
Be The Husband She Brags About
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Latest episodes

Oct 12, 2023 • 1h 19min
132: "Soul-Centered Leadership In Marriage And Career" with David Peralta
We welcome in David Peralta to tell his inspiring story of saving his severely struggling marriage by reconnecting with his soul-centered purpose in life.
This is a true heart warrior’s perspective of what it takes to battle through destructive inner demons by learning to face and embrace them head on.
An inspiring story of what is possible for us as husbands and fathers if we have the courage to find the solution to all our external world problems by looking within.
Let’s begin….
To connect with David:
Website: The Soul Centered Founder
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Apply to Join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen and her incredible work:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 11, 2023 • 57min
131: 3 Steps To Stopping Resentment Kill Your Marriage
Resentment is the ultimate corrosive acid in love, which if ignored, relentlessly gnaws away at the foundations of your marriage.
This episode will help you recognise signs of resentment and most importantly, provide a systematic conversational platform to reveal and heal this deadly enemy of loving connection.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Apply to Join Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 5, 2023 • 1h 14min
130: "Stop Parenting And Start Leading" with Thomas Pfanner
We welcome in the inspiring Thomas Pfanner and his heroic story of learning leadership in parenting under extreme circumstances.
Having to seek legal aid to just hold his son in his arms two weeks after his birth to learning to deal with years of persistent resistance and kickback to his leadership as a father, Thomas would face an uphill battle to overcome all the odds and successfully be a great father.
It’s a story every family man needs to hear.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Thomas:
Website: Dads Who Lead
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Application Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Oct 4, 2023 • 1h 23min
129: 3 Ways To Stop Screwing Up Communication In Marriage
What kills marriages is poor communication.
99.99% of poor communication involves three classic steps that create nothing but disconnection and mistrust.
Conscious communication involves doing these three steps in exactly the opposite order!
This episode gives you the complete Heroic Husbands conscious communication approach that husbands inside Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles are using to totally transform their marriages.
If you are serious about transforming your marriage, this is one episode you cannot miss!
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 28, 2023 • 31min
128: This One Mindset Change Guarantees You Will Win In Marriage
A positive mentality is essential to creating success in any arena.
In the Octagon of marriage, mentality is crucial. Most husbands mentality in marriage unwittingly sets them up for inevitable and severe loss of love and connection.
In this episode Mark reveals the single most effective mentality with which to approach your marriage…..but only if you truly want to become the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship!!!
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 27, 2023 • 1h 10min
127: The One Essential Move To Win Her Heart Back Forever
Ignore what’s presented in this episode and your marriage is doomed to long-term struggle or ultimate failure.
Integrate this episode’s wisdom and she’s guaranteed to open her heart forever more with you.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 21, 2023 • 1h 13min
126: "How Your Phone Is Wrecking Your Relationships" with Joey Odom
Get ready to enjoy a truly passionate conversation with the legendary Joey Odom from Aro on today’s episode.
Joey tells his heart-breaking stories of missed family memories because of getting stuck scrolling through meaningless stuff on his social media feed. Sound familiar?
This is a much-needed no-BS conversation between family men on what is truly at stake if we don’t wake up to the damage of uncontrolled phone usage on our family and marital dynamics.
Joey gifts us the #1 highest leverage and simple to implement strategy to transform your marriage starting from today. It’s simplicity will have you living out a marriage and family phone revolution from today onwards.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Joey’s mission at Aro:
Website: Aro | Turn Screen Time into Family Time (goaro.com)
Podcast: Aro | The Aro Podcast (goaro.com)
Aro (@goaronow) • Instagram photos and videos
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 20, 2023 • 1h 2min
125: 10 Hacks To Unlock Your Sexual Peak Performance Tonight
Part of a 2-part special series, this episode introduces you to ten epic techniques and strategies to get you out of your head and deeply into your animal body ready for wild sex with your Queen.
Most men struggle to switch their heads off during sex resulting in women being the first to lose interest in sex in long-term relationships most of the time. Stuck in your head, the sex for her is dead!
Armed with these super-simple ideas you are set up for the best sex yet to happen the next time you and your Queen are ready to get down and dirty together!!!!
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 14, 2023 • 32min
124: 1 Bedtime Secret To Never Go Soft Or Explode Too Soon!
Tons of men around the planet often have the sexual experience of either being frustratingly too soft or prematurely ejaculating too soon.
Unnecessary sexual shame with our inner critic beating the shit out of ourselves ensues, with us forming a love/hate relationship with having sex with our Queens.
This episode shares one simple breathwork awareness and practice that will support you mastering your sexual performance when it counts the most.
Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Sep 13, 2023 • 1h 5min
123: 8 Reasons You Should Never Do Marriage Therapy
Mark reveals his eight personal reasons why marriage therapy is the last thing he would ever advise a man or couple to start doing in the hopes to save their marriage. Blunt, no-BS straight talking on what could be one of the most important potential decisions of your adult life.
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast