
Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships
Hosted by dating expert Nicole Colantoni, each episode challenges norms and expectations when it comes to life, love, and relationships with special guests who aren't afraid to speak their minds. From childhood trauma to sex, they explore and publicly air the uncomfortable and the unspoken.
Latest episodes

Sep 24, 2023 • 17min
LOVE UNCENSORED HOTLINE - Love bombing, ghosting, and dreams about your ex
In this special hotline edition dating and relationship coach, Nicole Colantoni, dives deep into the intricacies of modern love by unpacking some pressing dilemmas shared by listeners: How do you heal after being love-bombed, ghosted, and then taunted with those unexpected DM slides? Is reaching out to a past love from 2 years ago, who still occupies your thoughts, a step forward or backward? In the age of TikTok, how do you gauge if your relationship is 'less fun or romantic' compared to what you see online, and should that be a reason to end things with someone you truly love? And what about those recurring dreams of your partner calling it quits? Should they be taken as subconscious warnings or just the whims of a dreaming mind? Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 20, 2023 • 24min
How to Find 'The One' on Your Own Clock
Your host, dating and relationship coach, Nicole Colantoni dives deep into the pervasive societal pressures many face in the realm of love and relationships. Do you hear the incessant tick-tock of the dreaded biological clock? Feeling the pressure to find 'the one' before some imaginary deadline? Worried about rushing into a relationship or staying in one with the wrong partner? Nicole debunks the myth and shatters the constraints that bind us to artificial timelines. She explores how to find love without playing by the clock, proving that even though it might feel like a race, it's actually not. Learn how to ditch the romantic schedules and deadlines, and cut to the chase of what really matters. Understand why love doesn't adhere to schedules or quotas, and why the fear and panic about 'running out of time' can seriously mess with our love lives. Nicole dives into: Escaping the fear-driven dating cycle Navigating love without the pressure of time Strategies if you're feeling the pressure of the biological clock And that's not all. She also tackles the taboo subjects: The shame of not being ready to be a mum The choice of not wanting kids at all The fear of not having met your partner yet Nicole explains why a woman's worth or success is not defined by motherhood. She shares insights on how to embrace your own unique journey and not let societal pressures weigh you down. Whether you're single and feeling the pressure, in a relationship and uncertain about the future, or just looking to understand more about modern love and relationships, this episode offers encouragement and practical advice. Join Nicole for a conversation that may just change the way you approach love, relationships, and your own personal journey. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 13, 2023 • 2h 22min
Unzipped: Braeden Rhys on Sex, Success, and Stripping Away Stereotypes
In this episode, your host, dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni, dives deep into the intriguing life of Braeden Rhys, also known as Jett Black. An Australian male escort and multi-award-winning marketing and public relations expert in the international adult entertainment industry, Braeden has mastered the art of living authentically. From being a youth minister to becoming one of Australia's Top 100 Entrepreneurs, Braeden’s journey is one of resilience, self-discovery, and boundless creativity. Whether breaking barriers in the adult entertainment industry, working as an elite gay companion, or performing as a drag queen, Braeden has a story that's both colourful and inspiring. In their conversation, Nicole and Braeden explore the challenges he's overcome, his perspectives on love, intimacy, and self-worth, and how he has found harmony in the dualities of his professional and personal worlds. They discuss his views on self-love and the lessons he's learned about human connection through adversity. Have you ever wondered what it takes to live a life truly on your terms, defying societal norms and embracing every aspect of who you are? Or what secrets underlie the foundation of a healthy, long-lasting relationship? If so, then this episode is for you. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. loveuncensored.co Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095GUEST LINKS: W: https://www.braedenrhys.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 6, 2023 • 22min
How to Decode Your Partner's Emotions
In this week's solo episode, dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni dives deep into the complex waters of emotional and physical expression within relationships, particularly during those vulnerable early stages. She explores how you can't force someone to open up or follow your emotional timeline, emphasising that it's a journey requiring patience, understanding, and a lot of self-love. Nicole touches on the need to remember that everyone expresses their emotions differently, and highlights the importance of understanding your partner's love language, open communication, and valuing the slow burn over the immediate spark. If you've been with your partner for a significant amount of time and still can't read them, Nicole provides guidance on navigating these feelings of uncertainty. Tune in if you've ever wondered: 'Does he or she really like me?' 'Why aren't they opening up?' 'Why don't they express their feelings the way I do?' or 'Am I expecting too much?' FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book in with Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 30, 2023 • 22min
Breaking Boundaries with Bill Schwab - Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy & the Rise of Monogamish
Today, we’re stepping off the well-trodden path of traditional romance and embarking on a journey where love recognises no boundaries. Your host, dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni, explores ethical non-monogamy, a world where love transcends societal norms and cliches. Joining her on this exploration, is none other than Bill Schwab, the CEO and Founder of Monogamish, the pioneering dating app that's changing the way we experience and engage in relationships. From the personal sparks that ignited the creation of Monogamish to the gritty realities of building a platform that caters to the needs of the non-monogamous community, you'll get an insider's look into it all. Together, they’re breaking down barriers, busting myths, and bringing a narrative often pushed to the fringes, into the spotlight. Whether you're a seasoned non-monogamist, just starting your journey, or simply curious about this rich tapestry of diverse connections, this conversation has something for you. Bill also shares some invaluable advice for navigating non-monogamous relationships and gives you a glimpse into the future path of Monogamish. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. loveuncensored.co Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095GUEST LINKS: IG: https://getmonogamish.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 23, 2023 • 23min
How to Stop Comparing Your Relationship & Giving Up Too Easily
Welcome back to another season of Love Uncensored. In the age where social media showcases a picture-perfect world, it's easy for you to question your own relationship. This episode helps you break the mirage, debunk myths, and understand that a perfect relationship isn't delivered on a silver platter – you have to craft it. We'll face the elephant in the room - societal pressures and the curse of preconceived timelines. You probably have one of those 'should-be' timelines, but how do they influence your relationships, decisions, and contentment? More crucially, how can you snap these invisible chains? Your host Nicole Colantoni will unveil what it really takes to hold on to someone and why it's essential for you to scrutinise your beliefs and expectations before making any hasty decisions. She’ll delve into some common reasons why people abandon relationships and how to steer clear of making the same blunders. At the crux of it all, Nicole will discuss what genuinely matters in making relationships work. Spoiler alert: It's not about the grand gestures or the moments worthy of an Instagram post. So, if you’re on the verge of giving up on someone or you find yourself ensnared in the comparison trap, don’t forget to tune in. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book in with Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 4, 2023 • 21min
The Impact of Self-Care on Relationships
Join dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni in this solo episode as she explores the vital link between self-care and healthy, fulfilling relationships. Nicole emphasises the importance of setting boundaries and draws upon the insights of renowned experts such as the Holistic Psychologist, Gabor Maté, Kayla Barnes, and Andrew Huberman to shed light on the alarming state of society’s well-being and further support the discussion on why health matters. Through her own personal experiences, Nicole shares profound insights into how neglecting self-care can adversely affect our relationships. She also delves deep into the transformative impact prioritising self-care has on enhancing communication, fostering emotional well-being, and cultivating a solid foundation of love and support. Through valuable lessons learned, Nicole reveals practical strategies and actionable steps to implement self-care practices that will nurture both yourself and your relationship. Tune in to discover how to reclaim your vitality, establish healthy boundaries, and cultivate love from a place of self-nurturing. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book in with Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 28, 2023 • 39min
10 Essential Steps to Detach from Unhealthy Relationships
Join dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni in this solo episode as she delves into the intricacies of detaching from unhealthy relationships. Nicole shares ten powerful strategies to help you navigate the challenging journey of letting go of someone who no longer contributes to your well-being. Whether you're grappling with a toxic partner, healing from a heart-wrenching breakup, or seeking guidance on detaching from someone you still love, this episode provides invaluable tools for your path to emotional freedom. Nicole sheds light on the science of attachment, emphasises the importance of personal growth, and offers actionable steps to break free from the patterns that keep us attached to unhealthy relationships. Drawing from her personal experiences and professional expertise, she inspires anyone struggling to let go and move to reclaim their power, cultivate self-love, and establish healthier boundaries. Detaching from an unhealthy relationship doesn't mean giving up on love—it's about rediscovering your worth, finding inner peace, and opening the door to new possibilities. If you're ready to embark on a transformative journey of self-discovery, resilience, and personal growth, don't miss this must-listen episode. Tune in to equip yourself with the insights and tools you need to detach from an unhealthy relationship and step into a brighter, more fulfilling future. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book in with Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 21, 2023 • 1h 41min
Life, Love, and Embracing Your Own Path with Makeup Artist Amber Moxey
Join dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni in a candid conversation with makeup artist Amber Moxey. Amber shares her insights on makeup artistry, working with women, and what it takes to find your calling in life. Having been in a relationship for 20+ years, she reflects on her relationship journey, revealing the secrets to a lasting partnership and her thoughts on settling. Amber discusses healthy relationships, conflict resolution, finding the right partner, and setting realistic relationship expectations. She delves into intimacy, including keeping the spark alive, navigating dry spells, and addressing infidelity. Amber explores the influence of childhood conditioning on adult relationships and the challenges of being single in the dating scene. She shares her journey of opting out of parenthood, managing societal pressure, and the impact it has had on her relationship and social life. Amber offers advice on handling intrusive questions about starting a family and reflects on potential regrets and fears associated with the decision. Tune in to this episode for empowering perspectives on life, love, and embracing your own path. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. loveuncensored.co Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095GUEST LINKS: IG: https://www.instagram.com/ambermoxey/?hl=en See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 14, 2023 • 22min
How to Break Free From Your Anxious Attachment Style
In this solo episode, dating and relationship coach Nicole Colantoni delves into the topic of anxious attachment styles and how to break free from them. She shares her personal journey of overcoming her own attachment struggles and offers practical advice for listeners looking to do the same. From recognising the signs of anxious attachment to understanding the root causes, Nicole provides valuable insights and tools for creating healthier, more secure relationships. Whether you're in a relationship or single and looking to improve your attachment style, this episode offers valuable guidance for anyone seeking to create deeper, more meaningful connections. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.love.uncensored.podcast W. loveuncensored.co Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.