperiencing.com
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now

Jun 5, 2024 • 20min
186: How To Overcome Your Sexual Shame and Get What You Want in the Bedroom
Discover how sexual shame in men can derail intimacy in marriage, and learn impactful strategies to reignite your connection. Dive into personal journeys of overcoming stigma associated with desire, emphasizing emotional ownership and open communication. Explore the delicate balance of masculine and feminine dynamics, and find ways to foster trust and personal growth as partners. Finally, navigate the nuances of vulnerability in discussing sexuality, paving the way for deeper intimacy and a more fulfilling relationship.

May 30, 2024 • 1h 8min
185: "Marriage Transformation Hero" Special Series with Tom Crate
In this episode we welcome in Tom Crate.
Tom attacked his three-month Heroic Husbands 1-1 coaching deep work with ferocious intentionality.
His commitment brought about an immense inner healing and reconnection with his radical aliveness and authenticity…..and of course a beautiful marriage transformation as a bonus!
Here's the story of what happens when a regular guy commits to doing irregularly deep inner men’s work.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

May 29, 2024 • 22min
184: How To Go From Marital Dead Energy and Overwhelm to Reawakening Your Radically Alive & Free Wild Man Energy
Andrew from Heroic Husbands Men’s Circle shares insights on bringing consistent aliveness into married life. Topics include maintaining stable energy, embracing spirituality for enthusiasm, unity in family dynamics, and making conscious decisions for a positive life.

May 23, 2024 • 42min
183: From Your Marriage Efforts Repulsing Your Queen To Easily Becoming Her King of Sexual Attraction and Masculine Leadership
Most husbands on the marriage transformation path are doing their best but struggling to make real change happen.
Until you make this one crucial change in approach, your Queen will be repulsed by your best efforts.
Making this one simple shift in your approach, you become like two magnets who endlessly struggle to attract, then one magnet turns round and BINGO! Radical attraction naturally happens!
If your best efforts don’t seem to be paying off yet, this episode’s for you.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast