

Be The Husband She Brags About
Kings of Freedom
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Episodes
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Sep 8, 2023 • 1h 42min
122: "Loving Your Queen Who's Been Sexually Abused" with Matilde Crocini
The #MeToo movement awakened global awareness of the extraordinary number of women who have experienced sexual abuse.
Yet very little is spoken of the immense struggle this widespread wounding creates in the private lives of married couples around the planet.
Husbands doing their best to love but feeling like their best is never enough, while their Queens often never feel seen, heard or safe in the relationship living with the secret cross of shame and alienation.
In this special episode, Mark and his Queen Matilde, pull back the curtains on their journey of healing along this very path together. Filled with hope along with precise strategies and approaches to support you rejuvenating loving understanding and connection beyond the pain.
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 6, 2023 • 1h 16min
121: Masculine Archetypes: The 4 Secret Superpowers of Heroic Husbands
Four untapped super powers lay dormant within you.
Lying dormant, marriage will always be an unending struggle.
Reactivated, these four super powers will have you rise to becoming the marriage transforming hero of your relationship.
These are your 4 Masculine Archetypes: King, Warrior, Magician, Lover.
Do you have the spiritual curiosity to activate them and reveal your greatest expressed power as the Heroic Husband you were born to be?
(I know your Queen would be passionately curious to see what this man would look and feel like!!!!)
Let's begin.....
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 1, 2023 • 1h 38min
120: Conscious Parenting From Six Years in San Quentin Prison with Wayne Boatwright
Enjoy this riveting conversation with Wayne Boatwright detailing his profound journey of rehabilitation and healing before, during and after his six-year sentence in the notoriously brutal San Quentin prison.
From the depths of his hellish situation, Wayne tells his heroic tale of finding extraordinary ways to show up and father his children despite the obvious obstacle of being stuck in prison.
This is epic healing medicine for the masculine soul. Let’s begin….
To connect with Wayne:
About Me — Wayne A. Boatwright. To create in any form takes courage, I… | by Wayne Boatwright | About Me Stories | Medium
San Quentin News – Written By Incarcerated – Advancing Social Justice
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 31, 2023 • 54min
119: Marriage Hell To Masculine Heaven Through Mind Mastery
The outer hell of a failing marriage invites us men to attain our freedom looking elsewhere.
Some men will look outwardly gazing at all the potential freedom they could enjoy if they just got to fu!k away from their wives; some acting on this impulse, others leaving it in the unspoken fantasy realms.
Others look inside into the true source of all their suffering: their mind.
Great masculine spiritual practice in marriage involves looking inside to rediscover your greatest freedom and then sharing this embodied freedom as devotional love with your Queen.
Mark details some of the mystical teachings of the mind that supported his inside-out marriage transformation from his early marriage days suicidal piths of hell.
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 24, 2023 • 1h 28min
118: My Purpose-Driven Career Change in Full Family Life with Michael Hegarty
In this episode we welcome in Michael Hegarty. After a successful 20-year banking career, Michael went from career and income ending uncertainty, to find his purpose building his bespoke leadership coaching business around his unique gift to ‘see the greatness in others.’
The challenge of pursuing this massive career change was met whilst leading his family including four kids of school-going age.
Enjoy a beautifully open and vulnerable conversation where Michael invites us into his masculine spiritual journey to embodying radical liberated authenticity, while using his family life as an inspiration not a limitation.
To connect with Michael:
Email: info@michaelhegartycoaching.com
Website: www.michaelhegartycoaching.com
Linkedin: www.linkedin.com/in/michaelhegartycoaching
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 23, 2023 • 51min
117: The One Thing That Saved My Marriage Last Weekend
In this episode Mark shares on how a super intense conversation with his Queen would have classically ended in a marriage-ending style face-off if not for the practice of one key strategy: segment intending.
This episode let’s you in on how to use this marriage transforming strategy to rejuvenate even the most subdued connection into an inferno of felt love and connection together.
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 17, 2023 • 1h 16min
116: Becoming A Confident and Trusted Husband with Four Arrows
We welcome back in the amazing Four Arrows, guest speaker at the United Nations General Assembly 2023, to gift us sacred elder wisdom on how to show up more confidently as a man in marriage and life.
Deep wisdom on harnessing the power of your mind to reach levels of performance and courage you never thought were accessible for you before.
His ending story detailing his experience undergoing an appendicectomy surgery without medicinal anaesthesia is worth the entry ticket alone! Let’s begin…..
To connect with Four Arrows:
Four Arrows Wild Horse Hypnotist - YouTube
Four Arrows Indigenous Worldview Scholarship (fourarrowsbooks.com)
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 16, 2023 • 47min
115: 3 Steps To Deep Intimacy Any Dude Can Nail
One of the greatest struggles in marriage for nearly every husband on the planet is trying to figure out how to create deep intimacy. This is especially true when, the further into marriage you go, the more disconnection and stagnation there is in most marriage experiences.
So how is the well-intentioned regular guy in marriage meant to suddenly figure this challenge of creating deep intimacy in the moment? Here’s how, of course! Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 10, 2023 • 1h 34min
114: The 7 Deadly Sins of Narcissistic Mother-In-Laws
Special return guest, Matilde Crocini (my beautiful Queen!), rocks the socks off us all in her in-depth surgical analysis of narcissistic mother-in-laws. Unchecked, narcissistic mother-in-laws can create havoc and destruction in your marriage.
Enjoy Mark and Matilde's ring-side-seat experiences of overcoming the destructive narcissistic traits and behaviours demonstrated in Matilde's mother.
Get ready to enter an uncensored revelatory ride of awakening awareness on this essential topic!!!
To connect with Matilde:
Women Reclaiming Their Fullness – Women reclaiming Their Fullness
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now

Aug 9, 2023 • 35min
113: Today My Queen Ripped Through My Mediocrity Justifying BS!
Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today!
Enjoy!
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast