Narcissist Apocalypse: Patterns of Abuse
Abuse Survivor Network
Narcissist Apocalypse is a Purple Ribbon Award-winning storytelling podcast that amplifies the voices of those who have experienced narcissistic abuse, coercive control, emotional abuse, domestic violence, family relationship abuse, and relationship trauma. Our guests share their stories of abuse survival, providing a source of validation, education, inspiration, and hope for those going through similar experiences. Join us and discover how you, too, can overcome the narcissist apocalypse.
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Sep 1, 2025 • 1h 16min
Barbie & The Two Abusive Parents | Domestic Violence & Narcissist Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon interviews Barbie about growing up with two abusive parents. Barbie describes the emotional and physical trauma inflicted by her parents, their manipulative gaslighting, and their lack of empathy. She explains her survival strategies, such as overachieving and seeking approval from men.
It’s a story of gaslighting, self worth, neglect, parentification, needs, achieving, fear, isolation, depression, anxiety, putdowns, mixed messages, walking on eggshells, being good enough, being an inconvenience, misogyny in the workplace, empathy, attention seeking, coping mechanisms, physical abuse, sexual abuse, suicidal ideation, addiction, and survival.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses physical abuse, sexual abuse, and suicidal ideation. ***
You can reach Barbie by clicking here.
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
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When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
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Aug 29, 2025 • 2h 3min
Rerelease: Sharon & A Life Full of Trauma | Domestic Abuse & Narcissist Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Sharon shares her life full of trauma. Sharon experienced two traumatic life-altering events by the age of 9. The after effects of these events reverberated throughout her life. Sharon became extremely self-sacrificing, felt that she didn't matter, and feared abandonment. In both of her abusive relationships, Sharon was very open about her childhood trauma, and both partners seemed to care about it at first, only to use it against her later.
It's a story of child sexual abuse, codependency, trauma bonds, infidelity, abandonment, cognitive dissonance, lies, dissociation, manipulation, triangulation, suicidal ideation, suicide attempts, put downs, sarcasm, guilt, blame shifting, and PTSD.
*** CONTENT WARNING - Graphic descriptions of child sexual abuse, suicidal ideation, and suicide attempts. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
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Aug 25, 2025 • 1h 47min
Peter, The Physically Abusive Dad, & The Financially Abusive Boyfriend | Domestic Violence
In this episode of narcissist apocalypse, Brandon talks to Peter about his traumatic experiences being raised by a physically abusive dad, and his abusive romantic relationship with a controlling financial abuser.
It’s a story of fear, survival, isolation, control, trauma, physical abuse, sexual abuse, sexual assault, support networks, financial abuse, abuse witnessing, family dynamics, coping mechanisms, mental health, suicidal ideation, grief, trust, vulnerability, anxiety, and addiction.
*** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss physical abuse, sexual abuse, and suicidal ideation in this episode. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
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Aug 22, 2025 • 47min
Rerelease: Types of Abuse Triangulation - Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon discusses the triangulation tactics of Lundy Bancroft's 9 abuser types and the abusive parent/child triangulation types. Plus he discusses, shame, guilt, fear, gaslighting, manipulation, passive aggression, flying monkeys, victim playing, love bombing, hoovering, and much more.
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
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Aug 18, 2025 • 1h 50min
Pam & The Manipulative Jealous Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Pam shares her experience of being married to a jealous partner. Pam was a rule follower, and her new partner gave her permission to stop following everyone else’s rules, only to manipulate her into following his. And after Pam got pregnant, her life became a roller coaster of abuse that she couldn’t escape.
It’s a story of isolation, mental health issues, intergenerational trauma, truth tellers, addiction, physical abuse, suicidal ideation, financial abuse, in-laws, support, demands, control, threats, accusations, custody, divorce, and escape plans.
*** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss physical abuse and suicidal ideation in this episode. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
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Aug 15, 2025 • 50min
Clarity, CPTSD, & The Aftermath of Abuse | Narcissist Apocalypse Q&A With Jody Bauer
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon talks to Jody Bauer, a divorce coach and consultant, about CPTSD, clarity, body responses to stress, and the complexities of high-conflict divorce cases.
To contact Jody Bauer, go to https://www.solidarityconsulting.com
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
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Aug 11, 2025 • 1h 49min
Amy & The Demanding Hypocritical Abuser | Domestic Violence & Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Amy talks about her marriage to an emotionally abusive man with double standards. Initially, Amy found her husband charming and supportive. However, his increasing hostility, demands, know-it-all nature, victim playing, and lack of contribution to household responsibilities began to take their toll. And despite a brief reconciliation and therapy, his abusive behavior continued, culminating in his refusal to leave their shared home post-divorce.
It's a story of double standards, rage, post separation abuse, neglect, financial abuse, emotional immaturity, intimidation, sexual coercion, demands, being right, love bombing, being good enough, victim playing, walking on eggshells, anxiety, isolation, and deflection.
*** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss Sexual Coercion in this episode. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
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Aug 8, 2025 • 1h 17min
Rerelease: Letters To The Narcissist (Volume 6) | Domestic Violence
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Brandon and his old pal Melissa, listen and read letters that our community sent in about domestic violence, narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, toxic families, betrayal, and more.
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
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Aug 4, 2025 • 1h 26min
Sarah S. & The Psychologically Abusive Narcissist | Domestic Violence
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Sarah shares her story about the psychological, sexual, and financial abuse she endured at the hands of her abusive ex. Sarah describes how her partner used 'logic' to manipulate her into compliance, isolation, feeling powerless, and trapped.
It's a story of psychological abuse, coercive control, financial abuse, kernels of truth, logic, isolation, compliance, ptsd, intergenerational trauma, gaslighting, relationship dynamics, invalidation, sexual coercion, and personal autonomy.
*** CONTENT WARNING - We discuss Sexual Coercion in this episode. ***
Sarah can be found at www.strategiesforhappiness.com
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
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Aug 1, 2025 • 1h 12min
Rerelease: Bree & The Narcissistic Coercive Controller | Narcissistic Abuse
In this episode of Narcissist Apocalypse, Bree shares her story of her abusive relationship. Bree and her family thought she married 'Mr. Perfect', but a week after their honeymoon, the coercive control began. At first, it started with isolation, then financial abuse, putdowns, sexual abuse, infidelity, triangulation, and more. It took a long time for Bree to free herself from the clutches of her husband, but she eventually got the divorce she was looking for. However, ten years post-divorce, Bree is still dealing with her ex's post-separation abuse.
*** CONTENT WARNING - This episode discusses child sexual abuse and relationship sexual abuse. ***
If you want to be a guest on our survivor story podcast, please click here or send us an email at narcissistapocalypse@gmail.com
PODCAST RECOMMENDATIONS:
Perfect Prey With Dr. Christine Cocchiola | Click Here
The Covert Narcissism Podcast | Click Here
Bitch is a Bad Word | Click Here
When Dating Hurts Podcast | Click Here
If you or someone you know are experiencing abuse, you are not alone. DomesticShelters.org offers an extensive library of articles and resources that can help you make sense of what you're experiencing, connect you with local resources and find ways to heal and move forward. Visit www.domesticshelters.org to access this free resource.
If you need help moving due to domestic violence, Shelter Movers may be able to help you. They operate by referral. Clients may be referred by any person of authority (social worker, doctor, police, crisis counselor, teacher, etc.) or public agency (shelter, hospital, school, workplace, place of worship, sexual assault centre, etc.). To reach them, click here.
Join our new Community Social Network at https://community.narcissistapocalypse.com/
Join our Instagram Channel at https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse
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