
Be The Husband She Brags About
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Latest episodes

May 16, 2025 • 35min
243: These 3 Simple Yet RARELY SPOKEN Words Form The Single Most Impactful Phrase a Husband Can Speak To His Wife…(it’s NOT What You Are Thinking)
There are three words in the English language that hold enormous power to help you transform your marriage with your wife.
Coincidently they are also universally the least spoken words by husbands in marriage.
The more disconnected your marriage situation, the more powerful these words are.
They are not the words, “I love you”. These three words are infinitely more impactful.
When spoken sincerely by a husband to his wife, everything starts changing for the better in marriage.
Let’s begin…..
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call
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Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

May 8, 2025 • 56min
242: End Suffocating Self-Doubt In Marriage By Activating These 6 Dormant Superpowers Every Husband Has But Rarely Uses
Ever experience self-doubt in marriage?
Being a husband and father is the most challenging leadership position on the planet….Of course you experience self-doubt!
Fact: Every husband on the planet experiences self-doubt at times.
However, most husbands lock their self-doubt away and try to just get on with life pretending it’s not there. This doesn’t work. Ever.
The rare few who learn how to transcend self-doubt and create a married life built on infinite freedom and fulfilment (Yes, this IS possible for you too!) have all reactivated these 6 natural superpowers….that you have too.
Ready to end self-doubt’s negative influence forever more?
Let’s begin…..
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform – Join the newsletter list to receive all the details for joining:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

May 2, 2025 • 58min
241: How To Confidently Inspire Your Wife To Stop Flirting With Other Men
Nearly every husband has been there. Seeing your wife feeling radically alive, eyes lit up, loving life, laughing and letting loose…but in the presence of another man.
All her behaviours fall into the category we call flirting.
But what is the most powerful way to intervene in this awkward, disconnecting situation?
This episode gifts you the code to obliterating the competition in any social event you attend, leaving your wife’s eyes and energy being locked in on you, her conscious King.
Get ready to set the ultimate energetic boundary, Heroic Husband style!
Let’s begin…..
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform – Join the newsletter list to receive all the details for joining:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

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Apr 25, 2025 • 23min
240: 1 Easy Trick To Fix 95% Of Your Wife’s Irrational Upsets and Complaining in 60secs Flat
Explore the secret cause behind 95% of your wife's emotional upsets and complaints. Discover how a simple shift in approach can enhance your relationship. Instead of rushing to fix her problems, learn to offer emotional support by acknowledging her feelings of being unloved. Humor and affection can be powerful tools in navigating her emotional turmoil. Transform your role into that of a legendary husband by focusing on connection rather than solutions!

Apr 18, 2025 • 47min
239: 4 Simple 1-5min Daily Habits to Evoke Your Wife’s Primal Love and Trust Responses
Most husbands listening in will try new suggested strategies of conscious relating when with their Queens.
This is brilliant and has a massive power in it. Yet, sometimes the new attempts don’t have nearly the positive effect you’d love!
Enter the untapped world of high-leverage daily training habits for priming your nervous system.
This episode gifts you 4 simple daily habits (1-10mins max) to give you the most juicy and powerful message to transmit through your body geared towards evoking the most spectacularly positive response in your Queen.
Interested? Of course you are!
Let’s begin…..
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Book FREE 50min Heroic Husbands Bootcap Intensive 1-1 Coaching Application call
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform – Join the newsletter list to receive all the details for joining:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Apr 11, 2025 • 1h 9min
238: 3 Steps to Confident Self-Mastery of Masculine Leadership in Marriage
Self-mastery is the essence of great masculine embodiment in men.
There is no arena more important to embody self-mastery as a man than that of married life. Our legacy depends on it.
Without a precise grasp on what self-mastery in masculine leadership is built on, you will always struggle to manifest freedom and fulfilment in married life.
Get ready for laser-focused clarity on how to embody masculine self-mastery your Queen will find irresistibly attractive.
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform – Join the newsletter list to receive all the details for joining:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Apr 4, 2025 • 1h 9min
237: When You’re Being A Great Guy But She Still Treats You Like Crap…Do This
One of the most frustrating things every husband experiences is when you show up at your wonderful best and your Queen treats you like crap.
The clearly good intentions of your attempt to do/say something of deep meaning gets trampled on by your Queen’s confusing and crazy irrationality.
These moments habitually get stuck in a right-vs-wrong storm of disconnection.
This episode introduces you to a revolutionary approach that will help you alchemise these moments into opportunities for you to develop unshakeable connection and trust in marriage.
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform – Join the newsletter list to receive all the details for joining:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now

Mar 27, 2025 • 40min
236: The Code To Let Your Queen Viscerally Surrender Into Trusting You’ll Never Ever Leave Her Or Stop Loving Her
Discover the crucial role of belonging cues in fostering emotional safety and trust within marriages. These subtle signals, rooted in our unconscious, can transform a relationship from challenging to dreamlike. The discussion also explores how grief can deepen our understanding of love and legacy, emphasizing the importance of nurturing authentic connections. Tune in to learn how to cultivate a marriage that thrives on meaningful communication and emotional intimacy.

Mar 21, 2025 • 38min
235: A Dalai Lama Mind Hack To Magically Generate Rapid Clarity and Calm in any Marital Conflict
Most husbands will admit that, albeit they love their wife, they find marriage the ultimate challenge to their sense of inner peace.
The often joked “Can’t live with her, can’t live without her”, points to this seemingly universal crux in married life for men.
Yet, one simple mind hack allows husbands go from massive psychological resistance to re-entering flow with their wives in no time at all.
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Mar 14, 2025 • 44min
234: The Secret To Stop Your Wife from Always Arguing Against Your Rational Perspective
The eternal conundrum for husbands:
You listen to her speaking about an upsetting issue, you find a problem-solving fix you know will end her suffering…….and she never wants to listen to what you’ve got to say!!!!
And she even has the audacity to claim you weren’t listening!!!
This episode will let you know the secret in how to prepare your Queen for receiving your beautiful gift of masculine, black and white rationality.
Let’s begin…..
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to Heroic Husbands Movement:
Find out more about applying to join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast