
Love Uncensored: The Modern Guide to Dating & Relationships
Hosted by dating expert Nicole Colantoni, each episode challenges norms and expectations when it comes to life, love, and relationships with special guests who aren't afraid to speak their minds. From childhood trauma to sex, they explore and publicly air the uncomfortable and the unspoken.
Latest episodes

Dec 24, 2023 • 22min
WRAPPING UP 2023 WITH A THROWBACK
This week, Nicole brings a special year-end treat. In a reflective replay, she revisits 'The Impact of Self-Care on Relationships,' one of her favourite and most impactful episodes. Dive into the essential connection between nurturing yourself and cultivating healthy, meaningful relationships. With insights from the likes of the Holistic Psychologist, Gabor Maté, Kayla Barnes, and Andrew Huberman, this episode is a treasure trove of wisdom on why self-care is paramount in love. As we wrap up 2023, Nicole offers a timely reminder about the importance of setting boundaries, enhancing communication, and building strong emotional foundations. Whether you missed it the first time or are ready for a refreshing re-listen, this episode promises to resonate deeply as we step into 2024. Remember, self-care is not just a luxury; it's a necessity for thriving relationships. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 17, 2023 • 2h 17min
SINGLE AT THIRTY FIVE WITH STEFAN EUSTACE BOLEYN
Back by popular demand, former Tinder date and best friend, Stefan Eustace Boleyn, returns to the podcast for another deep dive into the highs and lows of modern dating. Newly single, Stefan shares his raw and real perspective as they unpack his dating do's and don'ts, and his thoughts on everything from masculinity in today’s world to navigating the murky waters of dating apps. Together, they tackle hot issues like who pays on dates, commitment in an age of endless choices, and how to balance the masculine and feminine energies in a partnership. Don't miss this unfiltered discussion where Stefan gets real about the evolving roles in relationships, debunks myths, and reflects on social media's impact on romance, all while exploring the elusive concept of 'the one that got away' and more. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 5, 2023 • 13min
LOVE UNCENSORED HOTLINE - THE DATING EDIT
This week on the Love Uncensored Hotline we're back to tackling the complex world of dating. Wondering how to find love offline because you want a meet-cute tale for the grandkids rather than a swipe-right story? We’ve got you covered. Feeling worn out from treating dating apps like a nine-to-five but still ending up with zero prospects? Let's strategise a new approach. Are first dates your Achilles heel, with second dates seeming like a myth? We’ll dive into making memorable first impressions that lead to encores. Concerned about your lack of relationship and sexual experience becoming a roadblock to dating? We’ll discuss how to navigate this personal topic with confidence. If you're craving real talk about love and dating, or if you have your own dilemmas you’d like us to dissect, write in! Your question could be featured in the next episode of Love Uncensored Hotline. Join the conversation—no filters, just raw, honest advice. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 26, 2023 • 22min
LET'S TALK ABOUT SEX
In a candid new solo episode, Nicole gets personal, recounting a visit to an integrative doctor that turned into an impromptu relationship check-up. Nicole dissects the societal pressures that often cloud our judgment in relationships and challenges the myth of a one-size-fits-all 'normal' love, offering an honest look at its seasonal nature. She delivers sharp insights on navigating relationship expectations and guides you in assessing whether you're with the right person or not. Curious about the three questions that shook Nicole's perspective? Join her as she unpacks these life and love-altering inquiries to do with attraction, passion, and emotional connection. If you've ever doubted the depth of your partnership, this episode is a must-listen. DM us if you've ever had a similar experience or been made to question the compatibility of your own relationship. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 15, 2023 • 1h 8min
IN CONVERSATION WITH BELLA CAROUTAS
Join Nicole in this uncensored locker room chat with multi-hyphenate Bella Caroutas as they delve into the complex world of dating and relationships in your 20s. Together, they explore: The importance of knowing when to walk away from a relationship and the courage it takes to do so Tips and real talk on getting over a broken heart and dealing with betrayal Navigating love bombing and ghosting, with solid advice on spotting it and handling it Getting into the nitty-gritty of money matters in dating like who picks up the tab and dealing with uneven wallets Whether you're in your 20s or just looking to understand the current dating scene better, this episode is a must-listen. GUEST LINKS: IG: https://instagram.com/bellacaroutasss/ FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 4, 2023 • 19min
THE 'GREAT LESSON' EXPLAINED
Ever wondered ‘Why didn’t it work?’ or ‘what’s next for me?’. In this solo episode, Nicole unveils the meaning behind the transformative journey of ‘The Great Lesson’ and why the most intense chemistry is often intended to teach rather than last. Nicole explains that while ‘The Great Lesson’ may not be the partner you grow old with, it is the relationship that will force you to grow into yourself. If you're grappling with letting go of a love that was meant to be a lesson, or if you're searching for the courage to embrace the love you have within, this episode will guide you through these complex emotional landscapes. It offers solace and strategies for those tough moments, all the while reaffirming an essential truth: the deepest, most important relationship you can nurture is the one with yourself. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 29, 2023 • 15min
Keep attracting avoidant partners? Anxiously attached?
In this week's hotline episode, we dive deep into the complex world of attachment styles. We’ll be unpacking: Why do I keep attracting avoidant partners and feel blindsided by them when the relationship ends? As someone anxiously attached, why do I consistently find myself attracting avoidant partners? Should I consider continuing a relationship with an avoidant partner after being strung along for years on end? Throughout this episode, we break down the science and psychology behind why some individuals seem magnetically drawn to avoidant partners. We also explore the anxious-avoidant dynamic, examining its paradoxical nature as well as delving into strategies and insights for making a relationship with an avoidant partner work. Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email, or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 21, 2023 • 23min
HOW TO HEAL YOUR NERVOUS SYSTEM IN RELATIONSHIPS
Ever wondered why you react a certain way in your relationships? It might be more linked to your early experiences and attachment styles than you think. From the hyper-alertness of anxious attachments to the protective distancing of avoidant types, Nicole breaks down the unique ways our nervous system guides our actions in love and relationships. Tune in and find out how to recognise your nervous system responses and tailor your communication so that you can revolutionise the way you connect, creating bridges of understanding instead of barriers of miscommunication. With actionable insights, Nicole also reveals the key to building inner security that magnetically draws the same stability and trust in your relationships. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 8, 2023 • 19min
The "ick", maintaining attraction, and love bombing
In this week's hotline episode, we dive into the challenges of modern dating, the intricacies of personal appearance choices within relationships, and understanding patterns that lead us to certain types of partners. We'll be unpacking: How do you navigate the dating world when it feels like you catch "the ick" just as things start to warm up? When you love your new hairstyle but your boyfriend doesn't, how do you assert your choice without it escalating into a conflict? Especially when you want to feel attractive to him but also stay true to yourself. Why is it that you find yourself continually attracted to love bombers? And how can you protect your heart without shutting it off completely and becoming distrustful? Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email, or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 1, 2023 • 27min
LOVE UNCENSORED HOTLINE - Bringing back the romance and pursuing your dreams without sacrificing who you are
In this week's hotline episode, we navigate how to balance personal dreams with the desire for true love, as well as explore how to bring back desire in a relationship that feels more platonic than romantic. We're addressing: Is it possible to pursue your dreams without sacrificing who you are and what you want in a relationship? Is it possible to bring back the romance when it's been months since you've been intimate with your partner who feels more like your best friend than lover? Got a burning question about your love life? Slide into our DMs, shoot us an email, or send over voice notes with your dating and relationship inquiries for a chance to have it answered in the next episode. FOLLOW: IG: https://www.instagram.com/love.uncensored.podcast/IG: https://www.instagram.com/nicolecolantonicoaching/ W. www.nicolecolantoni.com Join the private Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/231424128600095 Book Nicole for a coaching session: www.nicolecolantoni.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.