Seeing Other People

I sit down with author, podcaster, and relationship coach Allison Raskin for a raw and insightful conversations about love, heartbreak, and moving forward. Allison opens up about her broken engagement that left her blindsided—and how she rebuilt her life, redefined her self-worth, and unexpectedly found love again.We discuss why some breakups feel impossible to move on from and how overthinking can impact relationships. Allison discusses the biggest mistakes people make in dating and how to break free from them, why you do not need to be fully healed before dating again and what helped her learn to trust love after experiencing such a painful loss. Pre-order Allison’s new book, Save the Date, out April 8th: Order hereBook a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Time for a solo episode! ’m catching up with you on everything that’s been on my mind—dating, friendships, and some personal struggles I’ve been working through. I dive into defining the relationship, why second thoughts in dating are totally normal, and how to overthink a little bit less. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Therapist Laura Caruso joins us to share her perspective on why so many people feel like the dating pool is worse than ever, the biggest mistakes people make, and how to break free from unhealthy patterns. Laura discusses the pressure of finding a partner, why women should consider dating outside their age bracket, and when to have the tough conversations about commitment. We dive into emotional attachment, self-sabotage, why waiting for someone to “come around” might be keeping you stuck, and how she unexpectedly found love when she wasn’t even looking. Want to hear more of our episodes with therapists? This playlist has them all! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Erica Borsak opens up about the realities of living alone, dating with a food allergy, and why she decided to freeze her eggs. She shares her experiences navigating dating apps, the pressure of singlehood, and how focusing on herself changed her perspective. We discuss independence, setting personal milestones, and the challenges of modern dating. Plus, Erica reflects on health struggles, societal expectations, and what she’s looking for in a partner.Being single doesn’t have to suck. Check out these episodes about embracing and making the most of singlehood! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Greg Grippo opens up about life after The Bachelorette, his journey through grief, and finding happiness on his own. He shares why he took a year off from dating, the pressure of finding “the one,” and how therapy reshaped his mindset. We discuss emotional independence, slowing down in relationships, and the lessons he’s learned about love. Plus, Greg reflects on anxiety, personal growth, and what he’s looking for in his next partner.Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Need more of the guys’ perspective? This playlist has all SOP episodes with male guests! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Your best friend, sibling, or coworker is pregnant or just had a baby—now what?! If you’ve ever wondered how to support a friend through pregnancy, postpartum, and the transition into parenthood (without being annoying), this episode is for you. I sit down with my friend Jamie, a new mom, to get the unfiltered scoop on what to say, what NOT to say, and how to actually show up for your friends in this life stage—even if you have zero experience with babies. We talk about the biggest mistakes people make, the things new moms secretly wish you’d do, and why your friendship doesn’t have to change (even if everything else does). Whether you’re single, dating, or just nowhere near parenthood, this is the ultimate guide to being a thoughtful, supportive, and not cringey friend during this huge life transition.Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, Diego Perez aka Yung Pueblo shares his journey from personal struggles and substance abuse to becoming a celebrated author and meditation advocate. He dives into his new book, How to Love Better, and explores how emotional maturity and relationship dynamics shape our connections. We discuss the balance of privacy and openness in relationships, the transformative power of meditation, and how personal growth plays a role in fostering healthier, deeper love. Yung Pueblo opens up about his rock-bottom moment, the importance of self-truth, and the impact of his relationship with his wife, Sara, on his growth.Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Want more dating advice? Check out this playlist filled with episodes and guests covering the dating advice you need to hear. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Stephanie Pavone joins us today to talk about her journey through heartbreak, growth, and self-discovery. She gets real about everything from crying in the Equinox locker room in 2017 to finding happiness and learning to love herself. Stephanie shares her story of getting married young at 22, making the tough decision to part ways, and how she rebuilt her life. She also dives into her book Clarity Through Chaos, her solo travels, dealing with anxiety, and meeting her now-husband, Kevin. Along the way, she highlights the importance of self-love, setting boundaries, and being true to yourself in relationships.For more episodes about finding love after 30, check out this playlist.Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Tired of dating apps? Elle Wilson, founder of Met Through Friends shares how bringing a friend to a singles event can change your dating luck. We dive into why speed dating actually works, the biggest mistakes people make at in-person events, and how Elle met her fiancé just before lockdown. We also chat about the mindset shift that makes dating easier, why meeting through friends feels more natural, and how to put yourself in the right places to find a great match. Come to Met Through Friends x Seeing Other People speed dating in NYC on March 20th—bring a friend and meet great people!Being single doesn’t have to suck. Check out these episodes about embracing and making the most of singlehood! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Allie Mazur, founder of Beyond Herpes discusses the importance of normalizing conversations about genital herpes, to overcome the associated shame and stigma. She shares her personal journey, contracting herpes at age 23, and the emotional impact it had on her. Allie delves into how herpes reshaped her dating life, leading her to pursue higher-quality relationships and adopt a healthier lifestyle. She emphasizes the significance of open communication in relationships, offering advice for both those with herpes and their partners. She underscores the need for mutual responsibility in sexual health discussions and how faith played a role in her healing journey.Follow Allie at @allie_beyond on Instagram and learn more at livebeyondherpes.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices