

Be The Husband She Brags About
Kings of Freedom
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
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Nov 10, 2025 • 40min
274: 4 Simple Steps To Break The Good Boy Bad Boy Pattern That Disappoints and Depresses Your Wife While Destroying Her Trust in your Leadership
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. Become awareness of the one most destructive pattern husbands show up in marriage with.
2. Know how to recognise the danger signs that lead up to an inevitable rupture.
3. Discover the one way your wife can help you in breaking this pattern.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 7, 2025 • 26min
273: 1 Quote from Bob Marley That Describes The Heart Essence of Conscious Masculine-Feminine Relating in Ways Rational Minded Husbands Can Understand
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll experience an intense re-energisation of your motivation in marriage.
2. You’ll find this wisdom will help you break the Good Boy: Bad Boy pattern that kills marriage trust and connection.
3. You’ll reframe your wife’s emotional intensity in a way that allows you get turned on by it.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 5, 2025 • 18min
272: My Simple 3-Part Romantic Email Formula That Inspired My Wife To Say It Was The Best Email She Ever Got!
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll have a winning formula to create a super high impact romantic email your wife will love.
2. You’ll eliminate the risk of rejection and guesswork knowing you are using a tried and tested formula.
3. You’ll have a simple 3-part formula you can use 100s of times in future to create magical spontaneous connection with not a ton of effort at all!!!
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Nov 3, 2025 • 29min
271: One Simple Practice To Receive All The Recognition You Want and Deserve To Receive From Your Wife
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll know why specific recognition is infinitely more important for husband vs general recognition.
2. You’ll know a simple weekly practice to receive all the recognition you could ever want from your wife.
3. You’ll have a counter-balancing grounding force to help you embrace your Queen’s fieriest feedback.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 31, 2025 • 23min
270: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict – Part 3 Respect and Recognition
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll know how to spot and self-regulate one of the most triggering wounds husbands have.
2. You’ll discover the definition of respect and more accurately know if respect is present in your marriage
3. You’ll get a timely reminder of Inspire Don’t Require being the strongest masculine leadership approach in evoking respect in marriage
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 29, 2025 • 27min
269: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 2 Closeness and Connection
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll be able to recognise when conflict is more to do with Closeness and Connection and little or nothing to do with what’s being said
2. You’ll learn distinct differences between masculine and feminine relating on closeness and connection that are key to building trust and attraction
3. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to home in with laser precision to the core of the issue.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 24, 2025 • 24min
268: Winning Against The 3 Dark Unspoken Forces That Drive and Deepen Marital Conflict Special Series – Part 1 Power & Priorities
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll understand why conflicts will always exist until you understand what you’re really fighting about.
2. You’ll be armed with three simple questions to recognise if Power & Priorities are the real issue.
3. You’ll the single universal subconscious reason what we’re really fighting to reveal
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 17, 2025 • 1h 6min
267: 5 Ways To Unlock The Mystical Ancient Greek Power of Kairos Time To Help You Transform Your Marriage Quicker No matter How Little Time You Feel You Have
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll know simple ways of breaking free from SSDD scheduled time and entering into spontaneous play with your Queen leaving both of you giggling like teenagers again.
2. You’ll understand how getting locked in chronos time is one of the most poisonous things for killing your marriage aliveness.
3. You’ll be able to create a relaxed and happy feeling at home by being able to conscious master the balance between using the two types of universal time.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 10, 2025 • 58min
266: The 4 Unsexy, Boring Yet Excitingly Transformative Leadership Ideas Struggling Husbands Refuse to Use and Thus Remain Stuck in their Marriage Rut
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll learn a practical time trick that ultra-high performing men use and will have you quit complaining about not having time ever again.
2. You’ll learn what is possibly the simplest and most ignored peak performance hack that 99% of husbands never use and struggle as a result.
3. You know how boring leaders do boringly repetitive actions that bring excitingly brilliant results…that when you tap into will transform your marriage results.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 3, 2025 • 1h 1min
265: The 4 Mental Patterns Husbands Use in Marriage to Energise Themselves…. But Only One Leads To Happily Ever After
The 3 specific benefits you’ll gain by listening to the end of this episode are:
1. You’ll recognise the signs your thinking has shifted to one of the three connection eroding mental patterns.
2. You’ll have clear access to the ultimate mental pattern that will create connection, trust and attraction on repeat for years to come.
3. This new awareness will empower you to go from conflict to clarity in seconds no matter how intense the storm of married life becomes.
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
Do the Heroic Husbands 3 Masculine Leadership Characteristics Self-Assessment:
Home - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions or suggestions for relationship topics you’d love me to cover.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast


