
Be The Husband She Brags About
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Latest episodes

Aug 30, 2024 • 1h 24min
203: 10 Masculine Mantras To Be Fearless In Marriage Leadership
Mark, a guide for men seeking clarity and leadership in their marriages, shares invaluable insights for personal growth. He introduces ten transformative Masculine Mantras, designed to foster resilience and emotional intelligence. They emphasize the importance of applying knowledge in relationships and the power of nurturing love. He also discusses the critical role of spousal feedback, challenging traditional masculinity by highlighting the strengths of emotional sensitivity. Join Mark for a journey towards becoming a more effective leader in marriage.

Aug 28, 2024 • 1h 19min
202: "The 5D Man Lifestyle Approach To Making Men Strong Again" with Eivind Skjellum
We welcome in Eivind Skjellum to introduce his brilliant 5D Man Lifestyle approach which helps men to awaken their heroic impulse within.
Best known for his work in masculine archetypes, Eivind’s new exciting 5-Dimensions framework is at the leading edge of masculine thought leadership.
Get ready for a revelatory ride learning how to embody Clarity, Courage, Creation, Connection with their catalyst of Commitment and transform your life forever.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Eivind:
GRIT – unlock your potential in this online bootcamp for men (groundandglory.com)
https://groundandglory.com/
Eivind F. Skjellum – Reclaim your Inner Throne - YouTube
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now

Aug 22, 2024 • 29min
201: What Uncommonly Wise Husbands Do When Their Queens Seek Praise and Validation
Husbands are meant to be solid oak trees.
Husbands need to treat their wives as sublimely beautiful flowers.
Your understanding of this energetic distinction is tested every time your wife seeks your praise and validation.
Get it right, marriage is easy.
Get it wrong, marriage is hard.
Don’t skip this episode!
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 15, 2024 • 39min
200: The Little Known Most Important Masculine Rule In Masculine-Feminine Relating
The main reason us husbands are unnecessarily suffering in marriage is that nobody taught us the most important rule of the game of masculine-feminine attraction.
Without Knowing the #1 Most Important Masculine Rule in Marriage, you will never enjoy the experience of marriage.
If you're ready to become a legendary player in the game of marriage, this episode's for you.
Let's begin....
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 8, 2024 • 51min
199: The 1 Surprising Strategy For Evoking A River of Her Praise and Validation
As humans, we have a deep psychological need to feel validation.
Husbands subconsciously try to get this need met by their wives in ways that unwittingly repulses their feminine core.
This episode simplifies the battle-field with the one strategy every husband needs to know.
Let's begin.
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 31, 2024 • 1h 14min
198: The 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Wives Need, Love and Trust
There is a secret code to becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship.
It involves embodying three simple to understand and integrate leadership characteristics.
If you want to eliminate stress, struggle and stagnation and start winning BIG in married life, then buckle up and enjoy!
Let’s begin…..
To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 25, 2024 • 57min
197: Without Doing Shadow Work She’ll Never Trust You As Her King
Your Queen can only trust you when you are an embodied Mountain in the Storm.
Shadow Work is where boys become men, and men become Kings.
If you are in the octagon of marriage and desire to live and die without regret, this episode is a must.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 18, 2024 • 59min
196: 3 Essential Steps To Rebuilding Your Marriage After Your Wife’s Infidelity
A wife cheating can be a brutal blow for any man. The fog of hurt, blame and shame blinds the path forward.
This episode brings radical no-BS clarity as to how you must approach this challenge if you desire to rebuild an awesome marriage built on rock solid trust and unshakeable respect.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 10, 2024 • 1h 5min
195: 3 Rules To Stop Resenting Your Wife And Confidently Master The Infinite Game of Marriage
Us magnificent men have been wrongly conditioned into believing marriage is a finite game.
This leads to men relating to their wife as a ball on chain and marriage becomes Same-Sh1t-Different-Day.
Yet, when men realise the rules of transforming marriage into an infinite game, everything changes for the better…forever!
Married life becomes a blank canvass where life just keeps getting better with both of you knowing the best has yet to come.
Get ready for your marriage mindset to be rocked to it’s core for the better!
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 4, 2024 • 49min
194: This Uncommon Insight Helps Husbands Enjoy Unlimited Radical Authentic Freedom in Marriage and Life
Being authentic and real is the heart essence of mans search in life.
But WTF does being authentic actually mean? Until you have radical clarity on what a term means, your brain has no idea how to bring it to life.
This episode simplifies authenticity in a way that will become the master key to creating the most amazing marriage and life you ever dreamed of.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast