Soul Led Living Podcast with Nikki Novo

I know, I know. You want to meet people organically and in person, because that is how you get a better read on people. I get it! But it's 2019, and dating apps are a thing. So let's embrace it, rather than romanticize our old flip phones.Today on the pod, I offer three steps to help you get a read on those online profiles. Here they are:1. Recognize your judgementsIt's important just to note that the first few seconds of looking at someone's profile, you're coming from your judgement. Based off your past experiences, you're going to decide who this person is. Don't judge your judgements, lol! Let them come through, and let them past. And then give the profile a second look.2. Connect to your heartAs you give that second look, bring your attention to your heart center. See if you can connect to that part of you rather than your mind.3. Align with you courageLastly, once you feel from your heart and receive some sort of knowing, you may quickly fall into fear again. Ask yourself, "What would I do if I was coming from a place of courage," and then make your move.If you're liking this info, make sure to listen to the full episode where I give a lot more detail. Enjoy!

Today we go over a common question I receive often: How do I manifest, but not feel obsessive over calling in a partner?Such a good question!Here are my tips. I have three for you:1. When manifesting is not working, it's because we're being called to a journey of letting goIt's important to understand that manifesting is natural. We're doing it all the time. We want something, and within little time, it shows up. If manifesting is not working, it's because we're being called to walk a journey of letting go — of releasing all the baggage and false beliefs so that our energy is clean and light.2. Focus on the feelingWhat makes us feel obsessive is that we're focused on the union, on the partner, on the person. When in fact, we want to focus on the feeling. Being in a relationship represents some kind of feeling for us. For some of us it's security, fun, companionship, and so on. That feeling is what we're trying to manifest, and that's what we want to focus on, which in return eliminates a lot of pressure.3. Keep track of your actionsLastly, we feel crazy when manifesting because we're all up in our heads. We're thinking about it and visualizing it, but we also want to get honest about what we're physically doing to help co-create this relationship. Remember, we live on this place called Earth that's physical! So let's keep track of what we're doing to help ourselves.Enjoy the episode. Let me know if you have questions.

Conscious dating, you guys, is a thing! And today, we have the godmother of conscious dating, Angela Holton on the pod sharing wisdom.She shares with us her own personal experience — how she turned her dating life completely around to something positive and empowering. We chat about not feeling bad for ourselves when dating, how to reduce shame around dating, and how to attract without obsessing.Lots of great tips in this one! Check it out.Connect with Angela:Website: www.lovesanctuary.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/angelanholton/Online Course Waitlist: Conscious Dating: “Become The ONE You Want & Attract The Love You Desire”: https://www.lovesanctuary.com/conscious-dating

Do you find yourself hanging onto old love despite your logic? It makes no sense, right? You know your worth and that this can’t possibly be good for you, but for some reason you’re afraid of letting go. You’re afraid that you may never feel this way again despite the relationship being a total shit show. I’m here to tell you you’re not crazy. Not because you’re right. Truth is you’re probably not meant to be together. BUT the feeling and pull is real. Why? Because you’re dealing with a soulmate relationship. Now, first let me remind you that we have several soulmates. Your mother can be a soulmate. Your boss, too. And not all soulmate relationships are all rainbows and butterflies.The one you may find yourself in may be very difficult. Or perhaps it might feel cozy, but lack spark or attraction. That’s because you’ve done this before!  And just because you’ve done it before doesn’t mean it’s supposed to last. Let’s break down soulmate love, how you can heal, and how you can find one that will lead to a happy ending with little drama. Give this episode a listen and let me know what you think.

Today’s episode is a tough one. Here’s why. Many of us are looking for divine masculine energy. Whether we’re in search of a heterosexual relationship or same sex relationship, we’re looking for either predominatly divine femine or predominatly divine masculine energy. Today I’m speaking to those of you looking for a partner who is predominantly in their divine masculine energy. We’re going to talk about what those qualities really are and how to create space for them. Because the truth many times, we either don’t leave any room for the masculine to show up, or we condone it when it appears. As the patriarchy begins to dissolve it’s important to not label all masucline qualities as the patriarchy. It’s also important that we don’t just turn the patriarchy into the matriarchy. Let’s clear up all that funky energy and misunderstandings so you can better understand yourself and what you’re calling in. And so you can create a direct line for your manifestations.

I’m pretty obsessed with spirit guides if you haven’t noticed. I first got into them when I went to visit a psychic who was supposed to tell me that my ex-boyfriend was going to come running back to me. No such luck.Her reading was so fascinating that I had to understand what she was doing. She explained to me that she could speak to angels. Whaaaat?And these angels apparently were around us to protect us and had info on us. I needed to know more. As soon as I got over my fear of seeing and hearing spirits (religion will sometimes do that to you), through my studies I started to connect to spirit guides, accidently. And guess what? They were so chatty. Full of so much useful info. The first thing one of my guides did was show me a past life, in my dreams, with an ex that healed so much for me and finally allowed me to let go and move on. And eventually be open to attracting my husband. Besides assisting us in healing, spirit guides are here to do exactly what their title says: guide us. They are highly evolved souls that are assigned to work with us for various reasons. Some come and go depending on what season we’re in and others stick around for much longer. Their job is to help us evolve and reach our potential. If you’re feeling called to bring romantic partnership into your life, know that this is part of your purpose. And your guide wants you to fulfill your purpose, so they want to assist you in healing any blocks that is keeping you from love — that may be past life stuff or simply negative thoughts. Dating is a great teaching opportunity for them!In today’s episode, I go over what spirit guides are, how you can connect with yours, and how you can receive help in the love department. Give this episode a listen to learn more about your helpful guides.

I often think of us as little kicked dogs trying to find love again even though we were abused in a past. Have you ever been with an animal who was hurt in the past? You go in for a snuggle, and they just back up out of fear of getting hurt again.That's us, you guys! Don't you ever feel like that?At some point, you will be loved... really loved, and it'll be hard to believe it. One day, you'll allow yourself the love you really deserve, and you'll start to wonder if the person loving you is just pulling a prank on you.This has been the case for so many of us, and today, we have a guest who so generously shares her journey.It's a journey of reminding herself that she is worthy, that real love does exist and it exist for her.This is such a beautiful share from Liz Newman, who was on the first season of The Final Swipe. She found love — and it feels funny.Ready to feel all the feels on this one. Get ready to love again.

Have you ever had a reading and the person told you one thing was going to happen and it never did? What's the deal, right? Did that person take you for a ride? If you're wondering about this phenomenon, you have to listen to this episode.In this episode, I talk about what futures look like in a reading; I explain how you can allow your future to come in; and how to deal with the anxiety of dating in the unknown.The truth is, the future you're looking forward to wants to come in, but we're so bogged down. So let's learn how to release, surrender, and make space (all the buzz words, yes!) for the love you really want. Also, let's learn how to open up our hearts and date even when we don't know what's going to happen with a certain relationship.There's some good wisdom in your future. Just saying!

Because it's not, and Shani Silver wants to tell you why.Shani has been single for a decade, and one day she just became tired. Not tired of being single, but tired of being mad about it. And that's when things started to change for Shani.In today's episode, Shani shares how she changed her life by taking a different approach to being single than what we're normally taught. She explains how she got here, what dating looks like these days, and how she was able to start enjoying her life again.I was excited to have Shani on the show because she's a beautiful example of being hopeful and optimistic, but at the same time completely present. Meaning, she's looking forward to the future, but she's also truly loving her present.Her perspective on dating is so refreshing (and needed), that she scored a column with Refinery29 titled, "Every Single Day" and hosts a podcast called "A Single Serving Podcast." Shani is changing the conversation for shamed singles everywhere, so that we can finally look at this time in our life with clarityThere's so much wisdom in this one. Enjoy!

If you’ve hung out with me lone enough, you know all about dating blocks: The strange stuff we believe that get in our way when it comes to love. We get that healing those blocks is going to be part of the journey. But truthfully, sometimes you just need some damn good dating strategies. And that’s what today’s episode of The Final Swipe Podcast is about. Tips! Because no one ever teaches us how to date. For today’s episode, I was joined by dating and relationships coach Emilia Nagy. She is so sunny, candid, and well versed in dating. You can tell she geeks out on this stuff, which makes her so valuable. We talk about the positive side of shame, how to overcome narcissistic relationships, and how to kill the dating game. Grab that paper and pen!In this episode we talk about: Why dating is a struggleBest dating practices for womenHow men and women date differentlyNarcissistic relationships and abuseBringing your vision to lifeLinks we mention: Emilia’s WebsiteEmilia’s InstagramHow to Pick the Right Man Checklist