Seeing Other People

I’m joined by my childhood best friend Jessie — the one who’s seen me through every confusing situationship, career pivot, and major life change. We’re talking about how she went from friends to married with her high school crush, what it was like when the three of us lived together, and her take on the guys I used to date… versus what she thought when she met Jake. We also answer listener questions about being in different life stages than your friends, falling for a friend, and how to support someone through heartbreak.Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Author and Relationship Expert Dr. Morgan Cutlip joins me to unpack the invisible load we carry in relationships—why emotional and mental labor often falls on one partner, and how to create more balance without resentment. We also talk about how relationship needs shift from dating to marriage, how to spot self-sabotage, and why independence can be hard to let go of in your first serious relationship in your 30s. Whether you’re single, dating, or deep in a long-term relationship, this episode will make you feel seen.Follow Dr. Morgan @drmorgancutlip on IG and check out drmorgancutlip.com to order her book and learn more. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Cohosts for Life is our new Patreon weekly series where we (Ilana & Jake) sit down every Sunday—just the two of us—to reflect, laugh, vent, and share the real behind-the-scenes of our lives together. Think of it as our relationship diary, marriage memoir, and life update all wrapped into one cozy, chaotic, honest little episode that drops every Monday.Whether we're unpacking what made us laugh this week, sharing stories we forgot to tell each other in real time, or navigating the growing pains of being newlyweds, this is your front-row seat to the reality of being cohosts in both life and love.Episode 1 is our here for you, but the rest will be exclusively on Patreon. Come hang with us 💛 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

At 27, Alanna Vizzoni was diagnosed with breast cancer—and everything changed overnight. In this raw and honest conversation, she opens up about what it was like to go from “normal” to navigating chemo, a mastectomy, and a surprise engagement all in the same chapter. We talk about identity, body image, intimacy, and what it means to love and be loved through something life-altering. Alanna shares the moments that broke her, the ones that brought her closer to herself and her partner, and why she chose to document it all online.Follow Alanna on Instagram and TikTok Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I sit down with Emma Paige, host of 'too much.', to explore the twists, turns, and personal growth that led her to the love of her life. Emma opens up about her journey from LA to New York, the heartbreaks that shaped her, and how a chance meeting turned into something real with her boyfriend, Mr. Right. We dive deep into what it really takes to move on from relationships that aren’t serving you, why being too much is subjective, and why friendship breakups can be just as heartbreaking as romantic ones.Follow Emma on IG and TikTokFollow 'too much.' on IG and TikTok and listen on Apple and Spotify Check out my guest episode on 'too much.' hereBook a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this solo catch-up, I’m giving you a life and mindset update from changing my Instagram handles to finally breaking through a running plateau that had me feeling stuck for months For the heart of the episode I share how pouring into activities outside of work, social media, and my relationship transformed my anxiety into confidence. I break down how hobbies helped me learn to like myself again—and why that made my relationship with myself and Jake even stronger. Plus, I answer some of your juicy listener questions: If your boyfriend’s parents help pay for the engagement ring…is that in or out? How to stay independent while living at home in your 20s? Meeting the fam for the first time—what to bring? Long-distance communication: how much is too much?Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Carleigh Ferrante from the Mostly Dating Podcast is back again to discuss the joys and challenges of dating, relationships, and growing into yourself. We talk about how creative date ideas can deepen connection, why maintaining individuality in relationships is essential, and how navigating different life timelines doesn’t have to create distance between partners. We unpack the importance of open communication, embracing change, and staying grounded in who you are—even in love. Follow @mostlydating on IG! Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In today's episode, a 33-year-old anonymous guest shares her and her husband's journey to parenthood through surrogacy. The couple initially tried IVF for two years before deciding on surrogacy, driven by emotional exhaustion and a desire for higher success rates. We talked about their decision-making process, societal perceptions, and the meticulous choice of a surrogate. We also explore the couple's resilient relationship, marked by early struggles and significant growth, which has prepared them for the challenges of raising a child together.Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today.Start planning your dream wedding at Zola.com! Go to helixsleep.com/SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off better sleep! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Keren Eldad, an executive coach and author of 'Gilded', joins to discuss breaking free from perfectionism in dating. She emphasizes the dangers of seeking external validation and people-pleasing in relationships. Keren shares insights on embracing authenticity and shifting mindsets to foster meaningful connections. The conversation dives into self-love, resilience, and finding true happiness from within rather than through a partner. Listeners gain valuable tools for recognizing red flags and cultivating fulfilling partnerships.

In today's episode, our anonymous guest from Louisiana shares the intense and tumultuous story of his longest relationship, which lasted four years. What begins as a typical college romance soon takes a series of shocking turns, uncovering dark family secrets, emotional turmoil, and betrayals that test the limits of trust and love. From unsettling revelations about his ex-girlfriend's upbringing to the jaw-dropping discovery that her previous boyfriend was actually her step-brother, this story is filled with drama, heartbreak, and personal growth. Book a 1:1 dating coaching session or profile revamp with me hereGet $10 off your Nutrafol subscription at nutrafol.com promo code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE Give yourself the luxury you deserve + free shipping & 365 day returns at quince.com/seeingotherpeopleStop putting off those doctor appointments and go to zocdoc.com/seeingotherpeople to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices