
Be The Husband She Brags About
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Latest episodes

Mar 7, 2025 • 1h 38min
233: 4 Steps How to Skilfully Eliminate Your Wife’s Unfair Criticism of You Forever More
Explore the intricacies of criticism in marriage and how embracing feedback can lead to personal growth. Discover the significance of trust, open communication, and vulnerability in deepening emotional connections. Learn about establishing healthy boundaries while maintaining intimacy and support. The conversation also highlights the importance of authenticity and self-awareness on the journey to better relationships. Plus, empower yourself to uplift your family and community through spiritual evolution!

Feb 27, 2025 • 53min
232: 8 Steps To Rebuilding Your Queen’s Trust After The Devastation of your Infidelity
A husband’s infidelity can be a devastating blow for his Queen.
Years of distrust, suspicion and rage mixed with grief can follow, leading many men to give up trying to save their marriage. This hopelessness is not needed.
These 8 powerful steps will support you making your infidelity become the stage for the greatest inner and outer transformation you ever dreamed possible.
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 20, 2025 • 1h 1min
231: This One Simple Game Might Be The Most Powerful Marriage Transformation Tool Ever
As men we practice low tolerance of our own BS grumpy moods with our customers, boss, neighbours, friends etc. They get our highest standard communication.
Then we go home and practice super high tolerance of our BS grumpy moods with our Queen and children. Our nearest and dearest get our lowest standard of communication.
Low tolerance = high standards. High tolerance = low standards.
The rules of this super simple game sets the scene for only your highest standards of communication and emotional state to come to the table.
It's a super fun and brutally effective way to show up as the King you were born to become.
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 13, 2025 • 1h 11min
230: 4 Attachment Theory Insights On How To Set Up Your Nervous System for Infinite Expansion in Marriage and Life
Attachment theory rocks. It pin points exactly where we have pulled up the nervous system handbrake preventing love from ever flowing in our lives.
Only when you know where the handbrake is pulled up, can you then have the power to put it back down and start allowing the juice of love flow between yourself and your Queen again.
Ready to put the damn heart handbrake down, once and forever?
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 6, 2025 • 1h 14min
229: The Art Of Shifting From Your Rational Minded Head Farts to Latin Lover Heart Art Your Queen Will Melt For
Most husbands unwittingly Head Fart.
Head Farting is insisting on thinking, talking and taking action in the same way you always have and expecting your married life to suddenly transform. It doesn't.
Marriage Transformation Heroes create Heart Art.
Heart Art is accessing an inexhaustible force within capable of creating loving connection no matter what the perceived obstacle in your world.
If you want your marriage to transform, you better get clear on how to shift to creating Heart Art!!!!
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Feb 5, 2025 • 1h 23min
228: 14 Signs Your Wife Is Dealing With A Narcissistic Mother
Holding space for your Queen’s human experience is tough at the best of times for even the most loving husband.
But holding space if she has a narcissistic mother and the emotional trauma that comes with it, can be an absolute nightmare.
If you have ever experienced strain in your marriage as a result of your Queen’s relationship with her mother, this episode is handcrafted for you.
Let’s begin…..
To know more about Matilde’s amazing new community for women with mother wounds:
https://womenreclaimingtheirfullness.me/ryf-online-community/
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now

Jan 30, 2025 • 1h 8min
227: Go From Daily Unspoken Deadening Desperation To Jump-Out-Of-Bed Clarity with this 1 Family Leadership Definition
Most husbands face a daily family grind trying to rally the troops, wife and kids, in a futile attempt to get a cohesive and harmonious unit working together.
Good intentions fail. Often.
Peeing against a gale force wind comes to mind in most cases, hence our daily evening need to sedate our minds with whatever substance or activity is at hand.
Defining what family leadership is, is the foundation stone of clarity our brains need to step out of this daily torment onto a path of easeful and predictable progress.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 23, 2025 • 38min
226: How Building The 1 Simple Skill of Receptivity Will Transform Your Marriage
Research shows that newlywed couples who divorce six years later, respond to their partners bids for attention only 33% of the time.
Successful couples respond 87% of the time.
Responding to your Queen’s attempts to get your attention might be the single greatest skillset to develop today.
This skill is called receptivity.
Let’s begin…..
To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jan 16, 2025 • 1h 45min
225: 6 Steps To Rebuilding An Indestructible Bridge of Flowing Connection and Authenticity That Never Again Collapses into the River of Heartbreak
Creating an indestructible bridge of connection in marriage seems the ultimate Mission Impossible.
When guys see it embodied in another relationship, they think it’s because the other dude must have luckily found an exceptional woman unlike their own irrational and hyper-sensitive wife.
Or it’s a miracle fluke that’ll never happen for you.
It's not good luck and it’s not a miracle.
It's a repeatable process that requires nothing but a willingness to do whatever it takes to make it work.
The steps work. The only question is are you willing to do whatever it takes???
Let’s begin…..
To connect with the Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

14 snips
Jan 9, 2025 • 53min
224: The Simple Mindset Shift To Go From Fear & Fury to Calm & Compassion During Her Worst Outbursts at You
Marital arguments can erode trust and lead to feelings of shame. Learn how a simple mindset shift can transform emotional turmoil into calm and compassion. Discover the impact of childhood issues on conflicts and the importance of emotional awareness. By viewing your partner's vulnerabilities, you can foster a safe space for healing. This approach not only helps you become a stabilizing presence but also strengthens the bond between you and your partner during their most challenging moments.