Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse
Abuse Survivor Network
Narcissist Apocalypse is a Purple Ribbon Award-winning storytelling podcast that amplifies the voices of those who have experienced narcissistic abuse, coercive control, emotional abuse, domestic violence, family relationship abuse, and relationship trauma. Our guests share their stories of abuse survival, providing a source of validation, education, inspiration, and hope for those going through similar experiences. Join us and discover how you, too, can overcome the narcissist apocalypse.
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Jul 28, 2025 • 1h 30min
Lara & The Invalidating Narcissist | Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Lara shares the story of her abusive relationship at sea. Lara met her abuser while working on a cruise ship, where she felt seen and chosen by him. Unfortunately, Lara was being mirrored, and the supportive boyfriend quickly became invalidating and manipulative.
It's a story of being chosen, mirroring, future faking, invalidation, flying monkeys, hoovering, sexual humiliation, love bombing, manipulation disguised as transparency, self esteem, gaslighting, intermittent reinforcement, guilt trips, triangulation, rage, and playing the victim.
Plus, we have a bonus Q&A episode with Ashley Badgley from Survivors.org. We discuss sexual coercion and the importance of survivor voices.
*** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss Sexual Coercion and Sexual Humiliation in this episode.
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
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Jul 25, 2025 • 1h 23min
Rerelease: Jill & The Enmeshed Patriarchal Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissist Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks to Jill, whose husband had the reputation of being the sweetest guy in the world. Every one of their mutual colleagues vouched for him. He was good-looking, intelligent, charismatic, and came from a good family. However, everything changed once they were behind closed doors.
It's a story of sexual coercion, physically intimidation, gaslighting, addiction, toxic in-laws, protecting children, infidelity, family systems, blame shifting, rage, fear, shame, and much more.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses Sexual Coercion, Physical Intimidation, & Animal Abuse . ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
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Jul 21, 2025 • 2h 4min
Lolly & The Hateful Narcissistic Mother | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Lolly shares her story of being raised by an abusive mother, enduring multiple abusive relationships, and tragically losing her son to suicide.
It's a story of emotional neglect, putdowns, people pleasing, caretaking, being good enough, physical abuse, suicide, suicidal ideation, sexual assault, abandonment, parentification, parental alienation, appearances, dementia, self worth, PTSD, family dynamics, and going no contact.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses sexual assault, suicidal ideation, suicide, and physical abuse. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
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Jul 18, 2025 • 1h 34min
Rerelease: Saoirse & The Torturous 20-Year Marriage | Domestic Violence
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Saoirse shares how she was swept off her feet by her future husband. However, as soon as their first child was born, Saoirse's husband began to employ coercive control tactics. He isolated her from her family, financially abused her, and manipulated Saoirse to believe that everything wrong in the relationship was her fault.
It's a story of resilience, gaslighting, isolation, being good enough, protecting the kids, courage, physical abuse, sexual abuse, escaping, finacial abuse, and manipulation tactics.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse and sexual coercion. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jul 14, 2025 • 1h 23min
Ari & The Hypnotic Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Ari shares her story of dating a narcissistic abuser who employed military-grade psychology against her.
It’s a story of dissociative identity disorder (DID), physical abuse, sexual abuse, suicidal ideation, homicidal ideation, stalking, intimidation, gaslighting, hypnosis, cognitive resets, physical resets, blackmail, self harm, dissociation, coping mechanisms, the healing process, ptsd, support systems, awareness, and trauma bonds.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses sexual abuse, suicidal ideation, homicidal ideation and physical abuse. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jul 11, 2025 • 52min
Rerelease: The Characteristics of a Controlling Personality & Types of Controlling Behavior
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A, Brandon talks with Rayna Guest about the characteristics of a controlling personality, the signs of a possessive partner, and types of controlling behavior. Rayna also updates us on her life since her appearance on the survivor story podcast and tells a story about running into her abusive ex.
You can listen to Rayna's story by clicking here.
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jul 7, 2025 • 1h 38min
Kristin & The Jealous Raging Narcissist | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Kristin shares her harrowing experience with a narcissistic partner, detailing their tumultuous relationship and the impact on her life and children. Initially, Kristin was drawn to his charm and kindness, but soon faced his controlling behavior, financial abuse, and emotional manipulation. Despite Kristin's efforts to maintain a stable life, her ex's actions escalated to violence and psychological abuse.
It's a story of love bombing, pathological liar, rage, physical abuse, animal abuse, intimidation, in-laws, using the car as a weapon, normalized behavior, holiday ruiner, gaslighting, therapy lies, crazy making, feeling responsible, guilt, financial abuse, isolation, health issues, bread crumbing, child medical neglect, court, divorce, documenting, journaling, in-law child abuse, the excuses we tell ourselves, people pleasing, Intergenerational trauma, loyalty, and parental alienation.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses animal abuse and physical abuse. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jul 4, 2025 • 1h 27min
Rerelease: Janet, The Abusive Family, & The Predator | Domestic Violence
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Janet about growing up in an abusive household, which led her into the hands of a predator.
It’s a story of trauma, addiction, grooming, physical & sexual abuse, suicidal ideation, identity, manipulation, gaslighting, sexual assault, IPV, emotional abuse, infidelity, healing, hope, and surviving it all.
Plus we get an update on Malory's Story, from February 1st 2021.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode is not an easy listen and is very triggering. We discuss and describe childhood physical/sexual abuse, two suicides, physical/sexual assault as an adult, and animal abuse. ***
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jun 30, 2025 • 1h 24min
Gary & The Lying Physical Abuser | Domestic Violence
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Gary about his marriage to a lying physical abuser. Gary met his future wife at university. They were quickly attached at the hip and eventually moved countries together when school finished. However, red flags were already popping up. The need for control, anorexia, lying, her family, jealousy, and her need for an identity.
It's a story of physical abuse, isolation, insecurity, control, stalking, hidden cameras, in-laws, lies, anorexia, blame, kids, jealousy, neglect, withholding, identity, and divorce.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Jun 27, 2025 • 1h 32min
Rerelease: Jemma & The Abuse From Crazy Betty | Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks with Jemma about her scheming narcissistic mother.
It’s a story of generational trauma, sexual abuse, running away, manipulation, obligation, rising above it all, guilt, temper tantrums, selfishness, physical abuse, emotional abuse, codependency, bonding, opposites, grooming, playing the victim, fraud, trust, and love.
*** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss physical and sexual abuse of a child in this episode. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
Join our Youtube Channel at https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpTIgjTqVJa4caNWMIAJllA Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
