SHE with Jordan Lee Dooley

Most of us want to (and try to) avoid pain at all costs - and that includes reliving pain we experienced in the past.Yes, we want to find healing, but as great as that sounds, the reality is that the journey to get there is not always easy. In fact, the healing process itself can be pretty painful. Sometimes it seems easier to try and skip past the healing process altogether. But as painful as the healing journey can be, it’s worth it!In this episode, Jordan speaks with author, speaker, and founder of Broken Crayons Still Color, Toni Collier, about how to discover healing after pain.Toni shares practical steps and biblical wisdom that you won’t want to miss! Tune in to learn:The importance of addressing the hurt to find healing Why healing is often not quick, easy, or linear (and why numbing our emotions doesn’t help)Practical ways you can be more intentional about spending time with God even when you’re in the middle of your painHow to know when you’re ready to share something that you’ve been healing from The importance of healing before helpingMyths that people may believe about going to therapy and how therapy can make a differenceWant to dig deeper into this topic? Explore these links mentioned in this episode: tonijcollier.com@tonijcollier on InstagramBrave Enough to Be BrokenEmbrace Your Almost

If you haven’t heard, we recently welcomed our son into our family, who came into our lives in the most divine way. I’ve been slow to share this news because over the last few years, I’ve really leaned into the beauty of maintaining privacy and boundaries with sacred things like this. So we’ve been taking time for just our family, soaking in these special moments, before inviting the whole world in. But I think it’s time to share this story and we wanted to do so in a podcast episode to give it its proper space. A simple Instagram caption just wouldn’t do it justice. A little backstory: back when we were engaged and had no idea what our family-building journey would look like, we agreed that we wanted to adopt one day. Adoption was always part of our family’s “plan,” we just didn’t know the timing. That said, adoption has never been a "Plan B" or a backup plan. It’s always been something we’ve felt called to — even before we began to struggle with recurrent pregnancy loss. Then through our involvement with Safe Families, as well as through loss, we felt the Lord nudging us to open our hands and hearts to adoption early in our family-building journey. We felt God was asking us to open all the doors to building a family and to trust Him with the order of how it would all play out.So, in January 2022, we started the adoption process and in January 2023, we were blessed to bring home our son, Noah.  We feel it’s important to share this story because it seems like all you ever hear is horror stories about adoption, but we truly had the most incredible experience from start to finish - and it’s important for those positive stories to be shared, too.So tune in to this episode to learn: Why we chose to pursue adoption early in our family-building journeyMore about the adoption processThe birth experience from our perspectiveOur answers to commonly asked questionsThe unexpected lessons God taught us along the wayThank you for celebrating this miracle with us. Every life is a miracle but there’s something unique and special and gospel-centered about the miracle of adoption… and we are humbled and honored that God would invite us into parenthood in this most redemptive and beautiful way. xo,Jordan and Matt 

How many times have you heard phrases like "you'll be fine," "don't cry," "everything happens for a reason," or "it could be worse"?When working through difficult emotions or challenging circumstances like loss, breakups, illness, or family issues, it can be frustrating when we are urged to be more positive.The truth is that even amid life’s challenges, we’re often pressured into being positive. We’re told to “look on the bright side” and be happy. And sometimes we ourselves tend to be overly positive because we just want to fix a friend’s hurt and help them feel better.While optimism is important and needed, there’s also something to be said for when positivity becomes toxic and prevents us from working through difficult emotions.But how can you recognize the difference between toxic positivity and optimism? And how can you find other ways to work through negative emotions?In this episode, Jordan talks with therapist and author Whitney Goodman about what toxic positivity looks like and how we can leave space for our real feelings.Grab your headphones and tune in to this episode to learn:What toxic positivity is and what it’s notWhy silencing negativity and difficult emotions doesn’t always workHow to recognize if our positivity is toxicWays to support someone going through a hard timeHow to complain and vent effectively / in a healthy wayWays to help your child regulate their emotions instead of resorting to toxic positivityReady to dig deeper? Learn more at sitwithwhit.com.P.S. If you haven't yet, make sure to grab a copy of Jordan's book, Embrace Your Almost.

Jordan talks with her brother, Nick Wawrzyniak, a certified EMF specialist, about EMFs and what the research is showing us. They discuss common side effects of EMFs, how they affect reproductive and children's health, and the challenges of finding accurate information. They also explore different types of EMFs, remediation vs blocking, and steps to protect against EMFs.

Have you ever wanted to transform your house into the home of your dreams?Maybe you’ve got a long list of projects that you plan to do to really customize your space, but you’re trying to figure out the logistics and cost of it all.Or maybe you’ve always dreamed of building a home, but you’re not sure the price tag is in your budget.Enter Noell Jett, a seasoned home renovator and author of Create Your Dream Home on a Budget.Noell joins Jordan to share practical tips on how you can create your dream home too.Get ready to take notes and tune in to this episode to learn:Practical tips for saving money when building, renovating, decorating, and sourcing materials for a homeHow to figure out when to do something yourself or hire someone else Factors to consider for each room you’re designing and planning How to have real talks about money and budgeting when planning home projectsTips for modernizing your home without a major renovationHow to juggle being a wife, mom, and supervising the construction of a homeWant to dig deeper? Explore these links mentioned in the episode:Jettsetfarmhouse.com@jettsetfarmhouse on InstagramCreate Your Dream Home on a Budget bookUse THIS LINK for $10 off your first Crunchi order

Many of us have goals and dreams that we’re passionate about pursuing (plus a lot of housework that needs to get done). So we put our heads down, create a to-do list, and try to make those goals happen.But at what point does trying to be productive leave you on a hamster wheel of never-ending work that sacrifices your mental health and relationships?While you may have started with drive and passion, the external pressure of trying to achieve it all can quickly turn into a chronic and unsustainable cycle of doing more - which can lead you to resent the work you once loved.So how can you lead a peacefully productive life that leaves room for rest, relationships, and what matters most?That’s what this episode explores! Jordan talks to Jess Massey, the founder of Hustle Sanely, about how we can pursue productivity while still prioritizing our health and relationships.Ready to pursue your goals without losing your mind? Tune in to this episode and learn:The dangers and negative effects of hustle cultureThe difference between hustle culture and peaceful productivityMyths that people believe you need to do to be productiveWhat work-life balance actually looks like Signs that you're burnt outHow to learn to slow down and enjoy restReady to dig deeper? Check out more from Jess at jessicamassey.com.

Raise your hand if you’ve ever experienced any of the following: heavy or painful periods, bloating, stubborn weight gain, dry skin and hair, brittle nails, PMS, or sleeplessness. 🙋‍♀️Did you know that all of these symptoms could be a sign of hormonal imbalance? So, what’s a girl to do? How can you figure out if your hormones are imbalanced and what habits can you incorporate to help improve them?Jordan explores the answers to those questions with hormone health educator Candace Burch. Together, they discuss easy ways to improve your hormonal health.Ready to get your hormones balanced again? Tune in to this episode to learn:The top hormone imbalances that women struggle with and symptoms to watch forRecommended testing to dig deeper into your hormonal healthCommon habits that actually contribute to hormonal imbalancesThe top non-negotiable habits to maintain hormonal healthThe dangers of toxins in household products and how they affect your hormonesHow to optimize your exercise for hormone balanceWant to dig deeper? Check out these links mentioned in the episode:yourhormonebalance.com (use the code SHE50 for $50 off testing & rebalancing packages)Hormone Imbalance QuizSHE podcast episodes with Alisa Vitti (#169 and #170)Crunchi: get $10 off your first order through this link

Have you ever thought about quitting your job and building your own business? Maybe you’ve daydreamed about having more freedom and flexibility in your schedule so you can spend more time with your family. Or maybe you’re not feeling excited about your current work and you want to build something that you’re passionate about. But on a practical level, what are you actually supposed to do? Do you quit your job tomorrow and dive into the deep end or is there a way to build something on the side while you figure out what works best for you?And what if you don’t even know what kind of business you want to build?In this episode, Jordan talks with online marketing expert Amy Porterfield about her new book, Two Weeks Notice, which helps you make the transition from a 9-5 job to building your own business.If you’ve ever considered becoming an entrepreneur, but need some step-by-step help to guide you, this episode is for you! Tune in to learn:How to make the transition from a 9-5 job to building your own businessThe pros and cons to running a businessThe most common objections that hold people back from starting something newHow to know when its time to quit your current job and tips for giving your noticeTips to discover your business idea and your target audienceThree revenue-generating strategies that you can use to start a businessWant to dig deeper? Dig into these resources mentioned in the episode:Two Weeks Notice by Amy PorterfieldOnline Marketing Made Easy podcast with Amy PorterfieldGet $10 off your first Crunchi order with this link

If you’ve struggled with acne or skin issues or you know someone else who is struggling, this episode is for you! As someone who has struggled with adult acne for years, Jordan has tried everything from laser treatments and extractions to countless acne products and elimination diets (all of which didn’t help promote true healing).But after years of trial and error, and working with functional doctors and aestheticians, she has discovered seven things that have been the most effective for healing and transforming her skin.In this episode, Jordan breaks them down for you!Ready to heal your skin? Tune in to learn:7 effective strategies for improving your skinFoods that can have an inflammatory effect on your skin and how to choose better optionsThe danger of many skincare products marketed for acneHow to find non-toxic skincare products that actually workWays caffeine can affect your skin healthThe role microneedling can play in healing your skinWant to dig deeper? Check out these links mentioned in the episode:Realmilk.comRestorflora ProbioticI Am Polished by CrunchiGoldenlight Serum by CrunchiCrunchi SkincareUse THIS LINK for $10 off your first Crunchi orderPurity CoffeeLifeboost CoffeeModere BioCell Liquid CollagenCrucial Four Collagen Powder

Have you ever considered how you might be able to support vulnerable children and their families?While many people believe the only way to do this is by fostering or adopting, the reality is that there are still plenty of additional ways we can support foster children and vulnerable women.And who better to provide suggestions and share a peak into the reality of the foster care system than Tori Hope Petersen, a former foster youth turned foster and adoptive mom?In her new book Fostered, Tori shares her powerful story of growing up in the foster care system and finding faith.And in this episode, she joins Jordan to talk about how we can support foster families and children.Tune in to learn: Tori’s story of growing up in the foster care system and later becoming a foster mom, adoptive mom, and authorHow growing up in the foster care system can shape your identityWhat the Bible has to say about the Church's role in helping care for the vulnerableWays we can support those vulnerable children and their families, outside of fostering and adoptionWhat it looks like for the Church to be "radically hospitable"Struggles that are being seen in the foster care system and how it can be improvedHow to address the trauma that a foster child might faceWant to dig deeper? Explore these links mentioned in the episode to learn more: Fostered by Tori Hope Petersentorihopepetersen.com@torihopepetersen on InstagramEmbrace Your Almost by Jordan Lee Dooley